walker_hunter2010 said:
Like the title implies my gf went out with a guy to drink. She got drunk and sleep at his place at another room, and nothing happen that's what she told me. Basically she told me the whole story after 2 weeks. What do you think I should do? I'm definitely not okay with her drinking with another guy and get drunk because I know its easy to get ****. This actually happen when we got into an argument, and during that week of argument she went out drinking. In my mind I was thinking ****ing ***** she wants another ****. Thanks god the guy is a ****ing chode and didn't try to **** her. But I know it was very easy for her to get ****, if it was a regular guy with some game. My question is how should I react?
I'm sorry man but what she did was disrespectful. Think about it (common sense and logic)...
YOUR GIRLFRIEND went out drinking with ANOTHER GUY, gets DRUNK with THIS GUY, crashes at HIS PLACE and CLAIMS she was just in ANOTHER ROOM.
OK, to be fair if she got drunk and the whole situation was platonic (which I highly doubt) and she did have some respect for you she could've....
1. Crashed at her friend's place
2. Taken a cab and go directly home
BUT SHE DIDN'T... The only way you find out is through an argument.
MEN AND WOMEN WHO GO OUT TOGETHER TO GET SMASHED AND SLEEP OVER AT THE GUY'S PLACE HAVE ONE THING IN MIND, THEY'RE DOWN TO FVCK.
IF SHE HAD ANY RESPECT FOR YOU AND THE RELATIONSHIP SHE WOULD'VE ACTED LIKE A LADY AND PURSUE THOSE 2 OPTIONS ABOVE BUT SHE DIDN'T. EVEN THE SLIGHTEST CHANCE SHE DIDN'T CHEAT ON YOU, SHE DOESN'T RESPECT THE BOUNDARIES OF YOUR RELATIONSHIP.
Personally I would get rid of her and pursue other women. You might consider her as an fvck buddy/low level plate but for the most I would get rid of her. Ultimately, it's your choice but just remember this...
IF SOMEONE WAS IMPORTANT/VALUABLE TO US WE WOULD NEVER RISK LOSING THEM.