Viper
Banned
Hey, Mike here and I'm here to ask for help on what I like to call fear of spectators. For instance, when I want to approach a HB, sometimes I'll stop because of fear that someone might be watching, listening or overhear our conversation. I'm afraid that, if I mess up or pull a corny line and a spectator, such as, say her friend, hears it, they'll laugh at me, spread it around with their friends and in the end, I'll have a bad reputation. I started noticing this when alot of hot chicks where eating outside during lunch today and I wanted to approach them, but didn't because I was afraid that other people might be watching and that may have very well been so, since there were like 50 people eating outside today. Also, as if I'm not nervous enough approaching a HB, I only get more nervous when her friends/spectators are around. I can act as confident as I want, try to hide the best I can, but in the inside, I'm a nervous wreck and care alot about what other people think about me.
So, am I just paranoid? Or am I nervous or something? An answer is well appreciated.
So, am I just paranoid? Or am I nervous or something? An answer is well appreciated.
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