GF Contacting an EX

[T2219T]

well. good luck man, but i think u messed it up from the beggining, u shuld have drawn the line from the sec. she started communicating with her ex. bt its H2O under the bridge now. so maybe wats left to do now is just try and patch thangs up. u culd start by ridding yo mind of guilt first, stop thinkin u r the loser here, u r not the only loser. she is also stands to lose. now u want things to go back to the way they was right. wat yu can do is just do wat u used to do when things was good btwn y'all. go out often. get goin with the ****y/funny stuff, be the great guy she fell in love with. that way her I.L will go back to 100, and the problems u havin will be overshadowed by the great time u be having. above all man, have a positive mindset while u are at it, cuz nothing messes up everything better than a negative mindset. have relaxed confidence too. (read some of the seduction science reports on relaxed confidence). that way, i think soon u be back on track

Thank You Brother, I guess its probably what I can do now. l'll follow this advice, and see how it goes. I heard that when a girl's interest level drops, its impossible to get it back. But, Im willing to just try it out here.. Will Update everyone on my progress.. Thanks for all the help here DJs.

 

[DJ Alejandro]

dergz here got everything right. hell.. i needed to hear the same too. thanks, dergz.

 

[Dergz]

glad i culd b of help

 

[mrRuckus]

And to all those here saying that all contact must be cut, you are all insecure.

The number of times a girl has returning feelings for an ex I can't count. Your relationship takes the littlest bit of a (temporary) dip (you're distracted by work or something and she feels neglected) and the pining ex swoops back in and she remembers "the good ol days" and forgets the bad ones and suddenly she's thinking about him and how much "nicer he is than you" (supplicates and buys presents constantly and sh1t) or whatever and boom the seed of discontent and disarray is planted.

Nowadays, this "insecure" thing is thrown about haphazardly as if anything a man views of as "hey that's just wrong or damaging to our relationship" becomes "you're so insecure!" Sometimes sh1t just needs to stop or is inappropriate and the man (or even the woman) has to step up and say hey this isn't helping our relationship at all and we need to talk about it.... and it needs not to be blown off as "you're insecure! you're a weakling! i can do whatever i want because if you have a problem with it i can strip away your masculinity and falsely call you insecure if you call me on my bullsh1t!"

 

[insanity]

exs are not to be taking very lightly. some guys will act all tough and tell you that there's nothing to worry about. really think about it... some exs make mistakes. their just waiting for a moment of weakness to swoop in. say you and your girl get in a fight, whose she going to tell? maybe they'll discuss it over a few drinks and then they get talking about the good ol days. and bang he makes his move.

next day-thats when your girl says she doesn't know why or how it happened and that it will never happen again! or maybe she just won't tell you at all.

listen to your heart! if you have a bad feeling about this, your intuition is kicking in.

 

[izza]

You could make her promise not to cheat on you with him? Or even better you could force her to choose between you two.

Or, and here's a thought, you could grow a spine, make it absolutely clear that if you even suspect she's cheating on you, she's gone, and not worry about it anymore.

Izza

 

[Climax]

pahlease!

The number of times a girl has returning feelings for an ex I can't count. Your relationship takes the littlest bit of a (temporary) dip (you're distracted by work or something and she feels neglected) and the pining ex swoops back in and she remembers "the good ol days" and forgets the bad ones and suddenly she's thinking about him and how much "nicer he is than you" (supplicates and buys presents constantly and sh1t) or whatever and boom the seed of discontent and disarray is planted.

Nowadays, this "insecure" thing is thrown about haphazardly as if anything a man views of as "hey that's just wrong or damaging to our relationship" becomes "you're so insecure!" Sometimes sh1t just needs to stop or is inappropriate and the man (or even the woman) has to step up and say hey this isn't helping our relationship at all and we need to talk about it.... and it needs not to be blown off as "you're insecure! you're a weakling! i can do whatever i want because if you have a problem with it i can strip away your masculinity and falsely call you insecure if you call me on my bullsh1t!"

Agreed... My point is that occasional contact is fine... If the it becomes more regular, THEN itsa something that you need to stand up and say "WHAT THE F*CK IS GOING ON HERE B!tCH?!?!?"

kthanx.


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