Gf acting weird after party.

[GREAT WHITE SHARK]

hello
here is the situation,

My gf graduated and they had a big party, with dance, drinks, food, etc... a month before this party she adviced me about it and told me that it would cost 50 bucks. Ok, I said I would go.

Her dad gave her money so she could buy the tickets for her family and for me, but she didnt bought mine! Later I will tell you the reason she gave me for this.

On her class there is a dude that always talk to her, borrow her books, called her once I think... and guess what, the stupid was there at the party, he was graduating too.

3 days before the party I gave her the money to buy my tickets, ... late night she called me and said that there were no more tickets. She cried on the phone, I was really sad because I wanted to go!

The 2 days before the party I called her college and spoke to several different people who could arrange me to get in. No results.

The day before she told via ICQ that her dad had gave her the money, but she didnt bought mine because she taught that I didnt want to go!!! Even tough I said that I wanted to!

I got mad after knowing that.

The party day I went to the beach and forgot about it.

The day after I entered ICQ and she was on line, then we began to chat, really distant, unpersonal.

She said that the party was really great, never had such a great time laughing so much, send me a picture of her table, with guess who sitted on it? A few people AND the stupid from her class right by her side... an important thing too, she said that felt sorry for me not going, but DIDNT missed me at the party at all!!

Damn, when I travel I miss her a lot, I went on a trip to another city and went to raves were I could easily cheat on her (its so great to be a DJ ), but I didnt, because I like and respect her! and was always missing her presence.

This party thing happened a few days ago, and nowadays I feel that she is acting different from before, there is a something in the air..

The same next day I took her for a ride, and in the car after discussing a lot about it she asked if I would like to break up, if I would prefer a chick that dresses better, that loves money (because I want to get rich and complained that she doesnt support my dreams - well I focked up a few of her dreams too - she was right on this) I said no... and then we entered the house and had sex.

Well, she is acting weird.

 

[Monkey]

Originally posted by GREAT WHITE SHARK
I took her for a ride, and in the car after discussing a lot about it she asked if I would like to break up, if I would prefer a chick that dresses better, that loves money (because I want to get rich and complained that she doesnt support my dreams - well I focked up a few of her dreams too - she was right on this) I said no... and then we entered the house and had sex.

Well, she is acting weird.

Sounds like shes trying to get YOU to break up with her to justify her 'other' ideas.

I hate to say it but it all sounds too fishy to me - she had plenty of time to order that ticket and yet she didn't. If she wanted you to go she would have ordered a ticket for you without fail.

I think shes either lost interest or is into someone else.

Suggest a 'break' and see how she reacts - that'll give it all away.

 

[drixsa]

dude i have given you the same advise before, just talk to the damn girl and make sure she answers the questions that you asked

maybe im crazy but im starting to think that something weird happened with her, possibly involving something sexual and she is neglecting to tell ya.

then again i dont know how crazy you two kids are so it can be hard to judge

keep us posted and dont go Jaws on her

 

[Knicknack]

for a self-glossed "DJ" you seem to act a bit too AFC... this chick has disrespected you numerous times, yet you continue to worship her. she not only showed you with her ACTIONS that she didn't want you at the party, but she straight up told you she had a GREAT time WITHOUT you. i'd get rid of any chick who behaved in this manner.

 

[DankNuggs]

Cut this guy some slack, been in the exact same situation...She cheated on you, or is set to, but is too afraid to break up, so she is trying to get you to break up with her....

My advice is to give her her wish, do it tactfully and distance yourself. Persue other girls...Let her have what she wants...its only going to decline from here


gl

 

[chlywly]

Sounds like this belongs in the highschool forums, either that or you have some serious growing up to do.

I can see why your frustrated, obviously she's playing games; and she's getting the best of you, so just relax bro.. remember, there are BILLIONS of other women who would treat you much better... no reason to be a door-matt... and at the same time don't be a jerk.

 

[NewMan]

Yeah break up with her - she's playing ya. Break up with her because YOU are being disrespected - don't wait for her to break up with you.

Cut off contact - don't be her emotional tampon.

Then get some English lessons.

 

[GREAT WHITE SHARK]

Originally posted by NewMan


Then get some English lessons.

I can write english wrong, but I can also write in portughese, italian, french, and spanish, while you... just english...?


Thanks all for the replies, yesterday I went to sleep by her house, I didnt have the courage to ask her anything about it... yes I know, such an afc move..

I will let it go until next sunday, when we will see each other again.. I cant deny she is a little bit different from before.

If it continuos, then I will talk to her.

Damn, I still have afc attitudes.

 

[Paid Laid & Made]

Scout the situation, one of suggestions is to go and talk to one of her friends about it (one that you are cool with and knows wont sell you out). But I have been in this situation before and yeah, girls normally like breaking up this way as in their simple minds they see it as having rid themselves of any guilt from their deed.