getting over missed great opportuinties with women?

Thebestthereeveris

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I fvcked up with this 18 year old virgin who would send me nudes, beg me to suck my d1ck, be super feminine and girly, self qualifty her self to me and had her totally wrapped in my frame. However, I acted too needy one day and texted her too much till she said dont text me again and now i want to punch myself in the face. She has a ridiciolous body that is so tight and just wow. I would cut my arm to sleep with her. I cant stop beating myslef up for losing such an easy pull. How do you get over this
 

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There's nothing to get over in all honesty.. nothing happened.. Idk and I dont understand how you get needy with a girl you had nothing with or did anything with. needy over her coming onto you one time or once upon a time? Gotta take a good look in the mirror. I get it if she is super hot but you're 27 not 17
 

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I would cut my arm to sleep with her. I cant stop beating myslef up for losing such an easy pull. How do you get over this
By being a man.
Men wouldn't consider hurting themselves in order to sleep with a woman. Men don't beat themselves up over lost opportunities, they learn from their mistakes so they won't miss the opportunity next time.
 

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Here's what I'm going to say: If she really were as easy as you seem to think, you would have had sex with her already.

She sounds like a tease (with no intention of ever really sleeping with you)
 

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Well, be glad you scored and got her nudes. Now you got something to look at when you're an old man...
 

What happens, IN HER MIND, is that she comes to see you as WORTHLESS simply because she hasn't had to INVEST anything in you in order to get you or to keep you.

You were an interesting diversion while she had nothing else to do. But now that someone a little more valuable has come along, someone who expects her to treat him very well, she'll have no problem at all dropping you or demoting you to lowly "friendship" status.

Quote taken from The SoSuave Guide to Women and Dating, which you can read for FREE.

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I fvcked up with this 18 year old virgin who would send me nudes, beg me to suck my d1ck, be super feminine and girly, self qualifty her self to me and had her totally wrapped in my frame. However, I acted too needy one day and texted her too much till she said dont text me again and now i want to punch myself in the face. She has a ridiciolous body that is so tight and just wow. I would cut my arm to sleep with her. I cant stop beating myslef up for losing such an easy pull. How do you get over this
Assuredly you didn't lose her from simply "texting too much" one day. This was a pattern of behavior on your part where she saw your neediness over and over again and this was the last straw.
 

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I'd start by changing my username first. ;-)
 

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The best seducers have a short memory. Learn the crucial lesson from the failed interaction & go out and approach more women. Go out and get some pussie!

Do not text much or act needy!
 

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This is a good question that all of us, at one or some points, have had to face.

The most important lessons in life need to be learned the hard way, brother OP, including "missed great opportunities with women."

The only way to get over it, is to move on ahead and never stop making yourself better, in terms of everything, from hitting the gym and making money. Even then, every once in a while, when looking back, there's no guarantee you won't feel that pain in the chest, but that's life. That's how life works.
 

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By being a man.
Men wouldn't consider hurting themselves in order to sleep with a woman.
This.

The older OP gets from now, the more clearly he realizes that being a man sometimes simply means not wanting to "cut off his arm" just to sleep with women, no matter how hot and goddess-like they may be.

A true man doesn't want to harm/hurt/sacrifice himself, physically and mentally, just for the sake of proving his worth to anyone, let alone a woman.
 

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By approaching other women. Of all of the women I had deep regrets not getting, I wouldn't date them today.
 
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