Getting Her to Give me Head

[foomee]

So my girlfriend and I have been dating for about 4 months, and we have sex quite often, but she has never given me head all the way. She's given it to other guys that she's been with, three others to be exact. And I just don't understand why she won't give me head. I've never received it, and I just want to try it out. She says she doesn't like doing it, and the guys she gave it to, they wanted to have sex with her, so she just gave them head because she didn't want to have sex at the time. What can I do to have her give it to me? I've told her "fine, I'll get it from someone else", which I can easily do, but I don't want to because this relationship is starting to get serious. And nothing I do works. Any tips?

 

[jonwon]

Mm tricky one this, I have seen girls with the same thing.

Way I got around it is if they did something to pee me of, I mean something bad, then I said you may have to make it up to me and called her on it.
But like most as soon as they do it they actually like it, most girls I have been with that give head get very aroused them-selves.

Drink can also help take her out have a great time, get a bit tipsy and just ask her or say no sex until you do, women want sex too.

Thing is to try not to be so accommodation, you say its getting serious and the girl wont even give head, she does not sound very giving to me, hey she should do it to please you anyway, that’s the way I see it, it is obviously important to you, its not like it I will kill her now is it and In truth girls say they don’t like but when they do it, it gets them very turned on.

Next time she wants sex, say you need to turn me on, a blow job would be a great way to do it, I will go get a shower and be all clean for it! Keep pressing home that you want a Bjob and stick to your guns, problem is when she says no and offers up the other thing most guys give in at that’s stage.

 

[foomee]

Mm tricky one this, I have seen girls with the same thing.

Way I got around it is if they did something to pee me of, I mean something bad, then I said you may have to make it up to me and called her on it.
But like most as soon as they do it they actually like it, most girls I have been with that give head get very aroused them-selves.

Drink can also help take her out have a great time, get a bit tipsy and just ask her or say no sex until you do, women want sex too.

Thing is to try not to be so accommodation, you say its getting serious and the girl wont even give head, she does not sound very giving to me, hey she should do it to please you anyway, that’s the way I see it, it is obviously important to you, its not like it I will kill her now is it and In truth girls say they don’t like but when they do it, it gets them very turned on.

Next time she wants sex, say you need to turn me on, a blow job would be a great way to do it, I will go get a shower and be all clean for it! Keep pressing home that you want a Bjob and stick to your guns, problem is when she says no and offers up the other thing most guys give in at that’s stage.

Well the thing is, she's tried before, but she's only done it like a minute. She's never done it all the way. She also uses the excuse that her mouth is too small and I'm too big, while at the same time complimenting me on my size... which is very clever if you ask me. Anyways, if I tell her I want her to do that first before sex, she might sometimes, but not long. I want her to do it all the way until I cvm. I'll try the "you should make it up to me" thing, since it's worked with sex in the past. But my main goal is to get her to do it all the way.

 

[KontrollerX]

Is she cool with you getting it from other chicks?

If so I don't really see the problem.

 

[spider_007]

cutt her off

no more sex for her.

get her warmed up to the point that she thinks it's gona happen, and then get up and walk away

and if she asks what's wrong, don't tell her the first few times.....and then give her the; "it's just not the same.....i really wana try it....bha bhla bhla"


(desclamer; don't know if it'll work, it's just an idea)

 

[mountain]

What can I do to have her give it to me? I've told her "fine, I'll get it from someone else", which I can easily do, but I don't want to because this relationship is starting to get serious. And nothing I do works. Any tips?

You told her that you would get it elsewhere. Perfectly fair. what did she say?
If you are going to be a man about it, then stop hassling her, follow up on your promises/threats and go get it elsewhere. If she gets the idea that you are getting head from someone else she will probably start doing it. If not, you are getting head from someone else. win, win.

On top of that, its a waste of time to force someone into something they dont want when there are other women who love giving head.

The main problem i see here is not getting head. the real problem is that you are beggining to trap yourself in the relationship and hand over the power. you may not see it from your perspective. but " I don't want to because this relationship is starting to get serious" is not the words of someone confident with their options. be careful or you will afc in this relationship soon.

 

[Vulpine]

Reciprocation.

Do you give HER head? If you do and she doesn't give it back, then stop giving her head. Don't make a big fuss about it, just stop. Then when she asks: "why don't you go down on me anymore?" You can tell her: "Why should I? You don't go down on me."

Why would she reciprocate if she can get all the head she wants and still not have to take a shot in the mouth? I know I wouldn't either.

 

[Krassus]

Dude do you uh... shower properly? Cuz 90% chance, that's probably it. Try that and if it doesn't work, talk to her. She's your gf, man. Tell her how you feel, make her UNDERSTAND, and she'll work with you.

 

[flexion_]

Try having sex with her on her period - she probably might find another option to not having sex.