We dated for about 4 months. Everything was going great and she is a great girl, rare to find, pretty, good hearted, smart and very wealthy. Things were good with us but she has been having problems with her parents ever since we started dating. Her father has control issues and is very strict with her. He treats her like she is 15 years old. I am 21 she is 19 and he rarely lets her have any freedom.
Last week her dad decided to kick her out of the house, withdrew her from college and told her that he wants her to work hard like he did when he first started. I let her move in with me.
I am myself poor, I dont have any parents and I just recently lost my internship and my car broke down. I told her that I dont know how she will get used to this lifestyle and that its going to be hard for her. We lived together for a few days and she felt kind of distant from me. She has always been the one calling me 5 times a day and she always liked my touch. So something was diffrent. She said she had stomach and that she is upset in general with whats going on with her life.
On sunday I lost control on the phone while she was at her manager's house (even though he is gay) I simply demanded her to be home by 9 so we put her clothes up in the closet. Well, she didnt want to come back by 9 and that threw me into a fit, I litelly yelled on the phone and acted like a child that couldnt get his candy. She said that I was acting like her dad and the argument only escalated to the point that she had her gf come and pick her up.
I havent seen her since. We talked couple of times between sunday and teusday and argued a little more, but not as bad. Tuesday was free of arguments but she kept talking about her wanting to take a break and that she is moving back in with her parents and going to enroll back in college. She said that she has mixed feelings and she isn't sure that she feels about me the same way she did a couple of weeks ago. She said that she needs to figure herself out and she is in a bad place right now mentally. Of course I didnt take it well then, I was appologetic for my behaviour, the jealousy, not trusting her and my stress of having no money and losing a car put a big toll on me.
I tried to talk her out of it, but it just seemed pathetic after 30 minutes on the phone, I told her that I have said what I had to say and if thats how she feels then there is nothing I can do and wished her good luck in school.
At first she was talking about a break and saying that she will see me in a couple of weeks since we are both without cars. But the last conversation I just went "so you are pretty much breaking up with me?" and she said yes.
I talked to her best friend who actually introduced us to each other, and she said that she things that I can get her back but I need to show her that I can get a job and stand on my own feet.
I really love this girl, even its only been 4 months, we confessed to each other not to long ago. But we both have our personal issues that caused this break up. I should have been more supportive and less demanding like I was. I literlly acted crazy on sunday when we talked on the phone. So her issues with dad, school and a controling bf were to much, so she is just thinking the best for herself. But I want to work it out.
Id like to get her back, but I know that I shouln't call her anytime soon, I need to give her room to think and time to miss me. I thought about sending her flowers next week, but I figured its a bad decision. I want to call her, but Im not going to because its going to show that I am weak. She know I love her and miss her, I told her that last day we talked. so I dont know what to do. Wait for her to call me? Send flowers? Wait till the wedding next week
s sunday that we are both invited to? what if she doesn't show up?
Im frustrated and I cant get her out of my mind.
Last week her dad decided to kick her out of the house, withdrew her from college and told her that he wants her to work hard like he did when he first started. I let her move in with me.
I am myself poor, I dont have any parents and I just recently lost my internship and my car broke down. I told her that I dont know how she will get used to this lifestyle and that its going to be hard for her. We lived together for a few days and she felt kind of distant from me. She has always been the one calling me 5 times a day and she always liked my touch. So something was diffrent. She said she had stomach and that she is upset in general with whats going on with her life.
On sunday I lost control on the phone while she was at her manager's house (even though he is gay) I simply demanded her to be home by 9 so we put her clothes up in the closet. Well, she didnt want to come back by 9 and that threw me into a fit, I litelly yelled on the phone and acted like a child that couldnt get his candy. She said that I was acting like her dad and the argument only escalated to the point that she had her gf come and pick her up.
I havent seen her since. We talked couple of times between sunday and teusday and argued a little more, but not as bad. Tuesday was free of arguments but she kept talking about her wanting to take a break and that she is moving back in with her parents and going to enroll back in college. She said that she has mixed feelings and she isn't sure that she feels about me the same way she did a couple of weeks ago. She said that she needs to figure herself out and she is in a bad place right now mentally. Of course I didnt take it well then, I was appologetic for my behaviour, the jealousy, not trusting her and my stress of having no money and losing a car put a big toll on me.
I tried to talk her out of it, but it just seemed pathetic after 30 minutes on the phone, I told her that I have said what I had to say and if thats how she feels then there is nothing I can do and wished her good luck in school.
At first she was talking about a break and saying that she will see me in a couple of weeks since we are both without cars. But the last conversation I just went "so you are pretty much breaking up with me?" and she said yes.
I talked to her best friend who actually introduced us to each other, and she said that she things that I can get her back but I need to show her that I can get a job and stand on my own feet.
I really love this girl, even its only been 4 months, we confessed to each other not to long ago. But we both have our personal issues that caused this break up. I should have been more supportive and less demanding like I was. I literlly acted crazy on sunday when we talked on the phone. So her issues with dad, school and a controling bf were to much, so she is just thinking the best for herself. But I want to work it out.
Id like to get her back, but I know that I shouln't call her anytime soon, I need to give her room to think and time to miss me. I thought about sending her flowers next week, but I figured its a bad decision. I want to call her, but Im not going to because its going to show that I am weak. She know I love her and miss her, I told her that last day we talked. so I dont know what to do. Wait for her to call me? Send flowers? Wait till the wedding next week
s sunday that we are both invited to? what if she doesn't show up?
Im frustrated and I cant get her out of my mind.
