GEZZZZZZ What next? Any help with this situation guys?

[Crotch Sniffer]

Ya shouldnt really talk to a girl logically about your fellings. It just doesnt work.

Just write her off completely. If you see her, pretend she doesnt exist. Dont you realize she doesnt deserve an explanation?

Just be cool man. Dont let her get to you and make damn sure she sees you having a grand time with other women!

 

[badger04]

I guess I should have seen it coming. The more I was with her the more this crap happened and I began to wonder what else it would take to make her happy. Did you ever get the feeling that you were doing everything you could for someone and they still had their "quirks". Funny thing is that since I have decided to do this I for some reason feel that she is going to be a little more than upset. WHY do people like this get upset when you walk away and give them what they "APPARENTLY" want. I still have her car at my house because we bought an older 89 Iroc and were fixing it up she knows it and I think I just to get her her car tomorrow and that is going to let her know that I am done trying to fix this.

 

[Crotch Sniffer]

dont be sad bro. you are doing the right thing.

She will take it hard though so be prepared. Girls like this have fragile self esteem and dont take rejection well at all. Dont pay attention to her conflicting messages either. Her actions are speaking so loudly, you shouldnt be able to hear what the fvck she is saying!

Make sure you sever all ties with her, there are billions of women out there who are sweeter, prettier and give better head than she does.

BTW..the more you try to please people like this, the more they resent you. Weird huh?

 

[badger04]

WELLLLLLLLLLLL, And the saga goes on and on and on etc...
She called me Friday at my store and was playing around because I left a crappy message on her answering machine telling her that I was through and she needed to get her car out of my garage at the house asap. So I don't know how it happened but I ended up down at her place and we were just playing around and the next thing I knew we were fuking like mad. More than likely the best sex I have had with her????????? This is from the same girl who wouldn't kiss me on the mouth the day before? Anyways She called me and said she would help me get her car fixed on Friday evening. I knew it from the start that she was standing me up so it didn't bother me to much that she stood me up. Her car broke down Friday evening and guess who came to the rescue........ Yeah SUPER NEW BOYFRIEND.
Not only did he help her out BUT GET THIS the guy gives her his new $35,000 Saleen Mustang to drive so she doesnt have to come out here to get her car and so forth. The guy does NOT want her to have any reason to contact me for some reason or another? Needless to say I havent heard from her since Friday. DAMNNNNNNNNNNNNNNNNN I cannot believe I got played out by a kid whos 23 years old? Nothing against that age group but HOW IN THE HELL can you meet a girl and be dating her 1 week and buy her a new phone, send her piles of flowers, take her lunch at work everyday, give her your compueter to use, take her shopping, movies, etc... and on top of that GIVE HER YOUR FREAKING CAR??????????????? But the funny thing is if he is soooooooooooooo great why was she screwing me on Friday. The last thing I picture about that is the sight of her with her mouth open and goo dripping all over her face...... I wonder if the guy was kissing her Friday night when he stayed at her place. Go figure this situation out as I have finally began to realize I am plyed out here.......LOL I am not hurting here as I have a nice house, a new Toyota Tacoma 4X4, 98 Cobra Mustang Convertible, and a 1997 Camaro Z28 all trickd out. I guess to be a serious player I need to just start letting every girl I meet drive me cars and shell fall for me? WTF. I was even desperate enough to put my pic up on Hot or Not to see if there was somthing wrong with me? The score I have is 9.1 so I guess thats good. By the way I left out the fact that I left this bittttch get close to my 6 year old daughter as I would have married this girl. To me that was worth more than any damn car or somthing I could buy her. Now I have to try and make my little girl forget about this girl because she keeps wondering when shes coming over. FUNNY THING, She has 3 pictures of my daughter on her frinde and I want them back but she says shes keeping them there? WHY is she pulling that crap and why won't she just give them back!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

 

[iqqi]

echo, i now love you.

Originally posted by echo1212
I don't know, maybe I'm living in another universe or something, but this without a doubt takes the cake for biggest afc i have ever seen (badger) and some of the worst advice on the history of this board.

i was reading with my mouth open in shock! like WTF is going on?

first, dude, your psycho, the girls psycho..you both deserve each other. Either that or your all 15 years old, including the new bf.

could NOT have said it any better. you stole the words from my confused, lost mind.

crotchhead- your advice did suck bad, but i know you just got caught up in the fact that you went through the same thing, and you share whatever fcuked up tendency badger has. but i hope you have learned. you are normally pretty intelligent.

badger- you are a big AFC. because you want to change it around. you want to keep her. "guys can i change it around? can i make it how it was?" you want that drama and fcukedupness of her.

guess what! you can! you can! (but why would you?)

because you are an AFC. she has both of you in her back pocket. chump.

 

[echo1212]

Bottom line is: Dude..your an afc. No your worse than that..your a BAFC-below average afc. You took every piece of good advice on this forum and threw it out the window..like I knew you would. I could tell by your responses that you were just LOOKING to get back with her..begging for it, you just didnt want to come out and admit it.

Your hopelessly wrapped around this girls finger, and all she has to do to quiet you like a spanked puppy dog is to spread her legs once in a while and you'll follow her like a quiet little lamb.

My advice to you is over. It is to valuable to be disreagrded so blatantly. You will just have to learn the hard way. And trust me..you will learn..and it will be hard..you will feel pain like you've never felt before..and then and only then will you be ready to truely listen to us.

 

[echo1212]

Yes iqqi, good post. And thankyou. It was pretty easy to see how this was gonna end up.

 

[trevor2003]

she broke up with you 4-5 times already???

man, don't even bother with her, who cares how hot she is!

sounds like your pu$$y-whipped!

so NEXT her before she dumps you again!

 

[Bonhomme]

Next or **** Buddy?

Those are your only 2 reasonable choices.

She obviously doesn't respect either of you.

I know it's hard to let go, but if you're a 9.1 on hotornot you should be able to attract others.... if you don't be a total chump over them.