Getting laid is like planting a garden

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If you want to have sex with different women on a consistent basis you can view getting laid as an analogy to planting and maintaining a garden.

First, you need a solid foundation. Without quality soil, nothing will grow. Without self-improvement, you will not consistently get laid. Take a second and think of qualities you need to improve on. For me, it's hitting the gym and furthering my career. You can't take any shortcuts with the soil or else you will end up with a weak harvest.

Second, you need to plant and water your seeds. Talk to women and get their phone numbers. The more seeds you plant, the bigger your harvest. If one seed dies, so what, there are many more to replace it.

Third, you need to wait and watch the seeds turn in to mature plants. Many AFCs make the mistake of rushing things early on. Relax and let your seeds grow. Patience is very important because seeds don't mature overnight.

Fourth, harvest when the plants are ripe. After patienty waiting for the right moment your seeds will mature and you can harvest.

The key to maintaining this garden of poon is to be continually planting seeds, thus continually harvesting. A lack of seeds (approaches, phone numbers, dates etc.) will result in a lack of harvest.

If you like this system buy my ebook. Just kidding. Check out Rollo Tomassi's plate theory if you want to learn more about planting your garden (spinning plates).
 

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I don't run into that many girls I would like to date so I guess I can't plant a full garden. If I see 50 girls then there are maybe 2 or 3 that I'm attracted to.
 

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Sofomore said:
Third, you need to wait and watch the seeds turn in to mature plants. Many AFCs make the mistake of rushing things early on. Relax and let your seeds grow. Patience is very important because seeds don't mature overnight.
I agree with this, but I don't think the AFCs are to blame. Too many PUAs spread it around that if you don't fvck her the night you meet her, you're a failure. You're too slow, you're not putting off the right vibes, you're not showing your masculinity or that you're an alpha male, etc.

I think there's a lot to be said for letting your seeds take root. It's not the only way to do things, but I think it's a valid one. Depends on the situation. It helps to have real value, though. PUAs who don't have anything going for them have to be "mysterious" and hit it and quit it before the girl finds out the guy is a fraud.
 

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dadmonson said:
I don't run into that many girls I would like to date so I guess I can't plant a full garden. If I see 50 girls then there are maybe 2 or 3 that I'm attracted to.

Nonsense, you don't need to have a monstrous garden for this to work. I am very picky when it comes to girls, so I'd say 1 out of 200 catch my eye. All this means is you have to go for it without hesitation. No approaches (effort) = no seeds. It seems like you are just making excuses.
 

Just because a woman listens to you and acts interested in what you say doesn't mean she really is. She might just be acting polite, while silently wishing that the date would hurry up and end, or that you would go away... and never come back.

Quote taken from The SoSuave Guide to Women and Dating, which you can read for FREE.

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zekko said:
I agree with this, but I don't think the AFCs are to blame. Too many PUAs spread it around that if you don't fvck her the night you meet her, you're a failure. You're too slow, you're not putting off the right vibes, you're not showing your masculinity or that you're an alpha male, etc.

I think there's a lot to be said for letting your seeds take root. It's not the only way to do things, but I think it's a valid one. Depends on the situation. It helps to have real value, though. PUAs who don't have anything going for them have to be "mysterious" and hit it and quit it before the girl finds out the guy is a fraud.
I agree with you. My intention was not to blame AFCs rather point out a common error. Many guys with no game rush for one night stands rather than planting seeds and letting them grow with patience.

That being said, some plants grow faster than others. Even within a couple hours :)
 

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carrot said:
what channels are you using to meet many women ?
Social circle, bars, online, day game.

If you are having trouble meeting women just get out more. Be prepared to approach women in any situation- grocery store, on the street etc.

Sosuave has a bunch of good articles on where to meet women.
 

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But shouldn't I stay away from dirty "hoes"?
 

Create self-fulfilling prophecies. Always assume the positive. Assume she likes you. Assume she wants to talk to you. Assume she wants to go out with you. When you think positive, positive things happen.

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Thanks Sofomore for this~ its really sound advice. The most correctly anagolus piece of advice ive ever read here +1 on your rep!

I would furthemore add to atom smashers comment regarding 'equipment'... many men take on wild and unruly plants - make sure that you correctly know how to prune down to size....you will then yield the best crop!!!
 

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donking said:
make sure you're not planting any weeds.
Yes, if a seed turns out to be a weed be sure to remove it immediately. A single weed can ruin your entire garden.
 

Men frequently err by talking too much. They often monopolize conversations, droning on and on about topics that bore women to tears. They think they're impressing the women when, in reality, they're depressing the women.

Quote taken from The SoSuave Guide to Women and Dating, which you can read for FREE.

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Thistle be an analogy that many AFCs will dig.

No more trowel and error... If you apply these simple principles she'll see you as a fungi.
 
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