Getting Ignored, Should I Dump Her

[orbion2013]

so guys i have another thread on here...

got talking to a girl on pof, she came to my HOUSE within 2 hours of talking to her on pof..

i was fuking her within an hour of her arrival... she even bought a dildo & lube with her on the first meeting.

so she was expecting or hoping for sex!!

anyhow because of this, i don't trust the girl... and would only keep her as a plate & for sex... she has been pushing me hard for a relationship... i mean f@cking hard

I HAVE BEEN SEEING HER FOR 3 OR 4 WEEKS


but... she has gone ghost on me 2 days ago... i think something i did or said may have upset her, or she could be banging someone else.... or she is getting cold feet



either way... she is not long term material... too risky

should i send a text and dump her ass, for ignoring me????


or do i try reel her back in for sex.... the sex was f@cking awesome & she is up for 3sums etc

i feel some what disrespected by her , for ignoring my text & vanishing like this

in this matter, i believe self respect should come before p@ssy right???

i don't even see the point of keeping her around for sex , if she is going to pull a stunt like this


should i dump her???

 

[Kbish828]

Don't dump her. It shows her you care too much and think it is much more than it is. Just don't contact her. She will come around and contact you. If not, then move on. No reason to get emotional and need an official break up

 

[CaptainSaveAh0]

I don't get it.

You aren't dating her so how are you dumping her?

Just move on, and if she msg's you again , HOORAY, if she doesn't reply then who cares? Don't dwell on some POF WH0re.. Go get 10 more like her.

 

[Tarfun]

Like mom always said,

"never trust a girl who shows up at your house to fvck with a dildo and lube 2 hours after meeting her online."

That may not be verbatim

 

[adam225]

Don't dump her. It shows her you care too much and think it is much more than it is. Just don't contact her. She will come around and contact you. If not, then move on. No reason to get emotional and need an official break up

I agree :yes:

 

[GS750]

Don't dump her. It shows her you care too much and think it is much more than it is. Just don't contact her. She will come around and contact you. If not, then move on. No reason to get emotional and need an official break up

Agreed. Say nothing.

 

[orbion2013]

SHE TEXT ME LAST NIGHT!!!


HER: HI BABY HOW ARE YOU, NOT HEARD ANYTHING FROM YOU?X

HER: BABY EVERYTHING OKAY?X

ME: YEH I TEXTED YOU MONDAY, DIDN'T GET A RESPONSE

HER:I WAS ILL & WAS SO BUSY WITH KIDS & HAD A BAD DAY AT WORK, I ONLY JUST STOPPED NOW! X

HER: DID YOU GO TO THE GYM? X

HER: BABY YOU NOT TALKING TO ME? X

ME: SLEEPING, TIRED, TEXT YOU TOMORROW

HER: K GNIGHT & BLESS XX



i have not texted her back yet..

basicly she claims she has been unwell & in bed, plus she had a very busy day at work & with her kids... so she didn't get round to replying back to me till last night

bulls@t... it only takes one minute to fire off a text message.

when she was at work, she must have got a lunch break, or a normal break...
she could have replied back to me then.. or even before she got in bed that night

instead she left it for nearly two days.... my guess is, she was testing me, to see if i crack & panic.... or start textin her & ringing her, asking her what is up!

but i did not give her a reaction.... the thing is, i want to keep her as a plate, as she is a filrthy slut.... I MEAN FILTHY... want to have some fun with her... a relationship is out of the question


but i don't want the drama!!

should i now call her on this & tell her, it was quite rude of her to not reply back for that long & i will not put up with that kind of crap????

or do i let it slide????? thing is, if i let it slide... she will think it was okay, to ignore me for nearly 2 days??? i could be setting myself up for more of this kinda crap

the next time i text her, she might take 3 days to get back to me.... and if i do the same to her & take days to text her back, then it will just become a stupid f@cking game

should i call her on her b@ll****? let her know where she stands... otherwise i will eject her????

what you think guys....

if i call her, then she will know there could be consequnces & i will drop her ass!

 

[Kbish828]

Also, never admit that you texted her and she never responded. Pretend you did not even notice and that you hadnot realized it had been awhile since you all have talked

 

[MtnMan]

dude you are way to excited for this chick. You are waiting with baited breath for her to text back? Yipe.

 

[orbion2013]

hey she text me... i made no attempt to contact her at all...

in the end she gave in & decided to start texting, wanting to know what was up with me... i just played it cool


so guys, in this situation do i call her out, for taking 2 days to text me back?? i found it really rude

or do i pretend it didn't bother me, and carry on banging her as usual????

the thing is, if i don't call her out... she might take me for some kinda spineless puzzy... and she might think it's ok to ignore me time and time again

next time it could be 3 days or 4 days

if i call her out & she does not like it... she can go walk, i don't care!

 

[orbion2013]

the benefits of calling her out... she realisez i will not put up with games/drama/bullsh@t or else she gets ejected

the downside of calling her out... makes it look like it bothered me, her not texting me back for two days... she could use that against me another time, just to pizz me off... might make me look needy??

to be honest, i don't care if she does not text me much... it's the fact that she ignored my text for 2 days, is what got me annoyed

i found it rude & f@ckin disrespectful

 

[Suspens]

She doesn't care, and If you express frustration of any kind, her STD-hole will be closed to you forever.

Best way to deal with disrespect is to act as if she is dead, just like she is doing it to you.

 

[orbion2013]

She doesn't care, and If you express frustration of any kind, her STD-hole will be closed to you forever.

Best way to deal with disrespect is to act as if she is dead, just like she is doing it to you.

dude she is texting me now... she reckons she was unwell and very busy

 

[Suspens]

Ok so stop being vengeful and ask her to come over.

She might have been really busy and couldn't make time to suck your D, as she knows very well why guys contact her, so she didn't reply.

 

[orbion2013]

Ok so stop being vengeful and ask her to come over.

She might have been really busy and couldn't make time to suck your D, as she knows very well why guys contact her, so she didn't reply.

hey man, i am very busy guy too.... i don't care if she doesn't have time to text me back & forth... i don't text her that much myself

it's the fact i asked her something in my text to her & she didn't think i warrented a reply till 2 days later

i mean takes 1 minute to fire a text back...i found it rude & disrespectful..

if i don't call her on that sh@t ... then she will think it's ok to keep on ignoring my text, because i don't have balls enough to say something


whats the point in ignoring her back? thats just f@cking silly mind games & only leads more games

 

[Suspens]

How rude.

Dump her ass then, don't take her back even if she starts crying and begging. Tell her "I'm dumping you right now, never text me again, IT'S FINAL!"

 

[Turuwal]

goddamn those texts reek of butthurt

anything other than logistics and offers to fvck just ignore what she says and respond with whatever random thoughts happen to be passing through your mind

btw a good response for anything where a girl is asking where you were or why you didn't respond is "do you miss me?" or something similar