GF upset I won't go to her HS reunion w/her

[baltyre]

We've been together for 4+ months. She has her 10 year high school reunion in May. It is formal with everybody getting dressed up & going all out. I told her I didn't want to go and now she is mad at me.

For starters, I won't know anybody and it will be boring. She's excited about talking to old friends, but that will be very boring for me. It just seems like a lot of hassle, and we've only been together for 4+ months. It will kill my entire Saturday too. I don't think I'm being selfish, it's not like I've known her for 7-8 months, just 4+. What do you think?

 

[hithard]

Do you care if the relationship goes anywhere?

 

[Francisco d'Anconia]

Do you care if the relationship goes anywhere?

:rockon: :rockon: :rockon:

 

[baltyre]

i like her, and I do want the relationship to progress. Do you think sends a message that I don't see her as my GF?

 

[Jitterbug]

Did you tell her why you don't want to go?

 

[Francisco d'Anconia]

It says that you don't care enough about her to endure through a tough situation which will be even tougher on her.

 

[Phyzzle]

^^He speaks the truth.

And I must add, 4 months is plenty long to go to a social engagement that isn't just the 2 of you.

 

[##17]

If you like her, its one evening of your life. For chrissake, just suck up and go.

 

[Latinoman]

We've been together for 4+ months. She has her 10 year high school reunion in May. It is formal with everybody getting dressed up & going all out. I told her I didn't want to go and now she is mad at me.

For starters, I won't know anybody and it will be boring. She's excited about talking to old friends, but that will be very boring for me. It just seems like a lot of hassle, and we've only been together for 4+ months. It will kill my entire Saturday too. I don't think I'm being selfish, it's not like I've known her for 7-8 months, just 4+. What do you think?

And some men wonder why their women cheat on them.

I think you are way too self-fish and clueless.

 

[wjh]

Don't go with her. Even though this is important to her, and she knew people in HS (obviously), and maybe even had sex with a few, and will be drinking, and coming home late.

Nah, there's no reason for you to go.

Obviously you don't want to be the man by her side at events that matter to her. You've just given her a reason to look for the bigger better deal.

 

[KarmaSutra]

To her this is an extremely uplifting event. It's a chance to one-up her classmates (possibly) and show you off. Which, by your disposition, doesn't mean jack sh!t to you.

Did that ever cross your mind? That she may have found a catch and would like to smack her girlfriends in the face with you.

Think before you open your mouth from now on brother.

 

[Francisco d'Anconia]

Don't go with her. Even though this is important to her, and she knew people in HS (obviously), and maybe even had sex with a few, and will be drinking, and coming home late.

Nah, there's no reason for you to go.

Obviously you don't want to be the man by her side at events that matter to her. You've just given her a reason to look for the bigger better deal.

You have no idea what a reunion means to a woman and what it means to a guy who she asks to go along. There's more than one reason why she doesn't want to go stag.

 

[DJDamage]

You have no idea what a reunion means to a woman and what it means to a guy who she asks to go along. There's more than one reason why she doesn't want to go stag.

Yep the whole reunion is about her showing off to the world that she didn't end up being a lonley loser. You going to take that away from her and she might find another date.....

 

[drmeathead]

Yep the whole reunion is about her showing off to the world that she didn't end up being a lonley loser. You going to take that away from her and she might find another date.....

or just **** the quaterback while there...seriously go. reunions are all about people showing off or getting it on with that one that got away. go get drunk have fun hotel sex make a movie put it on redtube or youporn.

 

[STR8UP]

This is one of those things like driving two hours to go visit her parents.

You don't WANT to do it, but you pretty much have to.

 

[armadon]

HAHA I went to my GF reunion at the time and I acted like I was a former student. We got a big kick out of it. It's funny watching peoples faces trying to recognize you. I had a nametag and everything.

 

[hithard]

Well everyone pretty much beat me to it. If you don't care about the relationship don't go. And if that is the case maybe you would be better off either single or with a Fu*k buddy. That way you can do what you want without the hassle. Relationships usually mean sucking it up every now and then, especial when she is excited about something. Remember it’s not all about you in a relationship unless you want a short one.

This is one of those things she will remember for a long time and will probably come back to haunt you if you don’t go.

 

[Bible_Belt]

As has already been said, go or she'll cheat.

 

[ZenGodMod]

To her this is an extremely uplifting event. It's a chance to one-up her classmates (possibly) and show you off. Which, by your disposition, doesn't mean jack sh!t to you.

Did that ever cross your mind? That she may have found a catch and would like to smack her girlfriends in the face with you.

Think before you open your mouth from now on brother.

Karma is right!

I've been there.
It's gonna be the most boring few hours of your life, but keep smiling.
Cause she wants to show you off. The other girls back in her high school days will try and lower you, believe me they'll try to discredit you with a million questions. Make it seems like your an AFC.

Here is some questions you'll be asked.

q:"what do you do for a living?"
a:"I bang the senses out of my girlfriend"

q:"Hehe! I mean, professionally"
a:"Yes of course i do her professionally"

q:"Where did you guys meet?" Trying to see if your not a paid date.
a:"When i was buying my first mustang, saw her in the drivers sit, told her to get out i want to ride it first, next thing you know I'm riding her. She's a much better ride then a mustang"

Those of the memorial questions the rest gets tedious and then you start to drink the night away shaking a hundred sweaty palms and ending up in the bathroom with the other guys in her old high school who never where able to **** her.

Christ, thank god there is only one high school re-union.



Don't get discredited, that's your duty the whole dame night. PAINFUL

 

[ZenGodMod]

oh remember another one, this one cracked me up.

q:"hey, your (so and so)'s guy right?"
a:"yep"
q:"cool, i knew her back in high school, we're where really good friends..." hehe you didn't get lucky "i'm a lawyer, i work at .... blah blah"mentions a firm and gives me the look like he works at the biggest firm in the world and all the jazz.
a:"prosecutor hey! Hope you got good life insurance, you really love to live life on the edge" barf!