It's often stated that most AFC's "get lucky." That is, whenever they find a GF, it was out of sheer luck. Perhaps it was through friends, or the stars aligned properly, whatever the case was, you didn't make your own luck, chance just happened.
Well...I find that, the harder I work, the luckier I become.
The more opportunities you pursue, the more opportunity for what is considered luck, can occur.
The more women you approach, the more flavor you get, and the more opportunities you meet a woman you will find that you can instantly connect with. Moreover, there ARE women out there who want EXACTLY what you've got. For whatever reason (usually some limiting belief), it's stuck in your head that you can't approach, she won't like you, or you're not compatible.
Some key points...
1. Successful people, and men successful at finding good love lives, make their own luck.
It's been harassed to no end, but I'm putting it in definite writing. The more women you approach, meet date, even chat with, the more chances you'll find the nude model, the girl digs porn, loves sports, is a horny librarian, or any of the above. Amongst my friends, I usually stop telling them what kind of girl she is, because THEY NEVER approach, and when they found out what 'type' of girl she is, they're all over her. I've had friends to try to girls I've dated away, so I keep stuff personal. It's not need to know, nor is it funny battle stories. They're just interesting tidbits that you learn there's a wide array of women, and the more women I've been willing to succumb to, the more women I've been able to meet and realize there's flavor for everyone.
2. Women exist out there looking for you. Just as gold and oil existed for the man who discovered it, so, too, does the woman(women) you seek.
Think I'm lying? Ever roll up on a girl excited to meet you? Maybe she was 'into' your type very much. Or maybe you noticed your personality amongst friends. Whatever the case maybe, in a club of 100 girls, 50 will be available for chit-chat. Take a few seconds to pluck out some interestings and just meet them. No reason to make it a big deal or get a whorish rep. You're just being social.
The very fact that 'different' women exist who aren't compatible substantiates the fact that, 'different' men exist to be compatible with them. Your uniqueness is an asset, that gives you strength amongst certain girls ready and willing to meet you. At these times, C&F or seduction are just bonuses. You've already cracked the code and the sale is made. Enjoy things, keep it exciting, and know yourself.
3. If you accept nothing but the very best, you very often get it.
If your goal is to date 8's and only approach girls you're attracted to, then you'll only date hot girls. Yes, you can gain confidence by talking to someone you're not attracted to, BUT, I find the conversations to be somewhat different emotionally. When you're talking to a girl you don't necessarily like, there's no remorse or regret over loss. You felt nothing, and were not fearful of losing anything.
And while you can't be upset over not connecting with that hottie, it still takes several hottie-approaches to gain the feeling and confidence within us to persevere. Once you instill the feeling you've approached a hottie before, and succeeded, that confidence is implanted in you FOREVER. It only takes some rejection and some success to do so.
So by approaching only girls you're attracted to, you up your odds of being successful with them and also of meeting more hotties to be with. When we're young, the tendency is to date whoever, and in time, the attraction fades quicker with someone we're not as attracted to. As you age, you go for what you want and stick with it, and that's all you get. Hoorah!
It's not rocket science, is just a matter of discipline and sticking with the routine of going for those women you deserve and are attracted to. And for those not believing or haven't experienced it, the more you approach, the luckier you get.
Out of 100 approaches and conversations that last 5 minutes. You could easily meet 5 girls who'd be easy to connect with. Five more who'd turn over in time to be great dates. Probably 50 who will go no further than conversations. And a host of others that are in between.
End.
A-Unit
Well...I find that, the harder I work, the luckier I become.
The more opportunities you pursue, the more opportunity for what is considered luck, can occur.
The more women you approach, the more flavor you get, and the more opportunities you meet a woman you will find that you can instantly connect with. Moreover, there ARE women out there who want EXACTLY what you've got. For whatever reason (usually some limiting belief), it's stuck in your head that you can't approach, she won't like you, or you're not compatible.
Some key points...
1. Successful people, and men successful at finding good love lives, make their own luck.
It's been harassed to no end, but I'm putting it in definite writing. The more women you approach, meet date, even chat with, the more chances you'll find the nude model, the girl digs porn, loves sports, is a horny librarian, or any of the above. Amongst my friends, I usually stop telling them what kind of girl she is, because THEY NEVER approach, and when they found out what 'type' of girl she is, they're all over her. I've had friends to try to girls I've dated away, so I keep stuff personal. It's not need to know, nor is it funny battle stories. They're just interesting tidbits that you learn there's a wide array of women, and the more women I've been willing to succumb to, the more women I've been able to meet and realize there's flavor for everyone.
2. Women exist out there looking for you. Just as gold and oil existed for the man who discovered it, so, too, does the woman(women) you seek.
Think I'm lying? Ever roll up on a girl excited to meet you? Maybe she was 'into' your type very much. Or maybe you noticed your personality amongst friends. Whatever the case maybe, in a club of 100 girls, 50 will be available for chit-chat. Take a few seconds to pluck out some interestings and just meet them. No reason to make it a big deal or get a whorish rep. You're just being social.
The very fact that 'different' women exist who aren't compatible substantiates the fact that, 'different' men exist to be compatible with them. Your uniqueness is an asset, that gives you strength amongst certain girls ready and willing to meet you. At these times, C&F or seduction are just bonuses. You've already cracked the code and the sale is made. Enjoy things, keep it exciting, and know yourself.
3. If you accept nothing but the very best, you very often get it.
If your goal is to date 8's and only approach girls you're attracted to, then you'll only date hot girls. Yes, you can gain confidence by talking to someone you're not attracted to, BUT, I find the conversations to be somewhat different emotionally. When you're talking to a girl you don't necessarily like, there's no remorse or regret over loss. You felt nothing, and were not fearful of losing anything.
And while you can't be upset over not connecting with that hottie, it still takes several hottie-approaches to gain the feeling and confidence within us to persevere. Once you instill the feeling you've approached a hottie before, and succeeded, that confidence is implanted in you FOREVER. It only takes some rejection and some success to do so.
So by approaching only girls you're attracted to, you up your odds of being successful with them and also of meeting more hotties to be with. When we're young, the tendency is to date whoever, and in time, the attraction fades quicker with someone we're not as attracted to. As you age, you go for what you want and stick with it, and that's all you get. Hoorah!
It's not rocket science, is just a matter of discipline and sticking with the routine of going for those women you deserve and are attracted to. And for those not believing or haven't experienced it, the more you approach, the luckier you get.
Out of 100 approaches and conversations that last 5 minutes. You could easily meet 5 girls who'd be easy to connect with. Five more who'd turn over in time to be great dates. Probably 50 who will go no further than conversations. And a host of others that are in between.
End.
A-Unit