There are many different methods of getting a girl's number, and while they all work (yes, even saying "can i have your number?") some are just better than others.
This is because certain methods convey particular frames of thought that are benefitial to the seductionist's cause. In other words, they imply that the seductionist is assuming certain things.
Asking for the number implies that you assume you have to ask, which means you also assume there is a possibility of getting denied. This is why for as long as i can remember, aspiring seducitonists have been told to tell instead of asking.
Telling, i.e. "give me your number and i'll give you a call sometime," implies that you're assuming that you will receive what you're asking for. But in the end, you're still asking.
The first method is commonly used by AFCs, the second by aspiring PUAs, but there is also a third, which up until now was reserved for either master seductionists or those clever enough to figure it out.
The method is this: instead of asking, instead of telling, simply allow. Assume the number is yours, create an opportunity for her to give it to you and allow her to do so. How? Simple:
SCENARIO 1: Listen, i gotta run. I enjoyed talking to you, i'll call you sometime. *hand over your cell phone so that she can punch in her number*
SCENARIO 2: Alright, i gotta go, but i'll give you a ring sometime. Do you have a pen? *then give her a piece of paper to write the number on*
You get the idea. The master seductionists rarely ever actually verbalize the request for a number. Instead, they give the girl an opportunity because they assume she'll take it, which she does.
This is because certain methods convey particular frames of thought that are benefitial to the seductionist's cause. In other words, they imply that the seductionist is assuming certain things.
Asking for the number implies that you assume you have to ask, which means you also assume there is a possibility of getting denied. This is why for as long as i can remember, aspiring seducitonists have been told to tell instead of asking.
Telling, i.e. "give me your number and i'll give you a call sometime," implies that you're assuming that you will receive what you're asking for. But in the end, you're still asking.
The first method is commonly used by AFCs, the second by aspiring PUAs, but there is also a third, which up until now was reserved for either master seductionists or those clever enough to figure it out.
The method is this: instead of asking, instead of telling, simply allow. Assume the number is yours, create an opportunity for her to give it to you and allow her to do so. How? Simple:
SCENARIO 1: Listen, i gotta run. I enjoyed talking to you, i'll call you sometime. *hand over your cell phone so that she can punch in her number*
SCENARIO 2: Alright, i gotta go, but i'll give you a ring sometime. Do you have a pen? *then give her a piece of paper to write the number on*
You get the idea. The master seductionists rarely ever actually verbalize the request for a number. Instead, they give the girl an opportunity because they assume she'll take it, which she does.
