gf doing something behind my back..

[jookins]

So, my GF has a myspace account, i used to sign on there and look around on it and she didnt care, all the sudden, she changes her password and i thought ok i dont care, the other day, i'm sitting here on the computer and she's on my lap and i'm doing something and i goto paste something and it pasted a message she was sending complaining about me, i barely read it and she close it, it was, you know, the basic hiding excuse. i could tell she was nervous. then later on im on and someone messages her and i just kinda said hi and normally she wouldnt care but she flipped out and closed it really fast. so i knew something is up so later on i go on my aim log to find out, and she was talking to some guy.. basically the convo was :

him: hey
her: that was bob(me) talking to you earlier so dont say anything dumb
him: can he read the window?
her: yeah
him:i see
him: plan on responding to the message i sent you on myspace?
her: i dunno i havent read it, i cant here
her: i didnt get what you said on myspace so explain here
him: i got your long letter, and said " ok, so what do u wanna do then"
her: i dunno
her: talk n hang out more i guess
her: this isnt safe, talking here
and she signed off, i dunno what to do about this, obviously something is up.. i need help guys

 

[frivolousz21]

slap that bytch :woo:




no really, your pretty fycked.

even if she isnt cheating there is a huge lack of trust there now.


how old are u and ur gf?

 

[flexion_]

Ya major trust issues there.

I'd throw that chat log in her face and walk away myself.

 

[Movin on up]

Well, one thing a relationship is built off of trust. If you find yourself not being able to trust your girl...

Then the Doubt Monster will slowly start to rear his head more and more. Fights will start over pretty much nothing because you have this on your mind. And the relationship will go spiraling down to oblivion.

Talk to her first, ask her. Don't yell don't get angry. Just be honest and calm.

Hell and if you get any inkling that shes lying/ cheating with another guy. She isn't worth your time. Dump the bit-ch and dont look back.

Be the bigger man and just walk away.

 

[Sh0t]

you don't need help, you just need to find some other vaginas

 

[NewMan]

Walk away.

Forget about this b#tch - can't be trusted.

 

[jookins]

thanks guys. thats what i needed. she's just a slut

 

[Ever onward]

You should walk away before she dumps you. Don't let her have the "upper hand".

 

[Life-Trainee]

Start looking for opportunities elsewhere and then next her.

 

[spider_007]

Start preparing to move on. go look for some other pvssy......

 

[Lost In Translation]

get a free KEYLOGGER program

see exactly what she is up to

 

[jookins]

basically i dumped her calmly and she freaks out and and she asked why and i told her she knows and she keeps asking and asking and i threw it in her face and she says he thinks she's a slut and telling all his friends and convincing them to not be her friend and she goes to him with all her problems and wants him to not think shes' a slut and blah blah and has to hide it from me because i would have freaked out. i have never freaked out on her for talking to a guy. i've told her i wont put up with her bs talking to guys and hanging out with them all the time but i never got mad about something like that.. what do you guys think. i dunno.. it seems kind of fishy to me.

 

[darthsidious]

<darth mode off>

show us your girl's myspace account if you dare.

usually when a girl has an internet profile which shows a lot about herself (what music she likes, her pictures, etc) my trust level in her is always 50/50.

the internet is an advantage for women, they can pick and choose at greater numbers thus increasing their who redom. when a girl hides stuff or whatever, i don't mind cause i watch her actions.

even though snooping around is distrustful, your gut said "something's up" and her actions said "something's up" so you took a chance and broke the vow of trust and now you see she is deceiving you.

<darth mode on>

destroy all contents of her presence on the computer, prepare to dump or be dumped, prepare to look for other girls and have clear goals for what you must do next youngling.

you must crush her first before she crushes you, do her in before she does you in. after darth vader choked his ho, i supplied darth with a bunch of young bitc hes for him to force **** since he had no penis.

UNLEASH THE ANGER WITHIN, DESTROY HER AT ONCE!!!

 

[spider_007]

you did good, now GRAB YOUR BALLS AND STICK TO IT, AND MOVE ON.....

 

[TedJustAdmitIt]

If it seems kind of fishy it usually is.
You dumped her,she panicked and came up with some bollocks to squirm her way out of it.

I'll second what darth said about girls with myspace accounts.....what's the point of them other than to get attention?

 

[italostud]

Originally posted by Lost In Translation
get a free KEYLOGGER program

see exactly what she is up to

Exactly! You have a perfect opportunity to use a keylogger to it's maximum potential, since you have access to her computer.

Install it next time you see her. From there, don't bring up anything about your suspicions. Treat her so awesome her panties get wet when she thinks about you. Give it a week, then check the keylogger.

Print out all of the incriminating things she's typed.

Now, during this week, you should...wait, you MUST go find a wh0re. Bang this ho in the bum and make sure to take pictures. This will work the best if the ho you're banging is her best friend/sister/mom

Now, put the printed stuff and the pics in an envelope.

Go over to her place, and tell her you have a present for her. Hand her the envelope and say "Don't open it for 30 seconds"

Then pretend like you forgot something outside.

Get about 50 feet away from her place because you might have to run like the wind! Seeing her facial expression will give you some closure/revenge/ whatever.

Try to take pictures of that too.

 

[jookins]

LMAO! that was hilarious. that would be classic

 

[jookins]

i agree about myspace. it just gives attention *****s somewhere to get attention from ***** whipped guys, and emo's to go and cry. i guess it narrows it down for us though "do you have a myspace account?" "yeah" "next"

 

[Ever onward]

she says he thinks she's a slut and telling all his friends and convincing them to not be her friend and she goes to him with all her problems and wants him to not think shes' a slut and blah blah and has to hide it from me because i would have freaked out

Oh so why does she give fvck what that guy and his friends think of her? She seems more concerned with him and his feelings than you and yours.

fvck her

 

[NewMan]

Why would he think she's a slvt?

Bottom line is this.

Your going to move on whatever RIGHT? you'd better.

The question is - do you want to keep up this sharad - just to get this keylogger software going and to make her feel like crap?

Seems like a waste of time to me.

The fact is, she's needy and co dependent.

Move on.