Exactly SoSuave, once I see a girl is interested in this kind of thing the first thing i'll do is explain that she is changing the relationship by seeing another guy for lunch. This alone is a great way to gauge her IL.
The second think I do is turn this into a winning situation that makes me happy. I'll start taking girls out while still banging her. And every time I do take out a girl i'll use the exact same verbiage she did for her lunch date. Whether I screw them or not is my option, but you can be sure that if an upgrade is found she will be nexted.
The objective here is to always move forward, never back. If something is not making you happy you change things so it is.
I dated a girl for 7 years that tried to do this to me. And I did exactly what I am posting here. She decided not to go on her little date. I never had guy issues with this girl again after she understood how things worked with me. It was her decision, not mine.
