Francisco d'Anconia said:
And this was supposed to be a grown @ss woman??? Cyber-stalking women like this are major trouble. Didn't you notice any signs of this before you broke up?
Not at first. But you know how it is... In the beginning everyone's on their best behavior. Sometimes it takes time for all the cracks in the armor to show themselves.
This was about 19-20 months into a 2 year relationship, and we were having other problems (many control issues, she wanting to get married, me not)
I didn't see a lot of signs of this previously. Did notice the looking at the keyboard when typing in my password but thought I was being paranoid.
The forum I was on wasn't something I wanted to share with anyone, dealing with drug addiction, in other words dealing with my ex wife and our disgusting breakup. She had no right to see it. She tried to play it off as an accident, but I've been trained to deal with better head games than she's capble of and cut through her ham-handed BS like a DU anti tank shell.
It showed me a really insecure and unstable side of her, that's for sure.
PS - I do use quck user switching. She knew what she was doing, she knew when to "check her e-mail," it was premeditated and I knew that. Was curious to see where she'd go with it. It was a test. She was going to do it when she had the opportunity, might as well see what she's up to with my eyes open.
