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I'm a university student who just finished his first year. I started reading the stuff on this website and forum since last summer, and somehow managed to get an amazing inner and outer game which got girls interested in me, and also got me in a good mood all the time.
It was great in the first term, I would have no trouble meeting people, being ****y and funny etc, not seeming needy. I guess you could say I was one of the coolest most popular guys amongst my new friends, and I really felt like it too.
But now things have changed; somehow I've converted back into my old AFC self and I am doing **** with women in general, I have a lack of confidence to approach and to make jokes, I don't know what to say when I meet a woman so I don't meet them at all, I'm not feeling on top of my game. I'm getting worse, and I just can't seem to remember, or re'feel' the feelings, attitudes and behaviours I felt during my first term.
During the first term, my confidence was through the roof, I had no trouble with women, it felt as though I didn't even need to break a sweat and I could get them to feel attracted to me, what with kino, humour, interesting talk, utter inner confidence etc. And now its just all gone.
Has anyone else had a problem like this? I'll keep at it, I'm utterly determined to succeed with women and life in general and become a true Don Juan, but I'm finding it tough to permanently change and internalise my behaviour and approach towards things. I'm getting stressed out, and I feel so inhibited that I can't behave in the way I want to.
It was great in the first term, I would have no trouble meeting people, being ****y and funny etc, not seeming needy. I guess you could say I was one of the coolest most popular guys amongst my new friends, and I really felt like it too.
But now things have changed; somehow I've converted back into my old AFC self and I am doing **** with women in general, I have a lack of confidence to approach and to make jokes, I don't know what to say when I meet a woman so I don't meet them at all, I'm not feeling on top of my game. I'm getting worse, and I just can't seem to remember, or re'feel' the feelings, attitudes and behaviours I felt during my first term.
During the first term, my confidence was through the roof, I had no trouble with women, it felt as though I didn't even need to break a sweat and I could get them to feel attracted to me, what with kino, humour, interesting talk, utter inner confidence etc. And now its just all gone.
Has anyone else had a problem like this? I'll keep at it, I'm utterly determined to succeed with women and life in general and become a true Don Juan, but I'm finding it tough to permanently change and internalise my behaviour and approach towards things. I'm getting stressed out, and I feel so inhibited that I can't behave in the way I want to.