gifts and girls-what do they expect

[joe45]

was talking to a gurl online-who said that one of her ex bf the richest one bought her a 350 fendi wallet , and when she goes shopping her other ex bfs have bought her items-not exactly sure what. this also other girl i talking to online-said her bf a painter gave her 100 dollars to spend to go shopping she said she wanted nike shoxs. i told the other girl this and shes like ah what only 100 dollars. lol
is this normal behaviour for guys to do to girls give em money to shop and buy em things or is it jsut for some.

ok guys have u ever dated or been wiht a gf were u spend and bought em stuff while shopping.i mean u guys go mall shopping to look around and she wanted this dress and u were like ah ok i buy it for u-lets say its 270 bucks-do u do it or do u say ah NO.

or something like that do u buy girls stuff while u are shopping with em. do girls even expect this from a guy they are dating.

and when do u give gifts to a girl during the time u are dating em-after the 5th date or what.... and what do u give em-not the richest guy.

 

[seanchai]

Before you get flamed to death...

You're going to hear it's AFC to buy presents for girls - it's not. It's only AFC if YOU are AFC and you're trying to buy her affection. If you're giving gifts just because you want to, then there's nothing wrong with it.

I think the best gift you can give a girl on the 5th date is a mind-blowing orgasm, but that's just me. It's free and it'll get you a lot more affection than a Fendi wallet.

 

[wowiehowie]

Yes, I agree that giving her d!ck would be a terrific gift!

 

[GirlCrazy]

Originally posted by wowiehowie
Yes, I agree that giving her d!ck would be a terrific gift!

...it's the gift that keeps on giving!

 

[Smooth Player 056]

I do not buy ANYTHINIG for a girl....until AFTER I have slept with her.

~Smooth

 

[seanchai]

Smooth,

That's good general advice I think. It's best to lay off anything that's common (i.e. flowers, gifts) until you've established what kind of guy you are.

On the other hand, I bought a girlfriend a vibrator for a first present before we slept together, and the first thing I bought my current girlfriend was "My Secret Garden: Women's Sexual Fantasies" by Nancy Friday (nasty ass book ). These are good gifts because you get a nice return on them.

 

[High Voltage]

I spend around $20-$30 per gift, and this is only on conventional occaisions such as their birthdays and christmas. I'll randomly pay for a portion of their meals if we're out and I feel like it as well. I will only do this after sex.

I see no reason to spend more than this. They get the gift of being with me and that is more than enough. Men are not ATM machines. Similarly, I don't expect expensive or frequent gifts from them.

- HV

 

[lets_do_this]

If anything, they should be the one giving us gifts.

I used to buy gifts for girls, but i learned this just gives the image that you are beneath them.

We are not beneath these girls. They are beneath us, and therefore no gifts should be given whatsoever unless it is their b-days or your anniversary.

 

[MightyMate]

I do not think buying gifts is a good idea.