How do you get over a oneitis or girl you feel in love with?
I tried seeing other girls, removing her from my life as best as I could but every time I see her I feel devastated and a sense of loss. I felt from the start when I met her that she was special. I've never been in love before but this must be what it feels like cos the heartache is devastating.
I can't bear to see her around or with another guy that would just kill me.
I tried spinning plates, slept with a couple other girls but it hasn't helped. I'm at a stage where I wanna move away so I don't see her around anymore. I have an opportunity to go abroad and I think I will do it. What are the best ways to get over a oneitis?
I genuinely feel even now that she is/was special, and had I not acted needy and clingy we would be together. It's crazy I know, but I feel genuinely in love. She's the first girl I've met who I wasn't looking to sleep with as part of the deal (of course I wanted to eventually) but just being with her enjoying her company made me happy. Now it's over I just can't get over her.
She's moved on with her life, I should too, if she sees me she looks p1ssed off and barely says hi. When I don't see her for a few days I feel a bit better but then it just hits me hard when I see her again. I can't avoid her we're both on a small campus. Even when I try to avoid her I end up seeing her walking past me when I go to and from the subway station. Fate has a real way of hurting me. Damn.
I tried seeing other girls, removing her from my life as best as I could but every time I see her I feel devastated and a sense of loss. I felt from the start when I met her that she was special. I've never been in love before but this must be what it feels like cos the heartache is devastating.
I can't bear to see her around or with another guy that would just kill me.
I tried spinning plates, slept with a couple other girls but it hasn't helped. I'm at a stage where I wanna move away so I don't see her around anymore. I have an opportunity to go abroad and I think I will do it. What are the best ways to get over a oneitis?
I genuinely feel even now that she is/was special, and had I not acted needy and clingy we would be together. It's crazy I know, but I feel genuinely in love. She's the first girl I've met who I wasn't looking to sleep with as part of the deal (of course I wanted to eventually) but just being with her enjoying her company made me happy. Now it's over I just can't get over her.
She's moved on with her life, I should too, if she sees me she looks p1ssed off and barely says hi. When I don't see her for a few days I feel a bit better but then it just hits me hard when I see her again. I can't avoid her we're both on a small campus. Even when I try to avoid her I end up seeing her walking past me when I go to and from the subway station. Fate has a real way of hurting me. Damn.