We've been in relation for nearly 2 and a half years now.. Before getting to know the reality of how attraction works, i made all the mistake of being a "Nice guy". At first it all worked out perfect, but recently she's been very cold and aggressive towards me and her tolerance level is very low now. Our arguments are growing day to day and I'm a lot worried about losing her.
She called me and told that she don't feel the same anymore, she don't want to lose me but the spark is gone and it's all sometime look's like a headache. She had very strong feeling's for me but now thing's are changed, she told that she do still have some feeling's but not like before.
After that we started having a large number of daily fights, over this reason that she's losing her feeling's. When ever she talked in monotone, i always bring up the same topic that if she was loyal and sincere then she should not have lost feeling's for me, and kept criticizing her every day, as a result thing's got more worst. She's starting to ignore me most of the time.
I thought of going NC (No contact) but i think due to our daily fights, this may back fire and she may get over me. Actually tried going no contact in fights but broke it so early.
She's the one who start the talk, she text or call me first, but her tone, and behavior isn't the same towards me. One thing i can say with guarantee is she know for sure that no matter what happened, i will never be able to live without her. But i don't know how to change her belief, i can't fight with her as it will bring negativity in her mind and i will risk losing her.
Is there any possibility for me to get that old spark back?
She called me and told that she don't feel the same anymore, she don't want to lose me but the spark is gone and it's all sometime look's like a headache. She had very strong feeling's for me but now thing's are changed, she told that she do still have some feeling's but not like before.
After that we started having a large number of daily fights, over this reason that she's losing her feeling's. When ever she talked in monotone, i always bring up the same topic that if she was loyal and sincere then she should not have lost feeling's for me, and kept criticizing her every day, as a result thing's got more worst. She's starting to ignore me most of the time.
I thought of going NC (No contact) but i think due to our daily fights, this may back fire and she may get over me. Actually tried going no contact in fights but broke it so early.
She's the one who start the talk, she text or call me first, but her tone, and behavior isn't the same towards me. One thing i can say with guarantee is she know for sure that no matter what happened, i will never be able to live without her. But i don't know how to change her belief, i can't fight with her as it will bring negativity in her mind and i will risk losing her.
Is there any possibility for me to get that old spark back?