jackofasses
Don Juan
Alright, this is my second post and I'll probably get ridiculed or whatever but I really don't give a damn.
in my last post I mentioned about this long distance relationship I sorta had going with a girl in texas (I'm in canada.. yeah, go on, laugh.) She's SUPER beautiful and has got to be one of the sweetest things ever. Absolutely awesome. Now, we've talked ALOT since christmas. damn near every day, no less than every 2 unless she's been off on vacation or whatever. Anyway, about a month or so ago completely out of the blue she just said she wasn't sure if she felt the same way about me anymore and wanted to be friends.
First reaction from me, and everyone else was that she's found a guy closer that she's interested in (yeah, it's happened to me before.) OF course, upon calling her on the BS she said there isn't anybody but she just didn't wanna feel these kind of feelings at this point in her life. Anyway, we managed to talk it out and get stuff semi-normal. She was pretty stressed out with school too. Anyway, I know studying is important to her so I told her I wouldn't harass her much during her exams because she needs that time to do well in school. So we would talk briefly some nights and then call it quits. One night though, we started talking and I mentioned a dream I had about being a cop and doing a strip search on her. She totally got into it and was telling me to tell her and whatever, but I really didn't want to distract her. She seemed pretty ticked when I let her go. Anyway, she finished her exams, then disappeared for damn near a week. Finally got ahold of her and she said she was really busy moving back home, unpacking and catching up with old friends. Then, in the middle of a normal discussion she turns around and says "We don't talk like we used to, let's just be friends." Which is more or less a death sentence. I kinda lost control of my emotions (didn't cry, didn't cuss, but tried to talk it out or whatever to see what's REALLY going on, she just says she doesn't want to try anymore.)
Now, as I said, i've had something similar happen before with the last girl I really really like (whom I had known for 8 years and who my gut STILL after everything tells me I should be marrying.. my brain however says No. it's not worth it.)
anyway, this girl from texas, I know most people say cut your losses, it's a death zone. But she still comes on to talk to me all the time, saying she misses me and says i'm sweet when I tell her I wish I could just watch a movie and hold her and stuff, so I dunno. Part of me says to chill the hell out, be confident, she'll come back. But the part of me that keeps reading these forums is telling me forget it, she's gone.
Give me some GOOD advice. I'm not looking for Joe cool who thinks he can bang any girl he wants to to pipe up and just tell me to flat out get rid of her. I want to try and work out a relationship that I feel is worth saving and that i know has the potential to be amazing. We both have very similar interests, I apparently know how to turn her on with the right words ALL the time, and she apparently cares more about me than her ex who is her best friend (save your comments on this.)
Anyway, for the serious people who are here to give CONSTRUCTIVE advice on creating and mainting relationships, please provide input. anyone who's just going to laugh or provide a cyber slap to the face and borderline insults, save it.
in my last post I mentioned about this long distance relationship I sorta had going with a girl in texas (I'm in canada.. yeah, go on, laugh.) She's SUPER beautiful and has got to be one of the sweetest things ever. Absolutely awesome. Now, we've talked ALOT since christmas. damn near every day, no less than every 2 unless she's been off on vacation or whatever. Anyway, about a month or so ago completely out of the blue she just said she wasn't sure if she felt the same way about me anymore and wanted to be friends.
First reaction from me, and everyone else was that she's found a guy closer that she's interested in (yeah, it's happened to me before.) OF course, upon calling her on the BS she said there isn't anybody but she just didn't wanna feel these kind of feelings at this point in her life. Anyway, we managed to talk it out and get stuff semi-normal. She was pretty stressed out with school too. Anyway, I know studying is important to her so I told her I wouldn't harass her much during her exams because she needs that time to do well in school. So we would talk briefly some nights and then call it quits. One night though, we started talking and I mentioned a dream I had about being a cop and doing a strip search on her. She totally got into it and was telling me to tell her and whatever, but I really didn't want to distract her. She seemed pretty ticked when I let her go. Anyway, she finished her exams, then disappeared for damn near a week. Finally got ahold of her and she said she was really busy moving back home, unpacking and catching up with old friends. Then, in the middle of a normal discussion she turns around and says "We don't talk like we used to, let's just be friends." Which is more or less a death sentence. I kinda lost control of my emotions (didn't cry, didn't cuss, but tried to talk it out or whatever to see what's REALLY going on, she just says she doesn't want to try anymore.)
Now, as I said, i've had something similar happen before with the last girl I really really like (whom I had known for 8 years and who my gut STILL after everything tells me I should be marrying.. my brain however says No. it's not worth it.)
anyway, this girl from texas, I know most people say cut your losses, it's a death zone. But she still comes on to talk to me all the time, saying she misses me and says i'm sweet when I tell her I wish I could just watch a movie and hold her and stuff, so I dunno. Part of me says to chill the hell out, be confident, she'll come back. But the part of me that keeps reading these forums is telling me forget it, she's gone.
Give me some GOOD advice. I'm not looking for Joe cool who thinks he can bang any girl he wants to to pipe up and just tell me to flat out get rid of her. I want to try and work out a relationship that I feel is worth saving and that i know has the potential to be amazing. We both have very similar interests, I apparently know how to turn her on with the right words ALL the time, and she apparently cares more about me than her ex who is her best friend (save your comments on this.)
Anyway, for the serious people who are here to give CONSTRUCTIVE advice on creating and mainting relationships, please provide input. anyone who's just going to laugh or provide a cyber slap to the face and borderline insults, save it.