GF and I clashed today on the road... she stopped the car and got out.

[TheLadiesMan]

...I got in the driver's seat and drove off.

She calls me up seconds later...

"What?!"

"Are you REALLY driving off and leaving me here?"

"...YOU got out and started walking!"

"I'm in heels, and I'm gonna twist my ankle walking on these rocks!"

"Do you want me to come back and get you?"

"...yes."



Picked her back up, we went and got me some new Adidas, and she flashed me her tits in the store.

 

[BongDuy]

wait, lol.... go into more detail about the tits.


no really, how did it go from point A to point B? lol this sounds like good news though?

 

[LeftyLoosey]

Now THAT, gentlemen, is how you pass a sh!t test.

 

[TheLadiesMan]

wait, lol.... go into more detail about the tits.


no really, how did it go from point A to point B? lol this sounds like good news though?

I believe she gave me the "I'm going to act like an insane ***** and see if he caves like a *****" test.

Passed.

How I got her to flash those tits was easy. She wanted me to make up my mind on the type of shoes I wanted, and I just looked her in the eyes and said "Show me yo titties..." and she did... not like I haven't had them up close and personal.

 

[ketostix]

OK nice outcome, but a few questions. Who's car was it? Hers or yours? If it was yours while were you letting her drive it, and if it ws hers, she could've just as easily called the cops instead of you and reported her car stolen. Also, what race is your GF, white? I can't speak for how black women are, but with white women us white guys just can't get away with the same things or get the same response that black guys get with them.

 

[3countriesPlan]

If as a white male you can't get away with the stuff blacks can with white girls, maybe it's time you went for some latin ho with a cinnamon tan

 

[TheLadiesMan]

My question is, even after all that mess yesterday.. I believe in the back of her mind, she's still pissed that I would leave her on the road.

What's the best way to handle this situation?

 

[LovelyLady]

What happened that she felt she had to get out of the car to begin with?

 

[speed dawg]

What happened that she felt she had to get out of the car to begin with?

Most guys here would probably be quick to scream "NEXT THAT B1TCH HO HE HA HOO HEEEE!!!!11" but not me.

LadiesMan, if you are anything like me, I know for a fact I have the *******dness inside me to drive people crazy and WANT to get out of the car. So you might want to remember that.

 

[jophil28]

... I believe in the back of her mind, she's still pissed that I would leave her on the road.

What's the best way to handle this situation?

The best way is to abandon your AFC thinking behind the question by understanding that it is NOT your job as a man to make her 'unpissed' .
Let her stay "pissed"...

Most of us make this mistake over and over,,... when our women are angry we habitually find ways to sooth her feelings and, in so doing, so we 'train' them expect that we will "do something nice" for them when they are upset.

If she acted so badly that you were ready to drive away, then she deserves to stay with her feelings.
Punishment is SUPPOSED to be painful otherwise it does not send the intended message and fails in its purpose.

 

[spider_007]

I did that once. I just got a speeding ticket, and was feeling down and depressed (I have lots of them) and she was making fun of me, not realizing (even after repeated warnings) that she was pushing a HUGE button. After 30 seconds of screaming at each other I pulled over and told her to get the f... out. I figured she would call for me to come back, but she didn't. She did call a week later and apologized.

 

[Warrior74]

What have we learned? We learned Chris Brown was a dumbass, he shoulda just made her walk for a while to put her in place. Now look at the shmuck.

Good on ya LadiesMan!

 

[BlackJackal]

My question is, even after all that mess yesterday.. I believe in the back of her mind, she's still pissed that I would leave her on the road.

What's the best way to handle this situation?

Brush it off as nothing. What can you do? She wants to throw a tantrum and pull stuff like that then she should suffer the consequences. bet she wont pull that stunt no more.