What a retarded relationship.
OP.. a woman's ultimate goal in life is control and security. Women like having men under their control (though they won't respect them) because it gives them a sense of power and control. Most women believe themselves to be psychologically superior to men. All the mind games come from seeing how far they can go with any particular man and what his limits are. The more bullsh!t he takes the lower his value. Because a man with options simply doesn't need to tolerate bullsh!t. And women primarily sh!t test men to see if they are weak under all the bravado. Most men are.
A man pretending he will leave at anytime but never actually leaving is obvious to most women. They invented this sh!t.. so why would it fool them? So most women will call your bluff.
The truth is this... a man with many options who really CAN "leave at any minute" will usually try to ensure a woman of the opposite. Men don't call attention to their willingness to leave. They tell a woman positive, flattering things so she won't go digging to find all the other sluts he is smashing on the side.
Women believe men are not allowed to "trick" women. So if she suspects you are full of sh!t she will try to punish you by playing you back.. she will sh!t test you until the end of time. The goal is to expose and embarrass you so she can have a good laugh with her friends.
Breaking up with you is her way of proving she is in control and you are full of sh!t. A woman who REALLY fears you might abandon her (or believe you are the best she can do) would never take such a dumb risk of breaking up. That would just free you to date others and forget about her. So ask yourself why she doesn't fear these things?
I'll tell you why: Because she believes you are full of sh!t and she is really the one in control. Breaking up is her way of proving it. And if she is wrong...oh well.. she was losing interest anyway... better to leave on her own terms and save face.
Laugh all you want. You will never win this game.. simply because you are willing to play it. This is a woman's game invented by women. The only way you win this game is by not playing it. This means ignoring retarded drama and f*cking other women on the side. Being a rock who doesn't engage in "games".
Games are best for men who just want to f*ck lots of hot women and move on. They don't work in LTR. This is why I only play games with women long enough to f*ck them a few times. Then after that.. I just act like my normal self and see what they do.
My 2 cents.
OP.. a woman's ultimate goal in life is control and security. Women like having men under their control (though they won't respect them) because it gives them a sense of power and control. Most women believe themselves to be psychologically superior to men. All the mind games come from seeing how far they can go with any particular man and what his limits are. The more bullsh!t he takes the lower his value. Because a man with options simply doesn't need to tolerate bullsh!t. And women primarily sh!t test men to see if they are weak under all the bravado. Most men are.
A man pretending he will leave at anytime but never actually leaving is obvious to most women. They invented this sh!t.. so why would it fool them? So most women will call your bluff.
The truth is this... a man with many options who really CAN "leave at any minute" will usually try to ensure a woman of the opposite. Men don't call attention to their willingness to leave. They tell a woman positive, flattering things so she won't go digging to find all the other sluts he is smashing on the side.
Women believe men are not allowed to "trick" women. So if she suspects you are full of sh!t she will try to punish you by playing you back.. she will sh!t test you until the end of time. The goal is to expose and embarrass you so she can have a good laugh with her friends.
Breaking up with you is her way of proving she is in control and you are full of sh!t. A woman who REALLY fears you might abandon her (or believe you are the best she can do) would never take such a dumb risk of breaking up. That would just free you to date others and forget about her. So ask yourself why she doesn't fear these things?
I'll tell you why: Because she believes you are full of sh!t and she is really the one in control. Breaking up is her way of proving it. And if she is wrong...oh well.. she was losing interest anyway... better to leave on her own terms and save face.
Laugh all you want. You will never win this game.. simply because you are willing to play it. This is a woman's game invented by women. The only way you win this game is by not playing it. This means ignoring retarded drama and f*cking other women on the side. Being a rock who doesn't engage in "games".
Games are best for men who just want to f*ck lots of hot women and move on. They don't work in LTR. This is why I only play games with women long enough to f*ck them a few times. Then after that.. I just act like my normal self and see what they do.
My 2 cents.