Hey guys.
I actually met a girl I like! I don't know about you guys, but I used to always mess it up with the girls I was into. I've been making little notes for myself to stay on track, and I figured I'd share them with you guys. Some of this stuff is from my best friend Phil, some from personal experience, and some from the DYD Advanced Series. Hopefully these notes can help you to see why the girls you're not into ALWAYS stick around, and how you can use the same principles to "keep the keepers
Vassago
P.S. Ok this is REALLY funny. Right after I cut and pasted the stuff below, she called me, and to make a long story short, she's taking ME out to dinner tonight cause she HAS to see me before I leave to Chicago! So gentlemen, this stuff works!
G.F. Notes
Always keep the challenge alive!
Don’t be predictable…Don’t always call when you say you will.
Don’t make yourself too available.
Call at the last possible second…Wait as long as you can. (Like when returning a message).
He who leaves the answering machine message loses power…You are at the mercy of that person to call you back. Always leave a message, BUT, Answer your phone every 3rd time she calls… make her leave messages too.
Don’t over-qualify, over-agree, over-reciprocate (like with ticking... if she tickles you once, don't tickle back 3 times)
She must be chasing you, (in the bedroom as well). If she isn’t chasing, SHE will get bored.
She has to put work into the relationship for her to value it. This includes calling, trying to make plans, picking you up, doing favors for you, taking you out, etc. That doesn't mean you do NO work, but make sure she is working too.
In the bedroom, don’t worry so much about pleasing her. Don’t always try to make out with her…It shows too much interest, and can be taken as an attempt to validate her attraction for you. Lay back and relax once in awhile. Have her be on top.
Don’t try to make plans with every call. Be vague…Leave it open as to whether you will call or not, and don’t!
The goal of every phone call is to get her to try to make plans with you. Most guys have this backwards.
Make her worry that you are just using her for sex.
Girls you’re not into – you usually call later to set up plans. Girls you are into – you usually call early to set up plans. Switch it up! Call her at 8:00 instead of 3:00 pm every once in while... It will look like you are calling because you have nothing else to do.
Never forget the “power struggle”. If she even THINKS she has the power, she will be over you in a second.
I actually met a girl I like! I don't know about you guys, but I used to always mess it up with the girls I was into. I've been making little notes for myself to stay on track, and I figured I'd share them with you guys. Some of this stuff is from my best friend Phil, some from personal experience, and some from the DYD Advanced Series. Hopefully these notes can help you to see why the girls you're not into ALWAYS stick around, and how you can use the same principles to "keep the keepers
Vassago
P.S. Ok this is REALLY funny. Right after I cut and pasted the stuff below, she called me, and to make a long story short, she's taking ME out to dinner tonight cause she HAS to see me before I leave to Chicago! So gentlemen, this stuff works!
G.F. Notes
Always keep the challenge alive!
Don’t be predictable…Don’t always call when you say you will.
Don’t make yourself too available.
Call at the last possible second…Wait as long as you can. (Like when returning a message).
He who leaves the answering machine message loses power…You are at the mercy of that person to call you back. Always leave a message, BUT, Answer your phone every 3rd time she calls… make her leave messages too.
Don’t over-qualify, over-agree, over-reciprocate (like with ticking... if she tickles you once, don't tickle back 3 times)
She must be chasing you, (in the bedroom as well). If she isn’t chasing, SHE will get bored.
She has to put work into the relationship for her to value it. This includes calling, trying to make plans, picking you up, doing favors for you, taking you out, etc. That doesn't mean you do NO work, but make sure she is working too.
In the bedroom, don’t worry so much about pleasing her. Don’t always try to make out with her…It shows too much interest, and can be taken as an attempt to validate her attraction for you. Lay back and relax once in awhile. Have her be on top.
Don’t try to make plans with every call. Be vague…Leave it open as to whether you will call or not, and don’t!
The goal of every phone call is to get her to try to make plans with you. Most guys have this backwards.
Make her worry that you are just using her for sex.
Girls you’re not into – you usually call later to set up plans. Girls you are into – you usually call early to set up plans. Switch it up! Call her at 8:00 instead of 3:00 pm every once in while... It will look like you are calling because you have nothing else to do.
Never forget the “power struggle”. If she even THINKS she has the power, she will be over you in a second.
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