GF found this site!!

[bigjohnson]

What they said, plus, learn to use Windows "Fast User Switching" and a guest account. Establish that your account is private.

In the future I mean - lol.

 

[speed dawg]

Being on Sosuave is like being gay. It´s always fun ´till your friends find out about it ,bro!

Haha, yeah no sh1t. I'd catch some serious h*ll if my buddies knew I was on here.

 

[bigjohnson]

I don't advertise my personal life as a matter of course, but this site isn't anything to be particularly ashamed of is it?

 

[Sir Drinksalot]

BE CAREFUL of an insecure, jealous, or a covertly disloyal woman in this situation. they will jump all over you and accuse you of all kinds of stupid ****. my ex did...

Hell I agree with that. My ex found my screenname on a different forum, read stuff she really didn't want to read, and started some high-horse drama that contributed heavily to our breakup.

The irony is that I'm careful about security on that computer. She said she "just wanted to jump on and check her e-mail" while I was signed on. She tricked me, but I knew the risk and was testing her too.

This was important, though, because it showed me how desperately insecure she was inside. Started noticing her looking at the keyboard when I signed into my work e-mail (???) And that she was constantly dissecting every facet of my life.

Dump her for snooping and move on. What do you care if she dumps you? The point of this site is to get over oneitis and not have your self worth wrapped up in some insane woman's approval. Nailing a few of her friends after the split should make you feel better.

 

[squirrels]

My girl got on my computer and found this site. There were some posts on here I made that really pissed her off. Man I'm screwed. It sucks because I really care about her and I think she's gonna dump me.


:cuss:

What did you post, specifically, that pissed her off? She should be HAPPY that you're learning how to properly please/handle a woman.

 

[Francisco d'Anconia]

Hell I agree with that. My ex found my screenname on a different forum, read stuff she really didn't want to read, and started some high-horse drama that contributed heavily to our breakup...

And this was supposed to be a grown @ss woman??? Cyber-stalking women like this are major trouble. Didn't you notice any signs of this before you broke up?

 

[bigjohnson]

.... She said she "just wanted to jump on and check her e-mail" while I was signed on.

<WINDOWS>+L, then click on guest.

Fast user switching, use it, love it.

 

[Sir Drinksalot]

And this was supposed to be a grown @ss woman??? Cyber-stalking women like this are major trouble. Didn't you notice any signs of this before you broke up?

Not at first. But you know how it is... In the beginning everyone's on their best behavior. Sometimes it takes time for all the cracks in the armor to show themselves.

This was about 19-20 months into a 2 year relationship, and we were having other problems (many control issues, she wanting to get married, me not)

I didn't see a lot of signs of this previously. Did notice the looking at the keyboard when typing in my password but thought I was being paranoid.

The forum I was on wasn't something I wanted to share with anyone, dealing with drug addiction, in other words dealing with my ex wife and our disgusting breakup. She had no right to see it. She tried to play it off as an accident, but I've been trained to deal with better head games than she's capble of and cut through her ham-handed BS like a DU anti tank shell.

It showed me a really insecure and unstable side of her, that's for sure.

PS - I do use quck user switching. She knew what she was doing, she knew when to "check her e-mail," it was premeditated and I knew that. Was curious to see where she'd go with it. It was a test. She was going to do it when she had the opportunity, might as well see what she's up to with my eyes open.

 

[bigjohnson]

I do use quck user switching. She knew what she was doing, she knew when to "check her e-mail," it was premeditated and I knew that. Was curious to see where she'd go with it. It was a test. She was going to do it when she had the opportunity, might as well see what she's up to with my eyes open.

Ah, well that's a different thing then. Personally I have certain boundaries and my login is one that no one crosses, ever. But then I work in computer security and I'm a paraniod bastard.

 

[Sir Drinksalot]

Ah, well that's a different thing then. Personally I have certain boundaries and my login is one that no one crosses, ever. But then I work in computer security and I'm a paraniod bastard.

So do I, and I'm also paranoid. Because I'm so paranoid, I decided to give her some rope and see if she can tie a noose faster than an Eagle Scout (she could), and stick her head in it faster than an INXS lead singer (she did).

 

[Kings_royalty]

Yup, no need to hide much of anything. I have hundreds of party pics of me with dozens of different women. Why would I care if a chick found them on my computer? It's only gonna make her want me more. I don't exactly flash them in front of anyone, but it's funny to see a chicks reaction when she asks to see the pics from a few weeks ago (with her in them) and on the way through she sees pics of me with other women, especially if they are hot!

As for all the other stuff.....I keep things in boxes, and if they wanna dig through anything I have saved, more power to them.

Amen brotha!

 

[Bonhomme]

Bummer of way to learn about Internet Rule #1:

Treat anything you post anywhere on the internet as if it is being broadcast on the evening news for everyone on the planet to know.

 

[Wyldfire]

When a person visits this site for the first time, especially a woman, the site doesn't look like a site to help men better themselves and be more successful at dating and in their relationships. It honestly sounds like a bash women and brag about using them for sex site. If someone's girlfriend were to find it, the girlfriend would automatically suspect that you are using her.

I've posted quite a bit about someone who passed away who I loved very much and who loved me as well. Shortly after I joined the site I sent him a link and told him my username. He liked that I mentioned him because he had an ego that wouldn't quit, lol. I also never posted anything that I wouldn't or didn't say or discuss directly to or with him.

A good policy to have is to not post anything here that you wouldn't say directly to the person you are speaking about. That way if the person does happen to discover your posts somewhere you won't have anything to hide.

 

[Paradox]

All that being said it all boils down to security.

1. Don't give away you pin number for your ATM card.

2. Don't leave things around that you don't want other people to see.

3. Don't tell anyone something you want kept secret.

4. Don't let anyone use your computer unless you've cleared the cookies and signed out.


Women are nosey. How many women are on here right now?
She violated your privacy. YOU should be mad at her.

That said (for the 90th time)....thread closed