Gf not sharing pictures of you on social media

jamesfromhouston

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Hey gents.

In this social media age:

I wonder if you guys would consider it a red flag if a girl you were seriously dating (in a relationship with) would post pics of her friends and her life but refrained from sharing pictures of you (or you two together). At times even deliberate, e.g. if you guys went out she would only just share a picture of herself at the outing.

What are your personal thoughts on this?
 
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Yeah because even women that have settled for a beta males simp still flaunt them on social media. She is definitely still actively looking to replace you because you were not her first choice and she thinks she can do better. When she realizes her value has peaked and you are the best she can get, then she will start posting you.
 

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Yeah because even women that have settled for a beta males simp still flaunt them on social media. She is definitely still actively looking to replace you because you were not her first choice and she thinks she can do better. When she realizes her value has peaked and you are the best she can get, then she will start posting you.
Ouchhh lol alot of truth here...
 
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Ouchhh lol alot of truth here...
It doesn’t mean the guy is bad because there’s a lotttt of delusional alpha widowed women roaming around due to Instagram, friends, and the swipe apps. She is probably displaying other red flag behaviors, so I would recommend jumping ship.
 
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My gut would say she´s alpha widow and still has hope that she can get someone "better" down the road. You can just ask her about this out of the blue and gauge her response, then make a desicion from there.
 

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My gut would say she´s alpha widow and still has hope that she can get someone "better" down the road. You can just ask her about this out of the blue and gauge her response, then make a decision from there.
He's probably better off breaking up with her. She will either instantly wake up and start behaving or he lost a future headache case. Girls with Alpha Widow syndrome cannot be properly lead period.
 

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Big flag, all the girls who I know who don't post their man ever are cheating or looking for better options.
 

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They are open to finding someone else. Its okay, do the same yourself.
 

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I'm not sure... it certainly indicates that she doesn't think you are worth showing off, which isn't good.

But in my experience, the women that post a bunch of stuff about their BF/husband are ones that will cheat when given the chance.

Social media does not reflect what a woman is: it is what she wants the world to believe it is. It's all about the old adage "Believe what she does, not what she says." Social media posts is the technology way of talking in public. The more active a woman is on social media, the more she cares about what others think.
 
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If this is the girl from your interest level topic then I hate to say I told you so, but I was right. You are not this girl’s top priority or option right now while she is your top option right now. Congratulations, you got sex from a girl with low interest! Most guys wouldn’t get nearly as far as you did, so you need to take that as a win and cash in your chips.

Move on broski
 

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If this is the girl from your interest level topic then I hate to say I told you so, but I was right. You are not this girl’s top priority or option right now while she is your top option right now. Congratulations, you got sex from a girl with low interest! Most guys wouldn’t get nearly as far as you did, so you need to take that as a win and cash in your chips.
This is likely what it is.
 
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