Getting Laid as a Result of Going to Pool Parties

[SW15]

After using the Search function here, I realize that there hasn't been a lot of discussion about getting laid as a result of going to pool parties. The lay doesn't have to happen on the same day as the pool party, but at some time after meeting a woman at a pool party.

Let me be more specific in my definition of pool party.

When I'm talking about pool parties, I'm not talking about a pool party at one apartment complex of maybe 200-400 units with less than 30 people around the pool. I'm not typically talking about a narrow, social circle backyard pool party either. I'm talking about larger pool parties, often with DJs connected to a business (bar/restaurant, hotel) with hundreds of semi-strangers attending. Sure, there may be 2-4 sets of people who know each other. It's like a nightclub type vibe during the day. In my experience, these type of pool parties tend to be bigger sausage fests and don't usually live up to the hype as a pickup option.

Has anyone ever had success in the larger pool party environment I'm describing? If so, what tips do you have?

If you are going to cite an example from a Las Vegas hotel/casino pool party, please specifically mention that it was a Las Vegas hotel/casino pool party. I think the Las Vegas hotel/casino pool parties have a different vibe than any other large American city's pool parties.

 

[SW15]

Bumping this thread as it is getting closer to pool season. Big pool party season in most cities starts in May.

Last summer, I was surprised that this thread didn't get more of a reaction.

The bigger pool parties attached to business in most cities have a more nightlife type vibe but during the daytime hours. There are more groups of guys who go to these than groups of women. I think a lot of guys think outdoor pool parties will be a good way to get laid and they leave disappointed and empty handed, similar to what happens to men at 2 AM leaving nightlife venues in most cities. Also, many couples go to these pool parties, even more so than couples taking up space in nightlife venues.

 

[CornbreadFed]

Even if it was lucrative, I’d put it in the outlier advantage basket because most men will not have access to these parties plus if you aren’t in the best shape good luckkkk.

 

[Murk]

I've never been to a pool party, I went to Cancun in the off-season (October) and Ibiza 2x but was more focused on other things than pool parties. I should really try to get to one.

edit: actually yes I did go to one in Ibiza 2012, I was already with a girl I met there so no tips

 

[Hal9000]

If you've got a nice body and are just looking to get laid pool parties can work for you. Its a great way to show off your hard work in a non douchey manner. However if you have anything less than a great body any chick who is just looking for some fun will probably be on the lookout for the best body there.

 

[NealIRC]

Did we have threads on picking up girls, or attract women, at the beach?

 

[SW15]

Even if it was lucrative, I’d put it in the outlier advantage basket because most men will not have access to these parties plus if you aren’t in the best shape good luckkkk.

Some cities are better than others for pool parties. In the Sun Belt region of the USA, pool parties with DJs at a bar/restaurant or other type business are common. As for good shape, I'll address that in the next comment. Bottom line is that you're correct.

If you've got a nice body and are just looking to get laid pool parties can work for you. Its a great way to show off your hard work in a non douchey manner. However if you have anything less than a great body any chick who is just looking for some fun will probably be on the lookout for the best body there.

These pool parties at bars/restaurants/other businesses have a nightlife type vibe so it's going to have more males than females (like nightlife venues at night) and women will be seeking out very good looks. Even an average to slightly above average physique is not going to be good enough for this.

There's a reason why Rollo and Rich Cooper mention the 6'0"+, tanned, muscular guy at foam parties on Spring Break in Cancun/Daytona Beach. The same thing applies at pool parties in the summer in cities like Dallas and Phoenix.

Did we have threads on picking up girls, or attract women, at the beach?

We might. I have not checked. The beach is a little bit different than a pool party with a DJ attached to a bar/restaurant. There's less of a commercialized element/nightlife vibe at the beach. Physique matters for both settings but ratios might be different at the beach.

 

[SW15]

Big pool party season in most cities starts in May.

Passed by a pool attached to a bar this weekend. Though there wasn't a formalized pool party there at the time, the pool area was crowded and resembled a pool party.

Outdoor pool parties during the day that are attached to bars resemble night game.

One famous Heineken ad used in print/digital/billboards has proclaimed that "Cities without beaches throw the best pool parties"

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One thing that I have noticed in my time in Dallas is that there are a few examples of larger, commercialized pool parties. often with DJs connected to a business (bar/restaurant, hotel) with hundreds of semi-strangers attending. In my experience, these type of pool parties tend to be bigger sausage fests and don't usually live up to the hype as a pickup option.

Posted this image on the Dallas thread last year and thought it'd be good for this one. Cities without beaches are more known for pool parties, though Miami has some good pool parties.

 

[AureliusMaximus]

After using the Search function here, I realize that there hasn't been a lot of discussion about getting laid as a result of going to pool parties. The lay doesn't have to happen on the same day as the pool party, but at some time after meeting a woman at a pool party.

Let me be more specific in my definition of pool party.

When I'm talking about pool parties, I'm not talking about a pool party at one apartment complex of maybe 200-400 units with less than 30 people around the pool. I'm not typically talking about a narrow, social circle backyard pool party either. I'm talking about larger pool parties, often with DJs connected to a business (bar/restaurant, hotel) with hundreds of semi-strangers attending. Sure, there may be 2-4 sets of people who know each other. It's like a nightclub type vibe during the day. In my experience, these type of pool parties tend to be bigger sausage fests and don't usually live up to the hype as a pickup option.

Has anyone ever had success in the larger pool party environment I'm describing? If so, what tips do you have?

If you are going to cite an example from a Las Vegas hotel/casino pool party, please specifically mention that it was a Las Vegas hotel/casino pool party. I think the Las Vegas hotel/casino pool parties have a different vibe than any other large American city's pool parties.

I wish there were things like these pool day parties in Denmark/Sweden... But nope... On this point you US guys are lucky.

 

[SW15]

I wish there were things like these pool day parties in Denmark/Sweden... But nope... On this point you US guys are lucky.

Pool day parties are a thing in certain US cities. One of your videos was from Ibiza. The pool party culture is bigger in certain US cities than others.

Las Vegas has a pool party culture on the Las Vegas Strip but few Las Vegas locals go to those. Those are mainly tourists looking for attention and possible sex.

In other US cities (possibly with the exception of Miami), the pool day parties are more locals of those areas either seeking attention or sex. Pool day parties have a bit of a nightlife vibe to them.

 

[AureliusMaximus]

Pool day parties are a thing in certain US cities. One of your videos was from Ibiza. The pool party culture is bigger in certain US cities than others.

Las Vegas has a pool party culture on the Las Vegas Strip but few Las Vegas locals go to those. Those are mainly tourists looking for attention and possible sex.

In other US cities (possibly with the exception of Miami), the pool day parties are more locals of those areas either seeking attention or sex. Pool day parties have a bit of a nightlife vibe to them.

Still.... It seems like a whole bunch of fun to be at.
Our strict laws in Scandinavia (alcohol/restaurant/bar licenses laws etc), prohibits selling alcohol to people in water and so on, so pool parties never been a thing here sadly.

 

[NealIRC]

Does anyone go to Disneyworld to try to pick up girls? It doesn't have to be the theme park side, but the hotel / swimming pool side.

Is Disneyworld only mom, dad, and kids, or are there singles moms with kids and even just groups of girls going?

 

[Dr.Suave]

Does anyone go to Disneyworld to try to pick up girls? It doesn't have to be the theme park side, but the hotel / swimming pool side.

Is Disneyworld only mom, dad, and kids, or are there singles moms with kids and even just groups of girls going?

Theme parks are mostly families. Yes, there are single girls but its the minority. You can shoot your shot if you are already there anyway but I wouldnt advise going to a theme park just to pick up girls.

 

[AureliusMaximus]

Does anyone go to Disneyworld to try to pick up girls?

Go to pedoland to pick up girls?
Hell no. Disney gives me the creeps these days. They destroyed that company and Walt is sadly probably rolling around in his grave in agony.

 

[NealIRC]

Go to pedoland to pick up girls?
Hell no. Disney gives me the creeps these days. They destroyed that company and Walt is sadly probably rolling around in his grave in agony.

No, I'm reading the Wikipedia article. They're the #1 travel destination in the U.S.

But if what you're saying is applying to employees, that's not what I would go there for, except maybe the female lifeguards or something. You would primarily go there to see the tourists..

 

[AureliusMaximus]

But if what you're saying is applying to employees, that's not what I would go there for, except maybe the female lifeguards or something. You would primarily go there to see the tourists..

Well I guess we all by now have been reading what they are up too with their woke shyte and grooming kids, and their trans & gay agenda. Even if I could I would refuse to go there and support them with my cash. But they that is just me.
So hence I call it Pedoland

 

[characternote]

There's a guy over on the reddit seduction sub who posts lots of lay reports and his main thing seems to be to pull at these pool parties in Vegas clubs. He's apparently in amazing shape, decent looking, and tends to bang the girls who open him (or are very receptive to his opener) who are usually in Vegas for the weekend or whatever. I think he does PUA coaching now, although i've already told you everything that he could tell you for free lol (get in amazing shape, be kinda good looking, and hit on girls. Bang the ones who like you back)

 

[Ricky]

A friend on the east coast mentions some pool parties af a casino. I will try to get some scoop

 

[Ricky]

There's a guy over on the reddit seduction sub who posts lots of lay reports and his main thing seems to be to pull at these pool parties in Vegas clubs. He's apparently in amazing shape, decent looking, and tends to bang the girls who open him (or are very receptive to his opener) who are usually in Vegas for the weekend or whatever. I think he does PUA coaching now, although i've already told you everything that he could tell you for free lol (get in amazing shape, be kinda good looking, and hit on girls. Bang the ones who like you back)

this would be interesting to read. Do you happen to recall his name?

 

[characternote]

this would be interesting to read. Do you happen to recall his name?

https://www.reddit.com/r/AsianMasculinity/comments/ppph2d
https://www.reddit.com/r/AsianMasculinity/comments/pdfiep
https://www.reddit.com/r/AsianMasculinity/comments/v2f2sm
These aren't the best ones but that's him. The FR's I was thinking of were ones where he was in the pool, girls come up to him telling him how hot he is and rubbing his abs etc, and then he pulls them. He of course will say it was his game that made her approach him and let him smash, and not because she liked what she saw (hence he's now a PUA coach)