I'm gonna tell you some things you wont like, but if you listen to me, you will look back on today and smile. If you don't want to listen, stop reading now.
Look man, two things happen at parties:
1.) People have fun, see old friends, get drunk and share good times.
2.) People go there to meet new people to hook up with.
Now if #1 was the case, your girl would have invited you, and told you to bring some boys.
But lets face it, she didn't invite you. So it's obvious that she wants to look single at that party. So lets keep #2 in mind. Now you're telling me that she wants to spend the night there.
Now you tell me she has hung out with her ex-hooks in the recent past. Hook-ups as in guys she has f*cked with no strings attached?
So you have a girl that:
1.) Is at a party getting drunk.
2.) Is spending the night over.
3.) Has a history in which she has had no strings attached sex.
Do the math man. Stop listening to that "im never gonna cheat on you" song she's singing you. Look at her actions man. the 1,2,3s. It's simple mathematics 1+2+3=ho.
My friend there are two types of girls in this world. There are those who are girlfriend material, and those who are not.
A girl that's girlfriend material only goes to these parties with her man, because she feels uncomfortable in that setting without someone who she trusts can protect her. A ho on the other hand feels at home in such an environment because she has been in it since her early days.
A decent girl will not f*ck guys with no strings attached. And they certanly wouldn't hang out with one when they had a man. Ex boyfriends is one thing, but f*ck buddies is another. Only hos have f*ck buddy relationships. These are not girlfriend material girls man.
A decent girl will NOT go to places where she will get drunk and have guys attempt to f*ck her while her man is at home man.
Start taking some control when it comes to your life man! Be selective with your women. Don't try to have a relationship with every girl you sleep with man. Being in a relationship just for the sake of "having a girlfriend" is a bad reason man!
Be selective! If she's not girlfriend material, if you know you can't trust her or respect her in a relationship, then f*ck her and don't get attached. If she is girlfriend material, and isn't a ho, then treat her well.
but don't try to convince yourself that a girl you know is a ho, is girlfriend material. Because you're lying to the one person you can't afford to lie to - yourself. And don't try to turn a ho into a decent girlfriend.
You can heat it up, melt it, you can freeze it, you can hit it with a hammer, but in the end, you can't turn sh!t into gold.
Find yourself a decent girl man. Find a girlfriend you can trust, one that you know respects you, and respects herself. Find a girl you can be proud of, and leave hos to people that can't do any better.
