Perfect! This thread is for guys like you and I'm glad you replied. How would you feel if there's a really pretty girl. And you like her a lot because she's really sweet and basically she's your soulmate.
Finally both of you guys are very much in love with each other and very hoooorny. And you take off her and your clothes. Your so horny that it feels like your balls will explode. Then you grab your penis and come near her and suddenly she just stops you there and pulls out a dildo
Then she says "I'm kinda bored of penises. Penetrate me with this dildo". That would just hurt you deeply inside, wouldn't it?
Uhhh...that makes no sense, but nice try.
1) I don't give a fvck about a girl being "sweet"
2) Soulmates don't exist. That type of Bullsh!t is for women to think of and worry about, not guys. But you feminists have done a great job through your mental conditioning of these poor young boys growing up through Disney movies and Hollywood of how they should act towards women so they are easy to control. Yet, at the same time you wish to control them, you cannot respect them as a man, because they have surrendered their maleness to you. So then you turn around and complain about how "there are no REAL men left". Well no sh!t princess, you spent their entire boyhood teaching them to become little beta b!tches and shame them for expressing their maleness then wonder why the type of men you "want" sexually don't exist. Duh...
3) What she says at the time is irrelevant because once I start using my fingering technique she is going to squirt within 5 minutes and I can keep making it happen over and over again. After that she will do whatever I want her to. Trust me, I know firsthand.
Would it hurt? Hell no. I'd just let her know I'll have someone else come over and she can feel free to stay and watch or if she's like to join in then that's fine as well.
Maybe you are just upset because you try and hide from your sexuality instead of embracing it.