Girl asks guy

[lxr]

First this girl whom I had friend zoned because she had been dating the same guy for ~1.5 years asked me to to prom with her. I agreed, thinking that it would be a more casual prom date.

Recently she told me another couple (dating) in our prom group was going to hang out this weekend (movie or bowling) and that they invited us.

I now understand that she is probably in to me romantically, but I'm not familiar with a girl asking me out.....

So what does the DJ do? Proceed normally, or be harder to get?

 

[Spyder213]

Just hang out with her if you like her.. I dont see the point of playing hard to get now as shes already attracted to you enough to ask you out...

 

[Analyzeit]

Just go.

Don't make yourself look desperate and way to eager to go but go.

 

[lxr]

K, she asked me to take her to a panera becuase she said it would be really conveniant or something, so I did. It was fun and normal.

 

[thewickedm]

Would really love to hear your elaboration about the fun and normal bro

 

[lxr]

Well, we ate dinner. She talked about 70% so I would say I did welll there. It was mostly interesting stuff and she seemed interested and happy. In terms of my growth, it was good date. I am becoming more confident. About her specifically, well , I'm not that into her really so i might break it off soon.

 

[lxr]

Wow she is super into me i guess... Within this weekend she asked me to go bowling and to go to church with her. I suppose ill tell her I'd rather be friends and just have a good time at prom?

 

[BananaSmile]

why didn't you have a prom date before?
and if ur planning to break up

U:lets have seks
if she says no there u go

 

[lxr]

she asked me about really early - like 1.5 months before prom. I wasn't thinking about it much (though i did have some girls i was thinking about)

 

[lxr]

btw *slightly off topic*
is it weird if i want to wait till... later... to lose my virginity? Am i gonna lose a lot of girls?

 

[HariPoter13]

Dont be afraid, its not a big deal. You may regret not doing so (not taking action) later in life. Just go with the flow and if it happens great! If not still great because you wont have any regrets.

Just go out there, have some fun and dont be afraid of new experiences.

 

[DILLWEED]

Ive always been a firm believer of poon-tang, poon-tang sitting on a fence man who dont take it aint got no sence. haha jk man, But no i totally agree with HariPoter13.

 

[teddy240]

I waited to have sex, with someone that was my girlfriend that was also a virgin, what did i learn? Sex is just sex. And once you get some its not special at all. I mean ya it was great to be with someone on the same level as me and do it together but honestly if you have a girl all hot and heavy pull the trigger...BOOM!