Getting girls to pay for everything

devilkingx2

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this thread is pretty funny but unlike all the other guys here i'm in total support of the OP, however the first couple of posters got it right:

1. she doesn't like you enough to buy you free **** all the time(read: she doesn't like you as much as you think she does or think she should)

2. it woul be dumb as hell to dump a girl just because she won't give you free stuff, just be happy she's not actively trying to cost you money and is perfectly okay with a 50/50 split, i'd caution against pushing too hard on this unless you're willing to lose her or otherwise cause problems in the pursuit of greed lol.

aside from that keep on trucking, i can admire your desire for a girl who you can actively profit from dating, that sounds like a dream come true, unfortunately the idea is mostly fantasy not quite based in reality(unless she's particularly generous, particularly devoted to pleasing you or loose with her money)
 

DiegoSantori

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There seem to be so many haters here.

All some of you do is dog guys when they post anything halfway positive.
Nowadays, people call you a hater for everything smh. Just because i'm giving my opinion, doesn't mean that I'm hating.
 

marmel75

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If I'm inviting her out to hang and I don't pay her drink, why does that scream loser as in your original post? I grew up having everyone say be a gentleman and pay her drinks, take her to dinner and pay. The underlying factor of giving a free drink or meal is the icebreaker to "hey, if I get her stuff and am nice maybe she'll sleep with me". You're not saying it, but subconsciously everyone knows it. If I game her correct, she'll sleep with me regardless of money spent or not.
No, it's called having decorum and tact something clearly lacking in today's generation. It's called leading. It's called I'm a grown man and I don't go around looking for free handouts. It's a mindset and an attitude. Its taking pride in what it means to be a man. That is clearly lost on today's generation.
 
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Tell her they are cutting your hours at work and would love to go for a hike and coffee instead of bars and restaurants.

If gaining money is what you want.

See her reaction.
 
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