Been cold approaching a lot lately. One day, I went out ended up getting a few numbers and one of them was this redhead Australian girl tourist who was by herself. Let's call her Kathy. Giggly and super receptive when I approached her. Got her number, brought her close by the lower back, and she definitely was open for a kiss right then and there but I held off. I said I'll text ya, see ya later. Texted her a few hours later and wanted to see if she was down for something that night, no response. Was sexting this other girl tourist that I met that same day in the meantime, so completely unbothered.
Next day, I send another text because why not. She seemed really into it. She ends up responding 8 hours later, I give her a time. This is the rest of the text exchange. I had noticed she was pretty short with her responses, and mine were longer..and she'd annoyingly take forever to respond.
When I got to her place, she came out super happy, embraced and we kissed. Then I took her to my car, and I told her we can go to Wrigleyville or this super cool place in Indiana, which was a longer drive. She was ok with whatever, so I drove her an hour to a beach in Indiana. Turns out she's super shy and I had to carry much of the conversation until she was more comfortable asking questions for some more back and forth. I was escalating most of the time while driving, caressing her thighs and inching closer, pulling back at times so I wasn't too eager or making her uncomfortable, and she didn't mind, except she was guarding her vagina. We're talking about her pet rabbit, music, other things we had in common, and I toss in flirting. Super shy but she was giggling and smiling the whole time
Anyways, we get to the beach, it's night by the time we get there. It's also cold so I give her my puffer jacket and we walk down to a bench facing the ocean. We're the only ones there, so perfect. I sat down and had her sit on my lap. She obliges and embraces my neck, and then we end up making out in that position for a while. I ask if she's comfortable, she says yes. I end up moving my hand downstairs after making out for some time, reaching into her pants and she was ultra wet. I fingered her from there and she gets to squirming and a soft moan here and there. She ends up convulsing after I keep going and she's grabbing me tight. She's also caressing, licking, and kissing my neck, face, and ears. She sits on my lap from the other side and from the front throughout, and we're just doing the same thing. I finger her again at some point through her pants and she orgasms once again. She says we keep it PG, then I pull back, and eventually inch my way back with no resistance. She was fine with me reaching and caressing her cheeks but pulled she'd gently pull my hands away from the merchandise a few times and I oblige. Never resisted and just pushed through without care when she'd pull my hands back.
At some point, I say, is kissing all you want to do? She smiles and says it seems that's all you wanna do. But I made it known I wanted to **** her. I said I'd put her against the wall, do so many things, destroy her but she would just say not tonight. I even said, you wanna go back to the car? And she said, we can do that but we're not having sex. She'd even back into my d!ck and I'd thrust. I never pouted, just kept doing what we were doing before. After some time, we head back to the car, and I drive her an hour back to her place.
We end up talking about more things, getting to know each other, and I'm touching her again. I joke about how she's guarding the castle and I might have to break through the gates with an army, and she laughs. She obliges so long as I don't touch her pu$$y and just grabs my hand at some point and I alternate between hands/thighs. She tells me she's leaving Chicago, to visit Wisconsin, but will be back on the 18th. When I dropped her off, we made out again and I told her to let me know when she'd be back. She said she would but never did. I let a day go pass before reaching out again on the 17th. And then more than a day later, I say damn I expected more from you. Boom, ghosted.
****ty feeling, feel used for some reason. Maybe because I had to lead on ****ing everything to get things moving. And maybe she was Oscar level acting things out, but things seemed to go well. I make you bust twice and you ain't coming back? That was some convincing **** if it was somehow fake. I wanted to take things further but now I'm left in the dark. Disappointed. This girl was hot, modest personality, super super chill. I'm hung up over it, even though I know it's not good.
I used to be pretty pushy to be honest with other dates, but I definitely worked on toning that down with this one. Maybe not enough? Even so, why ghost?

Next day, I send another text because why not. She seemed really into it. She ends up responding 8 hours later, I give her a time. This is the rest of the text exchange. I had noticed she was pretty short with her responses, and mine were longer..and she'd annoyingly take forever to respond.
When I got to her place, she came out super happy, embraced and we kissed. Then I took her to my car, and I told her we can go to Wrigleyville or this super cool place in Indiana, which was a longer drive. She was ok with whatever, so I drove her an hour to a beach in Indiana. Turns out she's super shy and I had to carry much of the conversation until she was more comfortable asking questions for some more back and forth. I was escalating most of the time while driving, caressing her thighs and inching closer, pulling back at times so I wasn't too eager or making her uncomfortable, and she didn't mind, except she was guarding her vagina. We're talking about her pet rabbit, music, other things we had in common, and I toss in flirting. Super shy but she was giggling and smiling the whole time
Anyways, we get to the beach, it's night by the time we get there. It's also cold so I give her my puffer jacket and we walk down to a bench facing the ocean. We're the only ones there, so perfect. I sat down and had her sit on my lap. She obliges and embraces my neck, and then we end up making out in that position for a while. I ask if she's comfortable, she says yes. I end up moving my hand downstairs after making out for some time, reaching into her pants and she was ultra wet. I fingered her from there and she gets to squirming and a soft moan here and there. She ends up convulsing after I keep going and she's grabbing me tight. She's also caressing, licking, and kissing my neck, face, and ears. She sits on my lap from the other side and from the front throughout, and we're just doing the same thing. I finger her again at some point through her pants and she orgasms once again. She says we keep it PG, then I pull back, and eventually inch my way back with no resistance. She was fine with me reaching and caressing her cheeks but pulled she'd gently pull my hands away from the merchandise a few times and I oblige. Never resisted and just pushed through without care when she'd pull my hands back.
At some point, I say, is kissing all you want to do? She smiles and says it seems that's all you wanna do. But I made it known I wanted to **** her. I said I'd put her against the wall, do so many things, destroy her but she would just say not tonight. I even said, you wanna go back to the car? And she said, we can do that but we're not having sex. She'd even back into my d!ck and I'd thrust. I never pouted, just kept doing what we were doing before. After some time, we head back to the car, and I drive her an hour back to her place.
We end up talking about more things, getting to know each other, and I'm touching her again. I joke about how she's guarding the castle and I might have to break through the gates with an army, and she laughs. She obliges so long as I don't touch her pu$$y and just grabs my hand at some point and I alternate between hands/thighs. She tells me she's leaving Chicago, to visit Wisconsin, but will be back on the 18th. When I dropped her off, we made out again and I told her to let me know when she'd be back. She said she would but never did. I let a day go pass before reaching out again on the 17th. And then more than a day later, I say damn I expected more from you. Boom, ghosted.
****ty feeling, feel used for some reason. Maybe because I had to lead on ****ing everything to get things moving. And maybe she was Oscar level acting things out, but things seemed to go well. I make you bust twice and you ain't coming back? That was some convincing **** if it was somehow fake. I wanted to take things further but now I'm left in the dark. Disappointed. This girl was hot, modest personality, super super chill. I'm hung up over it, even though I know it's not good.
I used to be pretty pushy to be honest with other dates, but I definitely worked on toning that down with this one. Maybe not enough? Even so, why ghost?


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