Getting Laid as a Result of Going to Pool Parties

[MatureDJ]

General pool parties that are connected to a business (bar/restaurant, hotel) are best for men with top tier physiques.

The same could be said for the beach.

The normie at a pool party at a day club is an invisible guy getting drunk.

Most pool parties at bars/restaurants have terrible ratios too, which makes being 'Chad' even more relevant.

It's OVER for NormieDayClubPoolPartyCels.

 

[SW15]

The normie at a pool party at a day club is an invisible guy getting drunk.

Most pool parties at bars/restaurants have terrible ratios too, which makes being 'Chad' even more relevant.

This isn't much different than nightlife venues in general. The pool party is a nightlife venue in a swimming pool during the day.

 

[SW15]

This isn't much different than nightlife venues in general. The pool party is a nightlife venue in a swimming pool during the day.

Bumping this thread due to Memorial Day Weekend often being the start of pool party season in certain areas.

Passed by a pool party yesterday with a steep entrance fee due to a well known DJ playing at it. For some seating like cabanas, there was also a minimum required alcohol spend. Environment did resemble Miami or Las Vegas, as was the intention. Saw more males than females at it. Place was packed though.

 

[Knight of Roses]

After using the Search function here, I realize that there hasn't been a lot of discussion about getting laid as a result of going to pool parties. The lay doesn't have to happen on the same day as the pool party, but at some time after meeting a woman at a pool party.

Let me be more specific in my definition of pool party.

When I'm talking about pool parties, I'm not talking about a pool party at one apartment complex of maybe 200-400 units with less than 30 people around the pool. I'm not typically talking about a narrow, social circle backyard pool party either. I'm talking about larger pool parties, often with DJs connected to a business (bar/restaurant, hotel) with hundreds of semi-strangers attending. Sure, there may be 2-4 sets of people who know each other. It's like a nightclub type vibe during the day. In my experience, these type of pool parties tend to be bigger sausage fests and don't usually live up to the hype as a pickup option.

Has anyone ever had success in the larger pool party environment I'm describing? If so, what tips do you have?

If you are going to cite an example from a Las Vegas hotel/casino pool party, please specifically mention that it was a Las Vegas hotel/casino pool party. I think the Las Vegas hotel/casino pool parties have a different vibe than any other large American city's pool parties.

Me and you operate on similar wavelengths. Every weekend there are large clubs with pool parties where it’s probably easy to get laid.

But I never go. One, I’m busy and the weekend days are my only time to get errands done around the house. Two, more importantly. I’m a Fatf3ck with a belly. Lol. Until I get a six pack I’m not going.

 

[SW15]

Every weekend there are large clubs with pool parties where it’s probably easy to get laid.

I never go. One, I’m busy and the weekend days are my only time to get errands done around the house. Two, more importantly. I’m a Fatf3ck with a belly. Lol. Until I get a six pack I’m not going.

I don't think it is easy to get laid from commercialized pool parties connected to a business (bar/restaurant, hotel) with hundreds of semi-strangers attending and loud music/DJs playing.

First off, the ratios at them are difficult. There are more sausages than buns.

With those unfavorable ratios, women are only selecting for the most in shape men. While I have a normal range BMI, I do not have perfectly chiseled abs or rather large arm/shoulder muscles. My physique would blend in more than stand out.

I have noticed a lot of couples go to these types of pool parties too.

I think there's a small subset of men who might be able to do well at these pool parties. It is most likely men in very good shape who are 6'0"+.

 

[Divorced w 3]

I don’t understand the premise of the venue vs any other but fwiw I smashed a girl at a pool party

 

[SW15]

I don’t understand the premise of the venue vs any other but fwiw I smashed a girl at a pool party

Something that is unique about this venue vs. most other venues is the amount of skin shown.

At these dayclub, commercialized pool parties, many women will be wearing G string/thong style bikinis that will show off the entirety of their buttcheeks. Women showing off their buttcheeks at the pool is more common now than it was in the early 2010s at these dayclub style pool parties. There are women now who will wear G strings to basic apartment complex pools (no dayclub style party).

In a dayclub style pool party, there's a point to wearing a G string. Women showing off butt cheeks should be interpreted as a strong signal that the woman is DTF and should be approached if she's not there with her boyfriend.

Women will not show as much skin in any other nightlife venue.

Bikini tops can also be somewhat revealing.

Another advantage for a man at these pool parties is that he might be able to show off a strong erection to impress a woman. It's not guaranteed but it can happen.

Good for you for smashing at a pool party.