GF going bar hopping without me

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What do you guys think? I sent her a text last night at 7pm asking if she was ok and she replied I’m fine. Then I didn’t hear from her the rest of the night. Then early this morning she texts I had to much to drink at work yesterday and went bar hopping. She didn’t mention that last night. Thoughts?
 

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She definitely got slammed out by Chad and Brock, was probably flirting all night, the little wh0re got what she deserved.
 

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relationships arent real. theres always more power on someones side (usually girl) and she will use that. she will after a while see patterns in your behavior, what happens when she doesnt text back,etc

but anyway ur not in relationship



She had someone's d1ck in her mouth while she was texting.
says the rich guy who even has problems pulling moneydiggers while at the same time claiming hes rich as fuark
 

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Just because a woman listens to you and acts interested in what you say doesn't mean she really is. She might just be acting polite, while silently wishing that the date would hurry up and end, or that you would go away... and never come back.

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I don't get into Relationships with chicks that go drinking in bars.. PROBLEM SOLVED!!

It works a treat.. YOU should try it??

Bar girls, get fuked and dumped.. Simple!
Your one "she devil" trained you lol . I still remember your confusion and your convos from then.

Lately it sounds like you slinging a lot of pipe to these hoez and a no bullshyt policy. I love it.
 

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When a girl goes out clubbing and you’re busy, you always always always tease her about another lover.

Say hi to Juan Valdez for me

Don’t make out to hard with Rico tonight
 

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Your one "she devil" trained you lol . I still remember your confusion and your convos from then.

Lately it sounds like you slinging a lot of pipe to these hoez and a no bullshyt policy. I love it.

Haha yes, thanks to SS and all you great guys on here.. I've come to a point where I absolutely take Zero chit from chicks..

Doesn't matter to me how great her Vagina is, how hot she is, or how wealthy she is.. If she doesn't have any other deserning qualities apart from her looks and her tight VAG. Then I strictly pump and dump.

If a chick is in and out of bars, every weekend, getting smashed with her friends, why the fuk would you get into a relationship with such a LIABILITY!!

Some dudes just can't look past her hot looks, end up getting into a relationship with these hoes, then come crying on here when Tryone & Jamal end up tag teaming her in the club toilets!!

I was banging a HB8 only recently, who started pushing for a relationship.. This chick hits the bars on a regular basis.. My answer was obviously HELL NO
 

Create self-fulfilling prophecies. Always assume the positive. Assume she likes you. Assume she wants to talk to you. Assume she wants to go out with you. When you think positive, positive things happen.

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What do you guys think?

Then I didn’t hear from her the rest of the night.

She didn’t mention that last night. Thoughts?
Given what you know as of May 10, she’s probably lying to you and in covert mode with you about it…
Don’t have trust in what she says.
 
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When a girl goes out clubbing and you’re busy, you always always always tease her about another lover.

Say hi to Juan Valdez for me

Don’t make out to hard with Rico tonight
Why? Sounds a little insecure.

Your title should be "My EX-GF went bar hopping without me".
Yeah damn, I was initially thinking who cares it's not like it's every weekend like what was happening with @soulforge 's ex milf...
...then I read that it's not even his gf. Over and he still believes....
 

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Why are you asking if she is okay? Get that question out of your mind completely or use it very very sparingly.

What were you doing during this time?
 

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Goes to bar, gets drunk...I mean, aim for quality, not just for someone who has a p0ssy.
 

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its not really that wrong she goes bar and gets drunk, normal thing to do
Well, it is not normal for the girls I date to go clubbing often and get drunk.

Why? Because getting drunk is a bad habit and it means you lose at least half control over yourself, an overall sign of poor-decision making when sober and surely after you get drunk AND secondly, because I personally do not see the fun in clubbin. Yes, you might go and dance your ass off once in a while, but if you go every weekend or every other weekend...nah. No girl that was worth it for me went clubbing more than once a month or even more rarely than that.
 

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She is allowed to go to a bar and get smashed and do whatever it is she wants to do without you knowing.

You on the other hand can choose to put up with it or apply a lifetime of silence and distance on her. The red flags are all night drinking and hiding it. I wonder what else she is hiding?

At the end of the day, who cares. Just ghost her and give her the zero attention she deserves and move on. Ghost as in ZERO contact and forever leave her wondering what happened to you.....just as you wondered what the fvck she was out doing last night.

Dueces.
 

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Well, it is not normal for the girls I date to go clubbing often and get drunk.

Why? Because getting drunk is a bad habit and it means you lose at least half control over yourself, an overall sign of poor-decision making when sober and surely after you get drunk AND secondly, because I personally do not see the fun in clubbin. Yes, you might go and dance your ass off once in a while, but if you go every weekend or every other weekend...nah. No girl that was worth it for me went clubbing more than once a month or even more rarely than that.

Lizardking is on the MONEY

I mean think about it.. What goes on in bars and clubs?

You have a bunch of people INTOXICATED under the influence of alcohol and most likely some drugs too.

You then have a bunch of hoes, barely even dressed, titties and pussies hanging out all over the place... You got a bunch of SINGLE men, desperately looking to get there DIKS wet!

It's a FACT one of the side effects of drinking alcohol is, it LOWERS INHIBITIONS.. And you are MORE likely to engage in RISKY behaviour, such as taking several DIKS in the club toilets..

You take a bunch of intoxicated, horny people and put them under one roof, with loud music.. What do you think is going to happen? A fukin prayer meeting? NOPE!

If your GF is visiting the clubs and bars on a regular basis.. Its only a matter of time, till she starts TAKING DIKS!
 

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What do you guys think? I sent her a text last night at 7pm asking if she was ok and she replied I’m fine. Then I didn’t hear from her the rest of the night. Then early this morning she texts I had to much to drink at work yesterday and went bar hopping. She didn’t mention that last night. Thoughts?
#nextset /thread
 

It doesn't matter how good-looking you are, how romantic you are, how funny you are... or anything else. If she doesn't have something INVESTED in you and the relationship, preferably quite a LOT invested, she'll dump you, without even the slightest hesitation, as soon as someone a little more "interesting" comes along.

Quote taken from The SoSuave Guide to Women and Dating, which you can read for FREE.

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