GF Has No Common Sense

[Paid Laid & Made]

Hey Guyz.

Here is one of my funnier posts. On Tuesday my GF'ed decided to finish some work on the computers at her apartment office, she walked out and some guy yelled across the court-yard to her. Non-intelligent her, actually goes on over there and talks with the guy while he is getting himself a drink out of the soda machine and then walks him to the pool area. Some girls and his best friend are just there chilling. Well he goes on and asks about the BF and things and then she decides to give her number to him. Now, I know my girl is real social and loves to chill with new people add her being naive in the equation and you have a very interesting setup. Well I am chilling with her till like 8 that night and she has a huge amount of HW so I leave.

Well she attempts her work and then stops goes outside to have a conversation with that guy and his friend. He specifically asks if he she is okay with this situation ... referring to BF. She is like yep, not thinking. He goes for a kiss and she pushes him off and then apparently leaves. He called her the following day while I was with her and asked for her to come over to his apartment for 30 minutes. She declined and then confessed this all to me. He called her in the middle of the night a few days ago. She tried chatting with him and explain this to him, but he always manages to hang up the phone before she gets a word in.

The best part came that she gave me a guilt trip after he called and I told her that he did not want to just be friends and she yelled at me for being jealous. She also wanted to chill with him tonight, even though I said I wanted to come along, to which she answered that would be akward. It was a full 45 minutes later she called and confessed.

I told her straight up that next time I will just leave her and that will be the end of our relationship. I already had sex with her (VIRGIN) and she loves me and cares for me deeply, there is no denying that all my friends have told me that. She just lacks common sense ... in a major way. Post your thoughts.

FACTS (Pool Guy):

- 19
- Living with his mom
- Works at Burger King
- Did not finish HS (Dropped out FR year)
- Heavy Drinker

 

[vectorz]

Good, for you! You did the right thing. Hoes like to pull the accusation of you being jealous, in order to manipulate you to let her do her thang. Of course, guys do the same thing, what's important is that you don't fall for it.

Recognizing this and not tolerating her bad behavior is exactly the thing to do. And if she doesn't comply, move on. Hoes just hoes.

 

[CLOONEY]

DUDE, who are you trying to kid, us or yourself? SHE IS NOT NAIVE, she is purposely getting the attention, she CRAVES IT!!! You are in for many more Jealous moments with this girl, she is just an attention who*e!! You might say I am wrong, but MARK MY WORDS, you remember this post!!

 

[Trance]

This happens to both men and women.
How many times while you have a girlfriend, you talked to some girl, and if your girlfriend asks you just say: "its just a friend", while deep inside you know the girl is hot, and she might be a nice backup sometime, or just feed your ego?

With girls this happens even more, because man persue girls, so they get a lot of atention. They know what's going on, and they like that kind of atention, makes them feel they have the power in a relationship, and that you must be the one to make all the effort in order to keep her as your girl.

 

[PuertoRican_Lover]

PAID,

I don't believe this post for a second and I fail to see the humor in this situation.

I don't belive you are so naive, but hey you are 18 and you young ones are kind of foolish nowadays. Why are you with this girl? She was a virgin? Yeah right! Once a girl loses her virginity she loses her innocent thinking. Read the thread, "Women's sexual past". Are you going to wait 'til you find her in bed with another dude to open your eyes to reality? Wake up, you are living in a dream world! The matrix has you!

Quit making excuses for her and look at her actions and not her words!!!!!! She gave a dude her number, WTF!!!! She
disrespected you big time!!!! Don't be a chump and stop rationalizing and making excuses for her!

 

[E-Z Rider]

I pretty much agree with everyone above.

You could very well be in for trouble, like Clooney and PRL say. Or it could be not a big deal in the end (Trance makes a good point; it's easy to imagine a girl liking the attention but not intending to do anything serious with a guy like this).

Now that you've made your stand, the ball is really in her court. She keeps disrespecting you, you have to get rid of her. She gets away from this guy, and you could forgive her.

One thing: "She also wanted to chill with him tonight, even though I said I wanted to come along, to which she answered that would be akward. It was a full 45 minutes later she called and confessed. "

wtf is that, man? After he tries to kiss her, she wants to go hang out with him? And she has the nerve to try to guilt-trip you? That's pretty bad- and don't think that stupidity or carelessness is a valid excuse. Also, what exactly did she 'confess'?

I had a situation kind of similar to this, and no good came from it. Only in my case, this chick was hanging out with a guy whom she'd been friends with for a good while. Although she would deny it, it was obvious some attraction was there, just not as much as she had for me. He even kissed her once, and she got upset but still hung out with him. I handled some things badly there and she lost the attraction for me. After she broke-up with me initially, she started going out w/ her 'friend', but would break up with him like every four days for a month...she still had a strong attraction for me. But I was at college and in a bad situation and a bad mindset, so I gradually lost attraction, and now I think she's dating this guy steadily.

I tell you that story to let you know what kind of things CAN happen if you got a girl that is doing a little too much 'hanging out' with a particular guy. Also, I wanted to point out that in my situation, the other guy was her *close friend*...your girl is doing similar things for some random guy. I'd question your girl's intelligence and/or morality.

Even if you believe she's a 'good' person inside, if she's not intelligent enough to be a faithful gf, she's not real LTR material.

My opinion.

Hope this helps- E-Z

 

[CLOONEY]

I never said she will cheat on him EZ, PRL said that. I just said she is CRAVING the attention. This is just one of the many guys this kind of sh*t will happen with. If he can put up with it.........go ahead. But MOST guys cannot cope with this kind of behaviour from a girl, and rightly so!

However I know PL&M will continue with this girl, until he gets so down on himself (due to her disrespecting him and caining his ego), that he will FINALLY dump her. Then this will repeat a few more times, until FINALLY one day he will move on. Seems to be the regular cycle most guys go through with these attention seeking woman.

 

[Paid Laid & Made]

Thanks for the response.

Yesterday chilled at the drive in and that guy called her, she told him straight up the deal.

On the topic of me being naive ... Trust me, my friends always say that I have the tendency to go through girls like most people go through alcohol. I straight up know she loves the attention, that's why she does it, fact is that I am hittin it and she is still in love with me, or fakes it, not like I care.

She was a virgin cause I popped her cherry, I know this for a fact. So am I concerned? Not really, if she is cheating on me, oh well, I have plenty of other choices and her ass will be gone. The sex is making me stick around now ... but I might end up getting bored with her games.

We'll just have to see.

 

[PuertoRican_Lover]

Some guys don't mind exchanging their self-respect and dignity for the poon, oh well, who am I to say otherwise PR_L shrugs..

You should change the title of your thread, you are making her look innocent!

 

[CharmaLeo]

"She also wanted to chill with him tonight, even though I said I wanted to come along, to which she answered that would be akward. It was a full 45 minutes later she called and confessed. "

Hahaha the sweet and innocent harlot hahaha.

 

[dietzcoi]

Seems like YOU lack the common sense, PLM

This is a monkey woman, she is grabbing for another branch (pool guy) before letting go of you! Chop her hand off now!

Since you supposedly do not care anyway, dump her and retain your self respect

Dietzcoi

 

[DreamerZZ35]

Originally posted by Paid, Laid & Made
Hey Guyz.

Here is one of my funnier posts. On Tuesday my GF'ed decided to finish some work on the computers at her apartment office, she walked out and some guy yelled across the court-yard to her. Non-intelligent her, actually goes on over there and talks with the guy while he is getting himself a drink out of the soda machine and then walks him to the pool area. Some girls and his best friend are just there chilling. Well he goes on and asks about the BF and things and then she decides to give her number to him. Now, I know my girl is real social and loves to chill with new people add her being naive in the equation and you have a very interesting setup. Well I am chilling with her till like 8 that night and she has a huge amount of HW so I leave.

Well she attempts her work and then stops goes outside to have a conversation with that guy and his friend. He specifically asks if he she is okay with this situation ... referring to BF. She is like yep, not thinking. He goes for a kiss and she pushes him off and then apparently leaves. He called her the following day while I was with her and asked for her to come over to his apartment for 30 minutes. She declined and then confessed this all to me. He called her in the middle of the night a few days ago. She tried chatting with him and explain this to him, but he always manages to hang up the phone before she gets a word in.

The best part came that she gave me a guilt trip after he called and I told her that he did not want to just be friends and she yelled at me for being jealous. She also wanted to chill with him tonight, even though I said I wanted to come along, to which she answered that would be akward. It was a full 45 minutes later she called and confessed.

I told her straight up that next time I will just leave her and that will be the end of our relationship. I already had sex with her (VIRGIN) and she loves me and cares for me deeply, there is no denying that all my friends have told me that. She just lacks common sense ... in a major way. Post your thoughts.

FACTS (Pool Guy):

- 19
- Living with his mom
- Works at Burger King
- Did not finish HS (Dropped out FR year)
- Heavy Drinker

Take this for what its worth but when you have done nothing wrong and a woman is coming off extreamly jealous its for 1 of 2 reasons and both are not very healthy.

1. they are very insecure. If your gal doesnt exhibit all of the other insecure behavior then its number 2

2. they are guilty of infidelity and jealousy is how it is being communicated.

Its one thing if a gal is jealous because you are doing things that are making her jealous.

By the way, you are allowing her to act that way. I truly believe you get most of the behavior you create....

What if right up front you tell a woman Look I have 3 basic rules to all relationships I have with anyone. I deamand excellence from myself and those around me. That means repsect my time, my property and me. If we have a problem in any of those areas, this probably isnt going to work.

 

[Trapspringer]

-----pretty much agree with all of Clooney's words here. Both posts. He said remember the post and that is a good idea.

As soon as he said the post will be the funniest ever, I had a strange feeling that by time I reached the last period, I would not be laughing.

 

[DesertsFox]

Hey PLM

Im gonna go against everyone here.

My girlfriend is a awesome, but she is kinda naive too.

My advice is this, bang her as long as possible, but dont give her the endge treat her the same. If u find out she cheats on u, next her. otherwise, it dont make a flees **** differents.

Later

 

[Paid Laid & Made]

DesertFox,

Thankz for understanding. I told her about my rules and she is learning to slowly accept them. I do nt require the need to play games with her and will not tolerate any further negative action on her part toward our relationship.