Alphathree
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I get hurt from time to time by woman. Hey, it happens to the best of us. Tonight is one such night.
My training tells me to supress my emotions... but I've also found the past few times I've been hurt (lol) that allowing yourself just one night or perhaps one hour to just experience those feelings is helpful to getting over them.
I'm not sure if this is the psychologically "best" way, but rather than carry all that B.S. on your back, just let yourself feel all of it-- jealousy, self pity, sadness, lonliness, whatever other bullsh!t is running around in your head-- and then once you're satisfied, drop all of it and move on.
It's the way to balance humanity with pickup. Let yourself be human for a little while. At least that's what I'm doing right now.
I apologize in advance for the mild mushiness of this post. I'll be fine in the morning.
My training tells me to supress my emotions... but I've also found the past few times I've been hurt (lol) that allowing yourself just one night or perhaps one hour to just experience those feelings is helpful to getting over them.
I'm not sure if this is the psychologically "best" way, but rather than carry all that B.S. on your back, just let yourself feel all of it-- jealousy, self pity, sadness, lonliness, whatever other bullsh!t is running around in your head-- and then once you're satisfied, drop all of it and move on.
It's the way to balance humanity with pickup. Let yourself be human for a little while. At least that's what I'm doing right now.
I apologize in advance for the mild mushiness of this post. I'll be fine in the morning.