GF's best friend getting married

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And her relationship represents everything I hate about modern marriage. She's mid-30s, 8 y/o kid, absent father, and has a great job making six figures. He's a couple years older, has two kids about to graduate high school, and a decent job but probably half of what she makes. And he's ugly as hell.

Every impression I get about the guy is that he is a giant pvssy, a beta male kiss-ass with a ring. The father of the woman's child is a former pro athlete and she's talked about how masculine he was. That's been her only serious relationship, and now she's with mr nice guy, the exact opposite. He sucks up to her kid, and gets his own kids to call her mommy. They did that on facebook, and their real mom went ballistic. She's got to be a domineering b!tch, but he's still scared of her, because he's a pvssy. He used his kids in his marriage proposal routine, which makes me dislike him even more.

What makes me mad is that the woman could do a lot better if she would just learn how to be a woman. She's loud, brash, vulgar, and does not know how to be feminine, despite being very pretty. She needs to diet and work out, too, she's not far off from being quite hot. But she's a modern independent woman and looking good for men is not a priority to her.

The first time I met her, she was drunk at a party, and the very first thing she said to me was that she hoped I had a twin. I have always told my gf that she has 'needs some d!ck' written on her forehead. She is lonely, and that is what makes her new guy so great - he's somebody! Being lonely is what they have in common.

I want to think she'll get bored of him within a couple years, but maybe not. Maybe this is what marriage is today - beta males sucking up to working women so they can attach themselves to their finances. That describes my mom and stepdad perfectly, and they are still together. I guess as women get older, their hormone levels drop, and the importance of a man being attractive or turning them on drops down on their list of priorities. It's frustrating to try and be attractive when woman just don't seem to care. They marry the first chump who will kiss their ass. But if the woman makes twice what the man does, who's the real chump? It seems like a mutual swindle.
 

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But if the woman makes twice what the man does, who's the real chump? It seems like a mutual swindle.
Yeah, I mean he's ugly, has two kids to her one, and makes half of what she does? Some might consider him a gigolo. It doesn't sound like his SMV is through the roof. Ah, if only he knew "game", right? Is that what you're trying to say? At least if they get divorced, he shouldn't come out any worse than he is going in. She certainly doesn't sound like the type of woman I would be interested in, but hey, to each his own. Who cares what this guy does? Just goes to show that even if you are a giant pvssy, you can get laid, lol.
 

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...and now that her best friend is getting married, she's gonna push for a ring from you

I think she's given up and is depressed about it. She just loves the new guy, too, and hates it that I don't like him. She and I are about to have a talk. I'm not against marriage; I just want to know I'm going to be treated well, and I'm never going to be an ass-kissing AFC. I just wish women would understand the connection between being able to make a man happy and getting a good man. Modern women seem to have a vendetta against that idea - how dare anyone insinuate that a woman should make a man happy. It's supposed to be the other way around.

Just goes to show that even if you are a giant pvssy, you can get laid, lol.

A giant pvssy with a ring; the ring is the important part. They started talking about marriage almost immediately. I think they've been dating about two months.
 

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Live and let live. Or live and let the beta die via nagging b tches. Either way.
 

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I did ask my gf flat out if she was upset that her friend had a ring, and she didn't. I wasn't going to whip one out if she said yes; I was going to tell her to act better. But she said very matter of factly, "No, I don't want a ring right now." And then I thought :rockon: because I am totally off the hook now for another year or two. She's kissing up to me again. One of my neighbors has the hots for me, and I was feeling her up yesterday. Women can always smell when another one is after you.

And then she said, "I was just really happy for her, because she told me "I finally found a father for my little girl and I thought I never would."

There's some fodder for sosuave. I think it's obvious that even though every single mom you will ever date will tell you "I am not looking for a father for my children," that is a big lie. They all are.

This experience inspired me to post this thread: http://www.sosuave.net/forum/showthread.php?t=216869

You can be a complete pvssy of a man and still do well with women. I really hate that.
 

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Bible_Belt said:
You can be a complete pvssy of a man and still do well with women. I really hate that.
Yes but at the end of the day pvssy's are low grade men that attract low grade women. In the end women never respect those types anyways. They just use them for their own insecurities.
 

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Bible_Belt said:
And her relationship represents everything I hate about modern marriage. She's mid-30s, 8 y/o kid, absent father, and has a great job making six figures. He's a couple years older, has two kids about to graduate high school, and a decent job but probably half of what she makes. And he's ugly as hell.

Every impression I get about the guy is that he is a giant pvssy, a beta male kiss-ass with a ring. The father of the woman's child is a former pro athlete and she's talked about how masculine he was. That's been her only serious relationship, and now she's with mr nice guy, the exact opposite. He sucks up to her kid, and gets his own kids to call her mommy. They did that on facebook, and their real mom went ballistic. She's got to be a domineering b!tch, but he's still scared of her, because he's a pvssy. He used his kids in his marriage proposal routine, which makes me dislike him even more.

What makes me mad is that the woman could do a lot better if she would just learn how to be a woman. She's loud, brash, vulgar, and does not know how to be feminine, despite being very pretty. She needs to diet and work out, too, she's not far off from being quite hot. But she's a modern independent woman and looking good for men is not a priority to her.

The first time I met her, she was drunk at a party, and the very first thing she said to me was that she hoped I had a twin. I have always told my gf that she has 'needs some d!ck' written on her forehead. She is lonely, and that is what makes her new guy so great - he's somebody! Being lonely is what they have in common.

I want to think she'll get bored of him within a couple years, but maybe not. Maybe this is what marriage is today - beta males sucking up to working women so they can attach themselves to their finances. That describes my mom and stepdad perfectly, and they are still together. I guess as women get older, their hormone levels drop, and the importance of a man being attractive or turning them on drops down on their list of priorities. It's frustrating to try and be attractive when woman just don't seem to care. They marry the first chump who will kiss their ass. But if the woman makes twice what the man does, who's the real chump? It seems like a mutual swindle.
she could hit by a bus any time, than no man wants her
ticking time **** you know that right
 

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Bible_Belt said:
Every impression I get about the guy is that he is a giant pvssy, a beta male kiss-ass with a ring. ..........He sucks up to her kid, and gets his own kids to call her mommy........He used his kids in his marriage proposal routine, which makes me dislike him even more.
This the misery of it all - raising new generations to be JUST LIKE THIS. Maybe these poor kids will snap out of it when they see their father being used and abused, but it still hurts their pride. My wife's father is like this with his new wife, who basically calls all the shots. Although she recognizes it, it still sucks to see your father being made a chump by a domineering woman. Divorce and its consequences are just so damn f*cked up and far-reaching. But people don't care....they like drama and are only in it for how they feel at the moment.

I hate people.
 

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Update - she dumped him. I had a good time rubbing it in to my gf that I was right about everything :D The girl wrote a long paragraph about how awful the guy was and posted it as a facebook status.

She was going to give his $6,000 ring back, but she said when they were fighting he told her he fvcked another girl while they were engaged, so she got mad and kept the ring. He will be making payments on it for years.
 

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Sometimes when a relationship is full of drama.. And has been full of deceit and humiliation.. You realize it is not the best thing for you or your daughter.. Since I've been engaged, it is what my relationship has been full of.. So we decided today.. It is not a good thing and we are done. So I'm done with the toxicity..
 

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Dear Bible Belt,
But she still kept the Ring LOL.
 

It doesn't matter how good-looking you are, how romantic you are, how funny you are... or anything else. If she doesn't have something INVESTED in you and the relationship, preferably quite a LOT invested, she'll dump you, without even the slightest hesitation, as soon as someone a little more "interesting" comes along.

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