Last time I got asked this question:
I was dating girl for over 2year, had a lot in common you know the usual story, cut along story short don’t want to bore ppl here.
I worked late 2am weekends e.t.c she was not happy dont blame her at the time.
She started to go out clubbing with female friends and stay over in different places, I did not, mind I was working.
One day she says “do you ever wonder if I have cheated on you”.
She was showing bad signs: being cold, more distant for a while and my gut knew something was wrong.
The question was asked at an awkward moment, I responded with ‘I don’t think about it’, she then asked ‘what would you do if I did cheat’ I simply said, I would try to forgive you (I was trying to get a response).
A few weeks later, I got a phone call, she was crying ‘I cheated on you with some guy in a club, blah blah blah).
I dumped her right there and then, the only reason she told me was because I said I would forgive her, she spent the next 5 months trying to get back out with me, phoning my job/house/showing up e.t.c. I cracked at the time and went back out with her for 2weeks but the thought of some other guy, up her whilst I was seeing her, soon crept in and I could not bear to be with her, so no i could not forgive her and why should I?
I grew some, made a lot of mistakes after that and most likely will make a lot of mistakes more, but one thing I wont do and that is entertain a cheating women, not my idea of fun anyway, unless ofc she is cheating with some hot blonde and I am invited to watch
So I would say watch out, from exp’ this is a two edged sword question.
I was dating girl for over 2year, had a lot in common you know the usual story, cut along story short don’t want to bore ppl here.
I worked late 2am weekends e.t.c she was not happy dont blame her at the time.
She started to go out clubbing with female friends and stay over in different places, I did not, mind I was working.
One day she says “do you ever wonder if I have cheated on you”.
She was showing bad signs: being cold, more distant for a while and my gut knew something was wrong.
The question was asked at an awkward moment, I responded with ‘I don’t think about it’, she then asked ‘what would you do if I did cheat’ I simply said, I would try to forgive you (I was trying to get a response).
A few weeks later, I got a phone call, she was crying ‘I cheated on you with some guy in a club, blah blah blah).
I dumped her right there and then, the only reason she told me was because I said I would forgive her, she spent the next 5 months trying to get back out with me, phoning my job/house/showing up e.t.c. I cracked at the time and went back out with her for 2weeks but the thought of some other guy, up her whilst I was seeing her, soon crept in and I could not bear to be with her, so no i could not forgive her and why should I?
I grew some, made a lot of mistakes after that and most likely will make a lot of mistakes more, but one thing I wont do and that is entertain a cheating women, not my idea of fun anyway, unless ofc she is cheating with some hot blonde and I am invited to watch
So I would say watch out, from exp’ this is a two edged sword question.