Clever man.Thanks! that is what I go for. If one doesn't take responsibility, what good can come from ones mistakes? Sure its been a while, but I know the streak will end eventually. I like to take stock where I am, understand the challenges ahead and go forward. If this means swinging down , than it might be a good idea while in normal circumstances it might not be.
"women can sense a desperate, needy man and that is not directly related to how much sex you have."
Not directly, no. But indirectly, your body language, manner of speaking will telagraph these things for you. I know this because I have been in a totally reversed situation from where I am now, and had zero trouble during those times. People's overall attention to you is a confluence of things, most of which are derived from confidence in some way. You see this in sports, the work place..everywhere.
Ur "mojo" is missing and that's not a problem to get back.
It's actually really easy to gain back. All you hv to do is put urself into a positive position - that means enlarging ur sphere of influence.
One idea is to join a nature/travel club that goes out camping or long drives. Facebook has lots of groups. Plenty of girls are looking to hitch a ride...