Getting Your Ex Back

[Rockstar]

Ok, first I just want to clarify that I am indeed an as*hole. That is the only reason I'm doing this. Anyways, the backstory:I dated this girl for 2 months in January and February of this year. She lived 90 minutes from me while attending a university. She left me in early March for one of my friends and they have been together since. Well, in a couple weeks I'm going to be going to the same university she is attending. I am going to be spending a lot of time around her because I'm good friends with her best friend. I want to try and steal my ex back. Not because I want to date her, but just to extract some revenge against my former friend who stole her from me. Now this friend doesn't live in the same town as the university so I'll have many times where I'm around my ex and her current boyfriend isn't. I'm just trying to get some ideas and opinions on how to best do this. I don't want any comments telling me that this is not a nice thing to do by messing with someone else's girl. He Fvcked me over, now it's my turn to return the favor. I know this is a pretty sh1tty thing to do, but I enjoy revenge, and I'm sure karma will screw me over in the future; but it's a risk I'm willing to take. Thanks for any ideas.

 

[DonJuanMonk]

There's a saying that the best revenge is to become more successful than your enemy.

However, if you feel you must go through this in order to satisfy your ego, then you must know this: Women sense manipulation and this woman may see through your schemes that you plot.

Whatever you must do, you take full responsibility for it and only aim for the goal of exacting the revenge. If you're looking for revenge ideas based on relationship turmoils, search the net... there's plenty of them.

 

[Rockstar]

Women sense manipulation and this woman may see through your schemes that you plot

Well I doubt this girl would pick up on that, she isn't the brightest in the world and if I get a good hold on her, she can be easily swayed. I just need to figure out how to get her out of that hold her boyfriend has on her.

 

[cA^]

Scheme scheme, plot plot, say what? I'm coming for that number 1 spot.

 

[squirrels]

Originally posted by Rockstar
Ok, first I just want to clarify that I am indeed an as*hole. That is the only reason I'm doing this. Anyways, the backstory:I dated this girl for 2 months in January and February of this year. She lived 90 minutes from me while attending a university. She left me in early March for one of my friends and they have been together since. Well, in a couple weeks I'm going to be going to the same university she is attending. I am going to be spending a lot of time around her because I'm good friends with her best friend. I want to try and steal my ex back. Not because I want to date her, but just to extract some revenge against my former friend who stole her from me. Now this friend doesn't live in the same town as the university so I'll have many times where I'm around my ex and her current boyfriend isn't. I'm just trying to get some ideas and opinions on how to best do this. I don't want any comments telling me that this is not a nice thing to do by messing with someone else's girl. He Fvcked me over, now it's my turn to return the favor. I know this is a pretty sh1tty thing to do, but I enjoy revenge, and I'm sure karma will screw me over in the future; but it's a risk I'm willing to take. Thanks for any ideas.

Get a life.

BTW...best revenge is to find a better woman to move up to...show your so-called "friend" that he's doing nothing but picking up your hand-me-downs.

 

[NewMan]

I'm exacting some revenge myself now - but in a different way and not directed to a friend... but anyways.....

this is probably not going to be an overnight process. You will have to be patient.

You probably know quite a bit about her and what she likes and does not like. You also probably know a lot about your friend and what he is NOT doing for her. Use that against him.....

Your should mainly just live your life well and to the fullest. There is nothing that will make a woman wetter than her seeing a man live well - love well - work hard and play harder.

 

[Dust 2 Dust]

You should read the Doc LOve article that was posted on here a few days ago about pursuing an ex. All your questions will be answered in it.

 

[aftershock]

I'm not going to lecture you on whats right or wrong. I think most of us here have done things with girls who have boyfriends and most likely enjoyed the experience.

If you want to screw her again, just be a DJ about it. Most women will cheat if you give them the chance. Also be patient about it - maybe almost let her come to you.

 

[zerocelcius]

Go to school grow up, and get an education. Become friends with her but never do anything with her other than be friends. Phuck her fiends but not her. If you want revenge here it is. Be what your friend couldn't be. I real man that doesn't take sloppy seconds from anybody!!!!!!!

It will eat him alive to know you are there and if you are just friends she will tell him what fun you guys have. ( you have to have fun though.) While your at it get revenge with the person you should be getting revnege with: HER!

Being an awsome person and not a shady will just make you shine in everyones eyes and will get a better and longer lasting revenge than getting her back.


But if you want to fight over scraps from the table cloth go for it! More power to you.

 

[I'm Joe Dirt]

That's pretty childish. Did you say you're going to University in the fall or to Preschool in the Fall?

 

[backbreaker]

why do you give a damn? Honestly?

Look, if your friend can steal your GF from you, then she isn't worth stealing.

This is the way I see it. There was something she didn't like about you. It's august, so they have been together for almost half a year now. There was something she liked aobut him.

Note it, make sure you work on yourself, make sure you get the education you are paying for, and move on.

Why is your friend not your friend now? Because a girl that you were dating for no more than 2 months didn't like you anymore andl iked him? That's like getting mad at your friend, becasue YOU are not being the best person you can be.

If a girl ever wanted to leave me for my friend, by all means, go ahead. First, I am sure that would never happen because I know I am an all around great person, and 2, she can ,and will be replaced. Hell, maybe there were ment for each other. My dad's used to date this girl whne he was my age, and one day he meet my dad's best friend. My dad broke up with her and she started dating his best friend. They are married to this day, and my dad and the guy are still best friends.

 

[aftershock]

Originally posted by Rockstar
I don't want any comments telling me that this is not a nice thing to do by messing with someone else's girl.

Did everyone hear read this?

He knows its wrong but he doesn't care and is doing it anyway...

 

[Tboner]

Why waste your time with revenge? Real men don't waste their time on revenge. RTFM and GFTOW, get over it, make your life better.

 

[Rockstar]

This is the way I see it. There was something she didn't like about you. It's august, so they have been together for almost half a year now. There was something she liked aobut him.

What she liked about him was that he did anything and everything that she wanted. I never would do that. I never took any sh*t from her and he did and always agreed with her, even if he had a different opinion. He is the ulitmate afc. The only thing he really has on me is that he is 20 years old and has a house of his own. Hes not renting it, he actually owns it. Albeit, a small house in a bad part of town.
As for why me and him aren't friends anymore, that is easy. We used to hang out at least once a week back in the day. Then when he started seeing her, he stopped calling and not only cut me out of his life, but most of his other friends too. So it's not like I'm the only one who isn't friends with him anymore. All but a few of his very, very good friends never see him now because he spends his life with my ex and no one else.

 

[catch]

ok...

you need to control her thoughts... she thinks of him, and thats bad... what you need to do is replace her thoughts of him with thoughts of you, fill her mind with thoughts of you...

and then our seduction of the mind can take place...

first of all, we all keep cirtain gifts that remind us of our previous lover, we all have that old song that reminds us of that girl...
when your time toghether was most precious, you kept a momentum....

now think!!!! what is her momentum of you, we can use this to our great advantage...

this can be used as an arow, cupids arow, we can fire cupids arow into her heart when the time is right... il get to that time soon...

now to start the seduction once again, you must WORK INDIRECT, never let her know that your going to seduce her..
she may be wary of you, she may feel uncomfortable in the presense of an old lover...

so you will create a false sense of security- approach indirectly.
at first, there must be nothing of a seducer in your manner... your seduction will begin at an angle so she only gradually becomes aware of you- approach through a third party, or cultivate a neutral relationship, moving gradually from friend to lover.... LULL THE TARGET INTO FEELING SECURE, THEN STRIKE.
once done, you move forward.

the first part of your seduction has begun, so, you must now CREATE TEMPTATION ...lure her into the seduction by creating the proper temptation; a glimps of the pleasures to come... the pleasures you have to offer them.. you will awaken inside a desire she cannot control. find that weakness of theirs, that fantasy, and hint that you can lead them into it... the key is to keep it vague, this will stimulate a deeper curiosity that will over ride all the doubts she has about you...
once done, move forward.

you are entering the final and most elusive stages of a mental seduction.. if she becomes too familiar with your intentions, she becomes bored... most of us are far too obvious at this stage, - instead, become hard to figure out. SEND MIXED SIGNALS; her mind will become entranced into a riddle, he loves me, he loves me not....become tough yet tender both intersted and bored, spiritual and earthly. a mix of qualitys suggests depth, which FASCINATES AS IT CONFUSES THE VICTIM, drawing them further into your web...create such power by hinting at somthing contradictory within yourself, and your interest in her.
once done, move forward

now she is ready...!!!!!
quick,the arrow i mentioned at the begining, her momentum of you... fire it directly into her heart, and her desire for you will spread through her viens like pioson...she will become hopelessly entangled into your web... and she is your puppet..

CATCH

 

[cave dweller]

move on........

Hey,

I disagree.......

You need to forget him, forget her and move on.

cave dweller

 

[ZW52]

I understand your predicament. I was in a situation like that myself not too long ago. I don't really know what to tell you. You can try to steal her, but it likely won't work. If she left you for another guy, then leaves that guy for you, chances are she'll leave you for someone else eventually. If you do succeed and get her back, you should be looking to leave her almost immediately before she screws you again. Get her back, make her fall for you again, act very serious about the relationship. Then drop her when you think it would do the most damage to her emotionally. That way, you get your so called revenge against the guy by stealing her back, and revenge against her by making her seem stupid for leaving one guy just to get dumped by another. If you can pull it off, then good luck.

 

[ikkenai]

You don't have a god damned chance. Move on.

 

[Austizzle]

someone close this post...how stupid

 

[penkitten]

isnt she an ex for a reason?

if she was so good or things were so right, why did you break up?

its best to leave well enough alone.