GF gets drunk, texts me, "I cant see you ne more"

[Holland]

"Change your myspace back to in a relationship"

WTF! And this is a 24 year old woman???

 

[Jon55]

GF gets drunk, texts me, "I cant see you ne more"
I text her back... "k, well its been fun, good luck with life, bye"
She replies... "Bye, I miss you"

Next morning she calls me,
"I'm sorry I didn't mean it"
I laughed at her... told her i had two dates this weekend already set up.
She immediately wants to come over and "talk about it in person"
I say... "well if your at my doorstep when I get home from work, I guess I'll have to let you in..."

I vote to stay single, keep telling her we might get back together...
And basically use her...

Anyone else have a girlfriend that would get drunk and break up with ya?
lmao

effing a I was in a similar situation about a year ago and I wish I would of handled it like that.

 

[Jon55]

Answer to the questions then update.

Been seeing her around 8 months, I'd see her twice a week when she was in town for school, she'd pay for most her meals, it worked out great... I've learned a lot though, especially being that she is 2 years older... She was a true challenge.

Last night I over slept past our date. I work nights... So when I got out of bed I was like 2 1/2 hours past the time she normally comes over. I had 3 missed calls. I call her back. She is at home and clearly had a few drinks... We talk about how I over slept and didn't stand her up. But she was convenced I had stood her up. Then I get the text.. "I cant see you ne more"

Update*
So this morning I get home... Ignored her calls... She is parked right out side of my apartment and basically follows me in. She constantly pushes and pushes. Saying what ever she can do get me back. Like... "I didn't mean the text" "It was an accident" "Change your myspace back to in a relationship" (LMAO) "Please take me back" "Do you not want to be with me anymore?" Mostly I didn't answer her, just laughed. So eventually she starts crying and THEN... She tells me she loves me for the first time... I didn't say ****... So I got in my boxers and went to bed. She curled up on my next to me. I put her hand on my c*ck and then 5 mins later pushed her head down. Yes, the head was good... I told her thanks for the -Make up head- ... yeah... So then I slept 6 hours and ****ed her when I got out of bed. Showered and now she is out getting dinner and a few things I need from the store...

Well I am on crutches from a skiing accidnet. So I had a valid reason to cancel a double date I had tonight. Besides it will make this other girl want me that much more...

Thanks guys, Later

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[Jon55]

Wow sorry for the triple post action. Mods please delete this one.

 

[Jariel]

I think she broke up because he agreed to meet her and slept right through it.

I, for example, am one of those people who get remarkably pissed when people have me clear my schedule and get ready to go somewhere, then they pass out/get too stoned/change their minds without bothering to tell me.

I agree. I didn't know the situation or realise you had done this when I read your first post. The poor girl probably doesn't think you give a sh1t about her, especially if you made no real attempt to apologise or make it upto her after.

The text was probably just a test to see how much you care and it backfired on her. I think you should give her the benefit of the doubt. It's obvious this girl thinks the world of you.

I'm sure if a guy came on here saying "My GF overslept and left me standing" he'd get a lot of responses ripping into her and telling him to ditch her.

 

[00Kevin]

WTF! And this is a 24 year old woman???

who ever said amerianzied women are not imature?

 

[syemour]

GF gets drunk, texts me, "I cant see you ne more"
I text her back... "k, well its been fun, good luck with life, bye"
She replies... "Bye, I miss you"

Next morning she calls me,
"I'm sorry I didn't mean it"
I laughed at her... told her i had two dates this weekend already set up.
She immediately wants to come over and "talk about it in person"
I say... "well if your at my doorstep when I get home from work, I guess I'll have to let you in..."

I vote to stay single, keep telling her we might get back together...
And basically use her...

Anyone else have a girlfriend that would get drunk and break up with ya?
lmao

I dont know who you are or where you came from. When I looked at the tittle i thought this was going to be a simp post, boy was I wrong. Way to man up. There is hope for mankind after all. Thank you sir.

 

[lebRambo]

I agree. I didn't know the situation or realise you had done this when I read your first post. The poor girl probably doesn't think you give a sh1t about her, especially if you made no real attempt to apologise or make it upto her after.

The text was probably just a test to see how much you care and it backfired on her. I think you should give her the benefit of the doubt. It's obvious this girl thinks the world of you.

I'm sure if a guy came on here saying "My GF overslept and left me standing" he'd get a lot of responses ripping into her and telling him to ditch her.

This is actually true. Scorched, the way you handled it initially is awesome, but you have to ask yourself if maybe, just maybe, she really DOES care about you a lot more than one drunken night's actions would suggest. If she came over, did all this stuff, etc. then maybe there is hope (if you want her back that is).

And if you do decide to take her back, dont make it too easy for her (obviously I dont have to tell you this). But, in the same vein, dont treat her like complete crap either. A man stands up for himself and knows his worth, but he is also not without mercy and is certainly not vindictive and spiteful. Don't make the same mistake that she made.

 

[mrRuckus]

This is actually true. Scorched, the way you handled it initially is awesome, but you have to ask yourself if maybe, just maybe, she really DOES care about you a lot more than one drunken night's actions would suggest. If she came over, did all this stuff, etc. then maybe there is hope (if you want her back that is).

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What other 15 year old girl games does she pull though? There has to have been bull like this before... and will be later.

 

[CCKazi007]

I think she broke up because he agreed to meet her and slept right through it.

I, for example, am one of those people who get remarkably pissed when people have me clear my schedule and get ready to go somewhere, then they pass out/get too stoned/change their minds without bothering to tell me.

You can ease back into a relationship if she keeps being nice, but remember, you can't keep her enthralled if you're too tired and busy to see her.

Ya I HATE that when it happens, I take it as a sign of disrespect since I actually cared and changed my schedule for someone but they didn't do the same and not telling someone is the worst thing to do cuz it literally means they don't give a sh*t about your time or effort.

I hanged out with this kid once, we made plans to do stuff and he smoked pot and got all lazy and kept changing his mind. We ended up driving around 2 hours and wasted so much time so I killed him with my colt 45, two shots to the head..... no just kidding but I was really pissed afterwards and never hanged out with him again and that's prob the best solution for those kind of problems.

Back to the thread, that's pretty suave and props to you! I would keep the x as a f*ck buddy and get an another girlfriend who isn't a drunk.

 

[Scorched]

well you know she broke up with you like that most likely because some friend of hers made her do it.

I found out she was with her best friend that night. Her best friend is a single female, so yeah...

This is actually true. Scorched, the way you handled it initially is awesome, but you have to ask yourself if maybe, just maybe, she really DOES care about you a lot more than one drunken night's actions would suggest. If she came over, did all this stuff, etc. then maybe there is hope (if you want her back that is).

And if you do decide to take her back, dont make it too easy for her (obviously I dont have to tell you this). But, in the same vein, dont treat her like complete crap either. A man stands up for himself and knows his worth, but he is also not without mercy and is certainly not vindictive and spiteful. Don't make the same mistake that she made.

I slightly agree...

I told her she is on probation... for 30 days... After she told me she loved me for the first time and then gave me head, I told her that her sentece was reduced to 28 days. For the reasons above...

I'm glad she didn't ask if I loved her...
I would have said no...

It is going to be a long 4 more weeks... If she ****s up once, she is gone. Then I am back to having more free time for the gym and school and taking a break from this relationship bull****...

 

[lebRambo]

haha. goddamn dude, I wish I had your outlook on life

I'm working on it though

 

[IamtheAlphamale]

Ok since you guys seem to think chicks are evil people I'll just tell you what actually happened.
First of all he slept in and missed the date. This girl got so upset that he missed the date that she went straight for the booze. By the time he called her she was already half in the bag. Later on that night she was super smashed and broke up with him because she had been thinking about him the entire night and alcohal is a depresser so thats what happened. The next morning she realized what she did and called him. Then she was around later on to follow him around and beg him to take her back. This girl did not cheat on him she probably has very high IL even before the break up. This girl does not seem so bad to me she just did something very stupid. Girls are HIGHLY emotional and they freak out a lot. You don't need to be cruel to be a dj you just have to not be a "nice guy." You know I realize that he played this 'correctly' but you people really seem to have no regard for other people. Women are people too. Being nice makes them like you more.. trust me.

 

[Jariel]

This girl does not seem so bad to me she just did something very stupid. Girls are HIGHLY emotional and they freak out a lot. You don't need to be cruel to be a dj you just have to not be a "nice guy." You know I realize that he played this 'correctly' but you people really seem to have no regard for other people. Women are people too. Being nice makes them like you more.. trust me.

Very well put and shows a very good understanding of women. I'm with you 100% here. She must be hurting a lot starting from the moment she was "stood up".

 

[Holland]

Very well put and shows a very good understanding of women. I'm with you 100% here. She must be hurting a lot starting from the moment she was "stood up".

So what?
That's no reason for her to lose control over herself and act like she did.

Scorched made the right decision. He's a GOOD GUY. If she doesn't pull off shiit like that anymore he's going to treat her right after the 4 weeks. And the relationship will flourish from this.
He is right about being carefull. And it teaches her a lesson in self-esteem and control.
She was wrong to draw conclusions about him disliking her to soon and he showed her that. In a way, he is doing something very valuable.

 

[Chaos-Knight]

Well Done Man!

Props to you.

 

[Kev07]

Update*
So this morning I get home... Ignored her calls... She is parked right out side of my apartment and basically follows me in. She constantly pushes and pushes. Saying what ever she can do get me back. Like... "I didn't mean the text" "It was an accident" "Change your myspace back to in a relationship" (LMAO) "Please take me back" "Do you not want to be with me anymore?" Mostly I didn't answer her, just laughed. So eventually she starts crying and THEN... She tells me she loves me for the first time... I didn't say ****... So I got in my boxers and went to bed. She curled up on my next to me. I put her hand on my c*ck and then 5 mins later pushed her head down. Yes, the head was good... I told her thanks for the -Make up head- ... yeah... So then I slept 6 hours and ****ed her when I got out of bed. Showered and now she is out getting dinner and a few things I need from the store...

woooo, that is some vicious shvt, props to you bro :cheer:


lol@ the myspace comment, and lol@ all the threads of guys with threads like "my girl puts single in her myspace thing" WHO GIVES A DAMN!

 

[Kev07]

So what?
That's no reason for her to lose control over herself and act like she did.

Scorched made the right decision. He's a GOOD GUY. If she doesn't pull off shiit like that anymore he's going to treat her right after the 4 weeks. And the relationship will flourish from this.
He is right about being carefull. And it teaches her a lesson in self-esteem and control.
She was wrong to draw conclusions about him disliking her to soon and he showed her that. In a way, he is doing something very valuable.

holland is definetely right, what scorched did will definetely benefit him long term

 

[IamtheAlphamale]

Ofcourse it will. We were not saying it wouldn't. I was mainly commenting on the replies from other people. All he really did was counterplay it and end up ahead. I'm saying the people making replies need to realize that women are people too. Read all the stuff that was said. I'm not going to again but I did earlier and well.. thats why I made that original response.

 

[lebRambo]

Its basically a situation of what kind of winner Scorched is in this whole relationship game thats going on. Is he the kind that, not content to just win, will grind his gf into the dust and piss on the ashes, or will he play it like a man and not be vindictive about this.

I think what he did is totally the right thing, and deserves to be patted on the back for it.