I agree with this... the issue is that I cannot conspire a way to relay my boundaries in this regard without coming off as AFC or insecure.Bokanovsky said:One thing is certain though. The fact that the OP's girlfriend allows this guy to do things and buy stuff for her speaks poorly about her character, even if she does not actually fvck him.
Bit of background on the orbiter:
- Been friends with gf years before I came into the picture (even when she had another bf)
- Seems to always talk about me everytime whe 1on1 with her and in a mocking light. Will even go to the extent of making up stories in attempt to disqualify me
My greatest displeasure is when she visits him at his workplace to have lunch with as a 'return the favour' sort of thing. I believe I need to be careful with my wording to express some sort of boundary the next time this occurs
OR... I can leave it be and see if her true nature comes out to which I simply 'next' her.
Any help in how to tackle the boundary setting conversation would be greatly appreciated.