Recently I have noticed this cute girl in my chemistry class that I have never talked to. I am fairly shy myself, but not to bad. The thing is though, this girl is VERY shy. I rarley hear her speak. I have never talked to her before. So I was wondering how do I deal with this? How should I go about getting to know her?
Getting to know a shy girl
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Supremo
Senior Don Juan
Ahh you've grabbed my attention.
I was gonna stop posting for a while but this is just too similar to how my current girlfriend was.
Here's the low-low:
1. It'll be HARD to get her to open up.
2. You'll doubt that she likes you, because she's so shy.
3. Things will be awkward for a while after you start dating, until you build some serious rapport.
But, when she does open up... it'll all pay off. Seriously it took like a month and a half before my girlfriend and I became really comfortable together.
Like Alkali said, treat it as anyone else... it's just gonna take longer.
I just gave you some of the things you will notice, but not to worry about.
Good luck man
I was gonna stop posting for a while but this is just too similar to how my current girlfriend was.
Here's the low-low:
1. It'll be HARD to get her to open up.
2. You'll doubt that she likes you, because she's so shy.
3. Things will be awkward for a while after you start dating, until you build some serious rapport.
But, when she does open up... it'll all pay off. Seriously it took like a month and a half before my girlfriend and I became really comfortable together.
Like Alkali said, treat it as anyone else... it's just gonna take longer.
I just gave you some of the things you will notice, but not to worry about.
Good luck man
Lexie
Don Juan
She may not be shy at all, she might just not talk in this class.
Just go for it, ask her non-personal questions at first so she doesn't feel put-on the spot.
Just go for it, ask her non-personal questions at first so she doesn't feel put-on the spot.
SHY = uncomfortable (around you)
I am into this shy korean girl, but I see her w/her buddies (some of mutual buddies) and she is not shy at ALL. But whenever we're together it's awkward. I say something funny, we laugh then there's that awkward silence like, "ehhhh ok now what."
I am into this shy korean girl, but I see her w/her buddies (some of mutual buddies) and she is not shy at ALL. But whenever we're together it's awkward. I say something funny, we laugh then there's that awkward silence like, "ehhhh ok now what."
^that's b/c she's in a foreign countryPotbelly said:
Asian girls can be easy/hard to game depending on their maturity and how comfortable they are in that country..
Anyway.. shy girls take longer, but the results can be a lot better.
b/c youre not too loud in class, she should feel more confident around you.
Just work with her one day, make fluff talk. I find you dont need to grab a shy girls interest straight away b/c its more than enough that youre speaking to her. Then as she begins to relax, I throw in some c+f.. and you'll find they can be funny. You;ll be able to tell when she feels comfortable around you~
Uh, do you know her or something?Red07 said:
She's Korean (like someone is black/white/etc.) She is from Texas. Not Korea haha. Your parents are what make you who you are...not always necessarily where you are from. Geez
Good advice for the OP btw.