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Let me address the OP really quick. Its rare that people change their relationship habits after they become grown adults in their mid 20s. I could maybe say theres a possibility that a teenager made mistakes in relationships and rectified their behavior in their older years, but Id not believe so regarding an adult whos constantly made bad relationship decisions. In which case I feel, once a cheat always a cheat. And your girlfriend has cheated many a time.

Id dump her and move on. The drama or STD risks shed bring are not worth even keeping her as a FWB.
SocialLeper said:
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Listen guys, if Jaylan wants to perform the intellectual gymnastics necessary to justify his dumpster diving into slvt town then so be it.
Why is reading comprehension so hard for many of you here? Trust me, I dont need to dumpster dive, but I also know the reality of sexual appetite and skill of virgins vs somewhat experienced women vs wh0res.

People should be allowed to make their own choices in life. The problem, Jaylan, is when you try and turn those virtues (i.e. being a virgin or having a low partner count) into a vice and those vices (indiscriminate sexual behaviour, poor impulse control) into vitues and then attack others who disagree with you.
Read my posts again with comprehension this time.

My experiences, as well as plenty of other mens experiences, is that female noobs can be pretty drab sexually...aka frigid. Older female virgins and women who havent had much of a sexual history, tend to have sexual hangups. Any man with experience with these women can tell you that. My saying I prefer women with some experience, DOES NOT mean I want women who have exhibited indiscriminate sexual behavior.

You guys need to learn to slow down, read word for word, and stop trying to inject your own false inferences into someones post. I have said time and time again that I dont want a inexperienced good girl, nor do I want a super experienced bad girl skank. Ive always said I want a woman whos experienced life within reason, and has not gotten to wild.

People keep trying to make this black and white, as if the only choices are a very conservative women or a wh0re. How hard is it to read and understand exactly what someone writes time and time again? I dislike both of those options, and have enjoyed dating women who dont fall into either category.
Of course you already know this. You're just looking for a fight like you do in every single other thread you post in. You seriously need a hobby mate.
Gimme a flipping break with this bull. If you go into each of the threads with these dudes trying to troll me, youll see that I generally address the OP and stay on topic, until trolls run into the thread insulting people just because they disagree with their opinion. Thats generally how things work on SS. A lot of guys cant disagree with someone without trying to put them down. Lord knows they dont debate with men like that in real life, but the internet gives them that kind of bravado.

You say Im looking for a fight, yet was bokanovsky's first post even on topic in this thread? His initial post was just another attempt to instigate and giggle with another guy who he agrees with. Its the same bs in a lot of the threads on this board with some posters. When they disagree with someone, instead of maturely addressing solely the points made, theres a whole lot of insults, attacks on someones masculinity, and constant attempts to tie someone elses viewpoints to feminism.

Its like a goddamn playground here. Its always the same ole debate tactics of "omg, another straight male does not want the same women I do, nor the same kind of society I want? Gosh, I guess its time to attack his sexuality, debase his character, or tie his views to feminism. I mean, because it couldnt possibly be that men are different and dont all want the same things. It couldnt possibly be that some men arrive to their own choices and conclusions without giving a fvk what other men or women think. Nah, couldnt be that. Lets shame him for thinking different than I do."
 

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Jaylan said:
Let me address the OP really quick. Its rare that people change their relationship habits after they become grown adults in their mid 20s. I could maybe say theres a possibility that a teenager made mistakes in relationships and rectified their behavior in their older years, but Id not believe so regarding an adult whos constantly made bad relationship decisions. In which case I feel, once a cheat always a cheat. And your girlfriend has cheated many a time.

Id dump her and move on. The drama or STD risks shed bring are not worth even keeping her as a FWB.Why is reading comprehension so hard for many of you here? Trust me, I dont need to dumpster dive, but I also know the reality of sexual appetite and skill of virgins vs somewhat experienced women vs wh0res.

Read my posts again with comprehension this time.

My experiences, as well as plenty of other mens experiences, is that female noobs can be pretty drab sexually...aka frigid. Older female virgins and women who havent had much of a sexual history, tend to have sexual hangups. Any man with experience with these women can tell you that. My saying I prefer women with some experience, DOES NOT mean I want women who have exhibited indiscriminate sexual behavior.

You guys need to learn to slow down, read word for word, and stop trying to inject your own false inferences into someones post. I have said time and time again that I dont want a inexperienced good girl, nor do I want a super experienced bad girl skank. Ive always said I want a woman whos experienced life within reason, and has not gotten to wild.

People keep trying to make this black and white, as if the only choices are a very conservative women or a wh0re. How hard is it to read and understand exactly what someone writes time and time again? I dislike both of those options, and have enjoyed dating women who dont fall into either category.
Gimme a flipping break with this bull. If you go into each of the threads with these dudes trying to troll me, youll see that I generally address the OP and stay on topic, until trolls run into the thread insulting people just because they disagree with their opinion. Thats generally how things work on SS. A lot of guys cant disagree with someone without trying to put them down. Lord knows they dont debate with men like that in real life, but the internet gives them that kind of bravado.

You say Im looking for a fight, yet was bokanovsky's first post even on topic in this thread? His initial post was just another attempt to instigate and giggle with another guy who he agrees with. Its the same bs in a lot of the threads on this board with some posters. When they disagree with someone, instead of maturely addressing solely the points made, theres a whole lot of insults, attacks on someones masculinity, and constant attempts to tie someone elses viewpoints to feminism.

Its like a goddamn playground here. Its always the same ole debate tactics of "omg, another straight male does not want the same women I do, nor the same kind of society I want? Gosh, I guess its time to attack his sexuality, debase his character, or tie his views to feminism. I mean, because it couldnt possibly be that men are different and dont all want the same things. It couldnt possibly be that some men arrive to their own choices and conclusions without giving a fvk what other men or women think. Nah, couldnt be that. Lets shame him for thinking different than I do."

It's not that we misunderstand you gaylan. It's you act like a pandering betafaggot

You are a drama queen. You know I see many posts on here that I don't like/ disagree with. Sometimes I will confront. Most of the time I just say nothing because what difference does it make? How does it benefit me to get emotionally involved and argue?

Stop acting like a pvssy and live and let live.

From my perspective people on this site who know whats up, are losing respect for you.

My dad used to tell me that my worst enemy is my mouth. I learned from this, and its very conducive.

Instead of running your c0ck holster, why don't you just observe and learn?:up:
 

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noobolgy said:
It's not that we misunderstand you gaylan. It's you act like a pandering betafaggot

You are a drama queen. You know I see many posts on here that I don't like/ disagree with. Sometimes I will confront. Most of the time I just say nothing because what difference does it make? How does it benefit me to get emotionally involved and argue?

Stop acting like a pvssy and live and let live.

From my perspective people on this site who know whats up, are losing respect for you.

My dad used to tell me that my worst enemy is my mouth. I learned from this, and its very conducive.

Instead of running your c0ck holster, why don't you just observe and learn?:up:
Actually, based on the reps and PMs I receive, plenty of people (even mods) agree with some of my viewpoints here. They just avoid getting involved with trolls such as yourself.

Way to be a hypocrite. You say live and let live, yet like I just said, you cannot disagree without insulting someone. Its ok though. I know the only way guys like you can let off steam is on the internet. You never have the gall to say those things to me in the real world. Such courage. Im glad youve learned your worst enemy is your mouth, which is why you take the cowards route and use your fingers to insult people online, and not your mouth to do it in real life.

PS - The purpose of a discussion board is to discuss things. So dont try and pull that bs "well you dont have to chime in" garbage with me. Take your own advice maybe? You dont have to respond with trolling and whiny insults do you?
 

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Jaylan said:
Actually, based on the reps and PMs I receive, plenty of people (even mods) agree with some of my viewpoints here. They just avoid getting involved with trolls such as yourself.

Way to be a hypocrite. You say live and let live, yet like I just said, you cannot disagree without insulting someone. Its ok though. I know the only way guys like you can let off steam is on the internet. You never have the gall to say those things to me in the real world. Such courage.

PS - The purpose of a discussion board is to discuss things. So dont try and pull that bs "well you dont have to chime in" garbage with me. Take your own advice maybe? You dont have to respond with trolling and whiny insults do you?
I hate weakness. I hate my weaknesses, and especially I hate when other men act weak. Sh!t is disgusting.

What's insane is your allowed on this forum yet phm was banned. I guess men have to be more sensitive and understanding and kind.

From my ability to perceive people, I believe thevirtualmind is allen, the owner. I won't say why I think this. but allen I'm disappointed in you. What the fvck man.

When dealing with the majority of western women, phm advice is extremely valuable. Yet he was banned, and a beta faggot like gaylan is still allowed.


I'm sorry man. I didn't mean to hurt your feelers. I can be a bit rough around the edges, but from now on I will make sure that I will think twice when I make a response to you. I know your a very sensitive type of guy, and I have to be careful not to hurt your feelings.

I'll tell you what, from now on whenever I respond to your posts, I will sugar coat it so you arn't sad :cry:
 

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Dating is an interview for marriage. As far as that goes. She's fired.

Next!
 

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noobolgy said:
What's insane is your allowed on this forum yet phm was banned. I guess men have to be more sensitive and understanding and kind.

From my ability to perceive people, I believe thevirtualmind is allen, the owner. I won't say why I think this. but allen I'm disappointed in you. What the fvck man.

When dealing with the majority of western women, phm advice is extremely valuable. Yet he was banned, and a beta faggot like gaylan is still allowed.
Noobology the PHM drone.

PHM was a loser and provided outlines to extreme videos. He was the biggest "fake" on this board. He was the shining example of someone like Jaylan described....someone who comes online and talks different then they would in real life. You really think PHM walked around and told the women he ran into how "selfish" and "evil" they all are? Quit fooling yourself bro...
 

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noobolgy said:
I hate weakness. I hate my weaknesses, and especially I hate when other men act weak. Sh!t is disgusting.

What's insane is your allowed on this forum yet phm was banned. I guess men have to be more sensitive and understanding and kind.

From my ability to perceive people, I believe thevirtualmind is allen, the owner. I won't say why I think this. but allen I'm disappointed in you. What the fvck man.

When dealing with the majority of western women, phm advice is extremely valuable. Yet he was banned, and a beta faggot like gaylan is still allowed.


I'm sorry man. I didn't mean to hurt your feelers. I can be a bit rough around the edges, but from now on I will make sure that I will think twice when I make a response to you. I know your a very sensitive type of guy, and I have to be careful not to hurt your feelings.

I'll tell you what, from now on whenever I respond to your posts, I will sugar coat it so you arn't sad :cry:
Keep whining kid.

The difference between me and guys like you and PHM, is that I dont run into threads insulting people when I give my opinion. Look at my original post in this thread. Where did I disparage anyone? Yet dudes like you and your buddy bokanovsky run up in here trying to instigate crap based on negativity from another thread.

So spare me your whining and hurt feelings. Cry to the moderators if you hate my posts so much. As it stands, Ive been here for 3 years, and will continue to be here. The mods can see that I dont go off attacking and insulting people unprovoked.

And now you want to call out the owner too? Lol, the owner is why guys like PHM are banned. He doesnt want that kind of trolling here. So how about you learn to discuss topics here without immaturely flaming other members, or take your own advice and simply ignore what I post. Keep it on topic now. If youve got a problem, alert the mods with the proper button clicks.
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Dating is an interview for marriage. As far as that goes. She's fired.

Next!
This.

Dunno if I will ever be married, but I for sure wont date a girl with glaring red flags. OP, you can do better. Dont be blinded by sexual attraction.
 

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I have an idea... Instead of telling eachother not to insult eachother with further insults. Why not just say nothing at all or better yet.. Say what you gotta say and leave the insults and accusations for the women. God knows we got enough estrogen to deal with in the world.

We all have different views and perspectives. I'm down with all of them and take what I need as I read, the rest I just forget.

Epi
 

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Yup, she swallowed a cornucopia of c0ck for 10-12 years and LUCKY YOU, you get to have her banged out vagina. Congratulations!!!!

Clap, clap, clap!

P.S. Don't be fooled by her looks, always remember, her sh!t sprays the bowl after Mexican food too!
 

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mrcloudsurfer said:
Another thing that is really bothering me is that she said that before me she was a total freak in bed and liked it very rough, but with me she just wants "sweet and long love sessions".. Before we started going together she always wore really sexy outfits and looked extremely hot...
http://heartiste.wordpress.com/the-sixteen-commandments-of-poon/

Read carefully. Especially about the part about banging hard.
 

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mrcloudsurfer said:
Ok guys, I've been wrestling with this one big time
What is there to wrestle about? She sees you as a beta provider to settle down with after she had her fun fvcking around. That doesn't mean she won't fvck around your back. Damaged goods go into the garbage can and that's where she should go. Don't get fooled by her, you can't turn a hoe into a housewife.
 

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goldengoose said:
What is there to wrestle about? She sees you as a beta provider to settle down with after she had her fun fvcking around. That doesn't mean she won't fvck around your back. Damaged goods go into the garbage can and that's where she should go. Don't get fooled by her, you can't turn a hoe into a housewife.
I have to agree, if you can fvck her without getting emotionally involved, by all means, you can keep her. But we know that's terribly hard to do, and this girl will be a ticket to your misery...

This girl perhaps doesn't even find you attractive, just secure.. That's a difference most men on the planet don't seem to realize, but for me if a girl goes into you because of your career and status, it's because she wants a safe provider to have kids with - women major goal in life... She might "love" you for some time, because you aren't as "*******ish" as other guys, but at the end you will be dumped..

But you know her better than us, this is just from my experience with similar girls...
 

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Social_Leper said:
Look, it's perfectly possible to see an individual as weak, selfish and narcissistic, which a lot of the women in the bar & club are, and still treat them like decent people.
Yup.
 

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TheException said:
Noobology the PHM drone.

PHM was a loser and provided outlines to extreme videos. He was the biggest "fake" on this board. He was the shining example of someone like Jaylan described....someone who comes online and talks different then they would in real life. You really think PHM walked around and told the women he ran into how "selfish" and "evil" they all are? Quit fooling yourself bro...
Why would he tell women to their faces that they were evil and selfish if he planned on having sex with them? He was only saying on the forum for you to read. Would you tell everything to women's faces that you thought about them? This sure went over your head, didn't it?
 

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One of my biggest criterion for women that I date is how they treat the ex boyfriends, or men in their lives. By ones mid to late 20's and early 30s, people become immutable versions of their former selves that lead them to the 30s. Men and women both. Furthermore, women are manipulative and quite capable of lying so deceptively, that the only real way to judge them is their actions. Listening to what they say makes absolutely zero sense. In the case of this posters girlfriend, you know what you are getting into. She is someone who gets what she wants, and if she doesn't , she moves on. Plain and simple.

Don't let overconfidence bias get the better of you - you aren't any better than her ex's, and if a situation presents itself, she will cheat on you. Sure she might be hitting her wall, but she will always have guys who want to throw her a bone. Its just a fact of life.

How would I proceed with this women if I genuinely got along with her? I would stay aloof based on her behavior and not affix much to the relationship. Maybe she is reforming herself. If she puts effort into the relationship, than i'll put in effort as well. No one is perfect, myself included, and i'll give anyone a chance if they work at it, but I wouldn't go into said relationship expecting much.
 
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