kingkong98 said:
my gf was supposed to come over today but instead she cancelled on me because she said she needs to go to the mall and buy me a valentines day gift.
This is crazy. I've heard a lot of wacky excuses from women,but this one...this one is in a league of it's own.
I mean which is more important,the RELATIONSHIP,or some trinket or gift that suppose to
represent the relationship?
That reason doesn't make any sense. For one...
There are still 5 days to go until Valentine's Day. That's PLENTY of time to go buy a gift.
Also,(unless I'm mistaken) this was a
scheduled get-together,it was pre-planned. So why would she choose the time that
you two had already set aside for each other to go run an errand?
She couldn't pick one of the four following days to go do something that'll take all of 30 minutes to do?
kingkong98 said:
I wouldnt think anything of it except for the fact that this is the 3rd time lately that she's made plans with me then cancelled. the other two times were because she supposedly had a lot of homework to do.
Something's up.
She made plans with you,then cancelled them because of homework?
That's a lie dude. I'm not saying she didn't have any homework to do,but her cancelling on you like that makes it seem like she just found out about having homework AT THE LAST MINUTE.
And even if she did have homework,if her interest in you is high,if she feels passion and chemistry with you (as she should since you're her boyfriend),she'd reschedule.
It's actually pretty simple. If a woman wants to see you,SHE'LL SEE YOU.
kingkong98 said:
overall our relationship has been pretty good but sometimes she flips out and says she doesnt trust me because of the fact that i kissed someone else right after me and her were supposed to be exclusive. She lost her virginity to me and was the first to say "i love you" since i refuse to ever say it first to a girl. I just dont understand what's going on lately with all of the flaking out on plans.
Well you kissing another girl wasn't a smart thing to do if you wanted to be exclusive with her,however,I doubt that's the reason for her flakiness.
You say her behavior have changed as of lately. That usually means that somewhere down the line,
your behavior changed FIRST.
I don't want to have to type it out all over again,so just check
THIS out. Don't worry,it's not 5 pages of a thread to read,in fact,it's not a thread at all,just one single reply.
You don't have to read the whole thing,just skip down to reply number 14.
If should help you get things back on track,that is...
if the problem is just her interest level is low.
If there's another guy,then you got a problem. But you following what's outlined in the thread I suggested should straighten things out.
should i ask her whats going on or pretend that i dont notice/dont care?
I wouldn't ask her what's going on. You won't get any answer that'll make any sense.
And if her attraction for you had declined,you having a "discussion" with her won't fix anything. Just do what's in the thread I mentioned.