C'mon fellas... no one knows this situation better than I...
...I am truly moved by the support here, for real... but this chic, is WAY more together than some of the ones I've dated in the past, combined that with the simple fact that all women are wackos, and I've actually made out pretty damn good. It seems everytime I come here to ask for good solid advise, I get 'DUDE... NEXT HER!' ...which isn't again, the question I originally asked. LOL!
...I didn't asked 'Hey, should I next this chic?' ...I asked, 'Is it possible to be too much of a mystery, after 3 years?' ....some of you guys crack me up!
.....I can't recall what my question was the last time here but the same peeps, always respond 'DUDE! NEXT HER!' ... LOL! ...I think my last post was about PPD, and how to best handle it.... and I get 'DUDE! NEXT HER!' ROTFLMAO!!!!
Here is just a reminder so you guys know where I stand.... yes, I am a Pimp....... first and foremost...... secondly, I can distinguish great from good, as well as good from bad, and I don't waste my time with average, or bad. With that said, if you find a woman close to great, in her 20's, I'm talking fine fine fine... from the way she looks, where her financial status is, to how she performs in bed, to her skills in the kitchen, down to the knowledge of handling kids, you stick with her, you don't throw her back, hoping to one day find that perfect combo again. Don't be stupid fellas. In case you guys haven't learned yet.... and if you got leg like I have, it don't matter how fine she is, somewhere, there's a guy who is probably sick of her sh*t. *shrugs* Let me put it this way......
If you find a diamond in the rough, don't throw it back because it's a bit rough around the edges. THEY ARE ALL ROUGH AROUND THE EDGES..... don't you know this already?........if you find one that fits your list of 'Must Haves'...then congrat! .....but my list is longer....... but.......If it shines of potential, you have to mode it your likings. Ya don't ever throw a phat diamond away, and you don't NEXT a 6ft. blonde nurse, who's got everything already, and needs nothing from you. You just don't do it. You can try to find someone else better, you have the right, and as a American Pimp, you should do that..... but lets not go NEXTING anyone until you do, especially if she's the mother of your 1 month old child.... it's just common sense fellas. Besides, like I said, she's got a lot of women beat in many areas I hold strong. I've NEXT plenty.... bad apples, after bad apples, to find this one.... she don't need me, and I certainly don't need her.... we both know this. It's also oen of the thigns that I find attractive about her, and like wise, she finds attractive about me..... I don't need a woman who depends on me, for money, for attention.... she's got all that already. See where I'm getting at here? ...this is a LTR... this is a whole different game now, with a whole different set of rules.... we've left the college ranks, we're in the pros now... games a little faster here... a little more to risk now..... you can do two things now.. you can either make it happen for YOU, and enjoy the hard work... or you can quit, and go back to the college ranks, and play the NEXT game.... and just like my pimpness, quitting it's my style.......but like everytime I post on here, it don'tmatter what the question is, it's 'DUDE! NEXT HER!' LOL! ....Nexting is for beginners, I'm in the Pros now.
I thought you made a good point PhoenixPUA.... it's true, women do wig out a little after child birth.... and a close bud did tell me months ago, for me not to be surprise if she thinks you are creeping around. She just doesn't want to lose Big Daddy that's all. I told her I wasn't going anywhere, as long as she's the mother of my child. Which got me some love....
PuertoRican_Lover, you are right.... and how I have displayed myself to her, I wouldn't trust me either.... I am THE master, of playing the mystery card.. it comes from years of just being a pimp. It comes all natural now... to the point that I don't even know I am doing it... if my cellphone rings, and she;s with me, I don't answer it.... why? Because back in the days, if I was out with woman, and my cellphone rang, who else would it be on the other line but the Other Woman.... so this sends up flags to her.... then when I say I'll be over in an hour, and sometimes not show up, instead I'm out playing cards with my homies... another flag.... you are right bro, I wouldn't trust me either....
myfriendblu.... leave it to you bro... to consistantly come up with the most awful observations.... she's trying to sabotage the relationship..... Christ dude.... that's bad. Why..... why oh why man.... after all this time, you can still come up with the worst advise? .....have you not learned anything on here, AT ALL?!?! LOL!!!!!!!!!!! ......I don't know what is more heartbreaking.. the fact that you have no clue, or that you actually thought it, and then, typed it to dusplay for all to see, the cluelessness.... truly heartbreaking bro. /shakes head
Top Don........... maybe one of these days, until then, there's always masterbating.
Matt... bro.. I am deeply surprised by your comments. That's not like you.... I know you've mentioend that our situations are close, but I don't think you know for sure bro... after all, how much can one know thru PM's?
Just to clear up some things.... there is nothing wrong with our relationship, that most LTR ppl don't go thru... we have a child, with that comes certain dramas... PPD, trust, etc.... it all comes with the territory, ain't nothing new here.... Again, my question is.....
Can ONE, be TOO MUCH, of a mystery, even after 3 years? Is it harmful?
Please LTR DJ's only.. or ones that have been in LTR....
