I have been dating my GF for two months. She is fiercely independent. This is due to screwy childhood, and other things of her past.
She pretty much just knows what she wants, and doesnt settle for anything less. She voices her opinion, and is consistantly looking out for herself. Not such a bad thing as long as one can deal with it I suppose. I have dealt with it fine, giving her space when she needs/wants it, and let her do what she needs to do, without effecting how I want to live my life. We work really well together becuase of it I think.
Anyway..all is fine, until something either makes her sad/mad/ etc.. If she has a problem she will lock up like a safe, and you have to pry and pry to get anything out of her. I am totally opposite so I am open with my problems, and I will let you know if I have an issue, and we can get it resolved. I have a hard time understanding what she does, but I know she is just a closed off person.
But when her actions (being super distant, quiet, one word asnwers, indecisive, etc.) are effecting me..when do I draw the line, and be like look "You have a problem...great. You've made it obviously clear of that, and I know you are not going to discuss it with me, so please dont bring both of us down here with your mood"
hmmm
She pretty much just knows what she wants, and doesnt settle for anything less. She voices her opinion, and is consistantly looking out for herself. Not such a bad thing as long as one can deal with it I suppose. I have dealt with it fine, giving her space when she needs/wants it, and let her do what she needs to do, without effecting how I want to live my life. We work really well together becuase of it I think.
Anyway..all is fine, until something either makes her sad/mad/ etc.. If she has a problem she will lock up like a safe, and you have to pry and pry to get anything out of her. I am totally opposite so I am open with my problems, and I will let you know if I have an issue, and we can get it resolved. I have a hard time understanding what she does, but I know she is just a closed off person.
But when her actions (being super distant, quiet, one word asnwers, indecisive, etc.) are effecting me..when do I draw the line, and be like look "You have a problem...great. You've made it obviously clear of that, and I know you are not going to discuss it with me, so please dont bring both of us down here with your mood"
hmmm