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im gonna be a freshman in college next year and im wondering how easy it is to get with girls in college. Are they all pretty much sluts and easy to get with? Do u have to try hard to get some or if u arent ugly as hell then ull get plenty? cause i want some play next year and am wondering if ill really have to work at it. cause i heard college girls are easy as hell and are very horny. Any experiences of freshmen year please share.
 

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Unless you're creepy, you'll pull girls in college. Here's my advice, however. College is so fvcking easy to pull girls that you'll develop no game at all. (mo= Go to party, get drunk, sleep with some girl I just met).
In my own experience, it worked great for me for a few years, and then I graduated. Hit the real world, didn't have any social proof at all outside of college, had several TERRIBLE relationships, and found myself at these websites trying to develop my game again. I'm doing great now, but there was a few years when I was kicking myself for not learning this stuff while I was in college.
In summary: you'll get laid as often as you want in college, keep studying this stuff, learn it all, and don't take it for granted because chicks are abundant for a few years.

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NOPE NOPE, DO NOT listen to Mutiny. It is harder than Hell to get women in college. Think of the 3 factors that get women (money, looks, and power), now think of the people who go to college; Rich usually good looking guys who often have power, and now think of most of the women who go to college and why they are there. Most women are in college to find a good looking guy who is smart and has wealthy parents to fall back on. Just yester day some b!tches where talking about a guy who took them home all they where interested in was his car and his house. It may be different where Mutiny went to school but here on the west coast thats how things are done. It is NOTHING like the movies, think about it how many teen movies have you seen that mimic your high school? its the same for college.
 

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4afe......you have a REALLY good point. I went to school on the west coast as well, but I was also the social chairman of my frat so I had some serious social proof at that place. I would recommend that Adam gets into a social circle somehow, and play that angle. I think that's what I was trying to say. If you're just some guy sitting in the back row of class you're not going to be able to pull girls. You don't have to be rich or powerful, but get into a social circle where you APPEAR that way, eg a frat, or a cool group.

Mutiny

PS It's the same way in the "real world"........guys that APPEAR like they're cool, money dudes, get the girls.
 

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it all depends on your game ... if you are in a frat, thats a little different story, but frats are only for certain people ... you have to be able to put up with a lot of female type drama in a strictly male environment. its seriously like dealing with a bunch of whiny chicks when it comes to anything serious.

but back to the point .. ive had a lot of chances to hook up with plenty of girls .. it really isnt that hard, a lot of the time you really just have to be in the right place at the right time. AND YOU HAVE TO KNOW AN OPPORTUNITY WHEN ITS PLACED IN FRONT OF YOU. i screwed up on more than one occasion because of this problem ... there are a lot of sub-par girls in college that are easy to lay, just make sure you arent a wallflower and have a little bit of personality, and it probably wont be that difficult ...
 

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Originally posted by MF28
a lot of the time you really just have to be in the right place at the right time. AND YOU HAVE TO KNOW AN OPPORTUNITY WHEN ITS PLACED IN FRONT OF YOU. i screwed up on more than one occasion because of this problem ... wont be that difficult ...
So true. That used to be my problem too. Often times I would not realise a girl was interested in me. I still struggle with this a little bit, but I'm gettin better.
 

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I don't think it's that easy.

Adam,

I know you've heard all the rumors about women in university being 'loose,' so to speak. They aren't true.

When you start university (or junior college, whatever the case may be) you'll quickly find that your day is going to be quite a bit like high school. You'll go to class, then you'll go home.

You'll find that there are no cliques, less drama, and reputation won't matter at all like it did in high school. No one is going to say "Oh my gosh! Did you hear what Susie Q did Saturday night?" because except for a small few, no one is going to know who Susie Q is.

Once I felt the same way you do; excited. However, I've attended a junior college for a short while and currently I attend a regular four year university. "Getting women" as you say isn't a bed a roses, even though roses have thorns. The party lifestyle is a joke if you compare it to what the urban legends tell you. Sure, there are parties. However, people don't often go crazy and the women there aren't desirable because when they are very drunk, they're no fun (That's my opinion. I'll never take "advantage" of and rape a drunk woman, it's wrong.). It's actually pretty difficult to talk to women in a party setting, because A) the music and/or noise is too loud, and B) you have to do it within the first couple hours or else they'll be too drunk. You'll occasionally find the woman who will stay sober all night, but they are few and far in between.

Whatever you've heard regarding university women is nothing but a load of hot air. I've attended long enough to see what it's like. You're not going to go "party" every weekend, and you're not going to have sex left and right. Finding a girlfriend isn't going to be any easier.

I hope that what I wrote here is of some help to you.

I don't know how much of a difference this makes, but I drive a crappy car ('99 Ranger), live in a crappy apartment (rundown and no A/C), and my allowance from my parents is barely enough to cover my expenses (so I don't have a whole lot of money). I'd probably be singing a different tune if I drove a Cadillac CTS-V or a Mercedes S500 and lived in a nice, fully furnished house.

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Girls in college aren't slutty.. contrary to popular belief. They are more willing than highschoolers however.
It's not a breeze getting girls in college, if you live at home then forget about getting a girl. If you live in a dorm you'll prob get laid often.
I live at home and it's impossible to get girls in my 50min. classes. Half the time theyre too far away to talk to, don't expect the classroom to be a good pickup area.. I'm guessing all the magic happens in the dorms, whicih i dont live in.. damn.
 

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Like the real world, there's all kinds

In college there are loose women, there are conservative women, Christian women, athiests, strict, liberal, wild, uptight and prissy, you name it. There's someone for everyone.

The common thread I like about college women is for the most part they have goals and dreams. Yes, there are a few on daddy's bankroll just hanging in a sorority living the high life. The majority I found though are working hard to become educated and pursue a degree. They actually have brains --- something a lot of girls in high school don't have. And the one's who come in shallow often leave very deep and educated.

Great point on how it's not like high school with the gossip and cliques. There are very few. You can find the type of woman you want, whether sex happens is up to you and her and what kind of people you are. If you want to have a scorecard, you can if you want. Some gals in my dorm as an undergrad many years ago had two horses side by side on the wall, and whoever screwed a guy moved up one -- or so, that was the rumor. They were wild, but unlike HS girls, were pretty nice and had some brains.

Finally, college girls are WAY better than most working world girls. I went back to grad school after more than 10 years off from undergrad. My life went from dating bimbo secretaries and airhead advertising reps to interesting, wordly, sexy women.
 

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most of what everybody else has posted here seems more like ***** excuses and BS to me ...

maybe my school is crazier than others ... but i live in an all-student apartment complex directly across the street from san diego state, there are parties almost every night of the week ...

whoever said there arent parties every weekend probably goes to a private university or just a JC... most universities .. from my experience.. are like this.

and the whole reason college chicks (ESPECIALLY FRESHMAN) are easier to get is because they are getting their first doses of freedom and they want to go wild and experience "what the college life is all about." i only wish i was lucky enough to live in the dorms my first semester at college, i didnt move in til 2nd semester of my first year, and everybody had already formed their groups and had their fun .. but the first week of living in the dorms (i only know through stories) will probably be the craziest week of your life.

and if somebody is complaining that they cant meet girls in a college atmosphere ... they are going to an adult-dominated school or are *****s who wont approach
 

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Originally posted by Kendog
Girls in college aren't slutty.. contrary to popular belief. They are more willing than highschoolers however.
It's not a breeze getting girls in college, if you live at home then forget about getting a girl. If you live in a dorm you'll prob get laid often.
I live at home and it's impossible to get girls in my 50min. classes. Half the time theyre too far away to talk to, don't expect the classroom to be a good pickup area.. I'm guessing all the magic happens in the dorms, whicih i dont live in.. damn.
Ken,

Why do you think that one can forget about the idea if he lives at his parents' house? I assume that is what you mean when you say "home," since you differentiate it from a dormitory setting.

Also, how about when one lives alone? That describes me right now. I live in a one bedroom apartment so obviously no roommates (I can't stand the idea of sharing a living space like that!!).

Ben

Originally posted by MF28 PART I:
most of what everybody else has posted here seems more like ***** excuses and BS to me ...
MF28,

Maybe so.

Was my post one of those considered to be a slew of excuses? I simply stated what the experience is like to me.

Originally posted by MF28 PART II:
maybe my school is crazier than others ... but i live in an all-student apartment complex directly across the street from san diego state, there are parties almost every night of the week ...

whoever said there arent parties every weekend probably goes to a private university or just a JC... most universities .. from my experience.. are like this.
Okay. I agree with you there. There have been slumps, but there's almost always parties going on at my university. However I don't go more often because sometimes none of my friends are available to go with me and I don't think I'd have a good time at a party without friends.

Originally posted by MF28 PART III:
and the whole reason college chicks (ESPECIALLY FRESHMAN) are easier to get is because they are getting their first doses of freedom and they want to go wild and experience "what the college life is all about."
You really think so? I haven't noticed this. I know it's probably a very trying experience since it's usually a completely new environment. I don't know firsthand since I just went to a local junior college and then a local university so I could continue to live in my hometown (where I've always lived, by the way).

You really think that stressful experience is going to make women be even inclined to engage in sexual acts? If I was exposed to such an experience I'd be trying to find stability and regain sanity, not trying to have sex as much as possible. While then again, I'm a man so that just might be one of the differences.

Originally posted by MF28 PART IV:
i only wish i was lucky enough to live in the dorms my first semester at college, i didnt move in til 2nd semester of my first year, and everybody had already formed their groups and had their fun .. but the first week of living in the dorms (i only know through stories) will probably be the craziest week of your life.
Crazy? Is that a good thing? I doubt it. Plus the fact it's expensive for what you get back (space, etc.) and not even half of my things would fit into one of those rooms.

Originally posted by MF28 PART V:
and if somebody is complaining that they cant meet girls in a college atmosphere ... they are going to an adult-dominated school or are *****s who wont approach
Technically, anyone age 18+ is an adult. I do agree there is a difference between 18-22 and 22.5+, and that it may be easier in the former category.

About going to a woman and talking to her, I think that's something everyone has trouble doing. I know I have it bad because I tend to prefer women slightly older (two to four years) than I am, because I can identify with them better. I know I'd have more chances if I was willing to "settle" for a younger woman closer to my age, but I'm a little apprehensive about doing that. Also there's a difference between those who have only lived on campus and those who never have or currently don't. The latter tends to be more mature, I think.

Perhaps I should just go for it, even though I'm apprehensive about doing it.

Ben
 

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I just meant with parents, having your own apartment is different.
 

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Yeah living with parents bites, so does not having money to throw around.
 

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I don't know bout you guys in the west coast, but I go to school in upstate NY, and boy can the girls here get you down. I mean, if all you want is some ONS, then there are parties every weekend (starting Thursday). But when you start looking for a cute, smart girl whose head isn't full of air (one would think college girls would have a brain), thing gets pretty messy.

We've had a couple of "Cornell girls" threads in the past, but thing is that school here is kinda isolated (from the main town and from the rest of civilization), so girls, specially freshman, find it that they are all the bomb diggity cause they are the only supply of pvssy guys at school have. Result? Bytchiness Extravaganza. Sorry for the negative post, but I'm kinda turned off by the atmosphere here right now, waiting to get my **** done and hopefully meet some quality girls in the meantime. Good luck. G
 

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Meet People

Okay well I only read the first 5 or 6 replies, so maybe somebody has already said this, but the main key to getting girls in college in my opinion is that you must MEET LOTS OF NEW FRIENDS

Do whatever you have to do to accomplish this. If you want to try to maintain your dignity or something and not join a frat or suck up to people for the first semester, then fine, try to be just a cool guy for one semester. But if by the middle of your freshman year you don't have the opportunity to go out multiple times every weekend, and your goal is to meet girls, you absolutely must do something drastic.

That might mean joining a frat, switching dorms, completely humbling yourself and just flat out asking cool looking people if you can hang with them because you have no friends, etc. Whatever you do, you have to make some friends. Hopefully you're at a huge University like me - Don't worry about appearances when you're meeting new people at college. You can't develop a reputation for being a loser or something, there are just too many people.

The key to meeting/dating/sleeping with lots of girls is that you actually have to meet them. It's really just a numbers game. Sitting in your dorm or apartment on your computer isn't going to result in too many opportunities. There are thousands of thousands of girls out there, the more you can meet the better. If your goal is to branch out and meet women, you don't want to be sitting around with the same people.

So make lots of friends.

The past few weeks I've been dating this one girl who is is a 9 on looks and a 10 on personality. A year ago in high-school (or even last semster) I would have been completely infatuated, AFC, even though I know that I shouldn't be. Tonight before we went out, she told me that she only wants to hang out and isn't up for a relationship. A year ago I would have been devastated, but tonight I'm happy - I now have a new amazing friend to hang out with and meet people through (we still had a great time tonight), and when I go out tomorrow night I can hook up with a cute girl I went out with last night without feeling like I'm settling for a sure-thing 8.5 over a finicky 9.5.

I'm really having a good time right now (even though the most amazing girl just shut me down) because I've got tons of options. Behind this next one are three more possible girls HB>7 who I have good chances with. And having lots of options makes those other girls want you more - you'll seem confident and interesting.

One thing you want to think about to fascilitate this is that you should try to make literally every person you meet your friend. I'm talking ugly girls, random guys, everybody. Get a person's name, smile at them, and genuinly say something like "I'll see you around, we'll defenitely hang out sometime." Even if you've only just been introduced, and have no reason to say that, you should. This is simply so that you can use them to network later on. LEARN TO REMEMBER NAMES the first time they are told to you. It's not funny, so much as it is pathetic and average, to talk about how you "never remember people's names." No matter how little you know someone, calling out their name when you see them in an excited way is going to get you a favorable response. People love to think that others know them. Find a strategy for remembering names. Saying it to yourself or back to the person is just a gimmick, that never really works. Try associating the person with another person of the same name who you know well.

If you're looking for ways to stand out, the best one by far in college is to BE POSITIVE. You're going to get to college and realize that a lot of what college students do is complain. They complain about class, the weather, how there's nothing to do, their roommates, and basically everything else. If you simply say good things about everything, you'll stand out. Smile, don't sulk.


I guess that's all i've got right now. Good luck, I'm sure you'll have a blast as long as you're thinking about this stuff. You may go through some tough times getting to where you want to be, but getting to where you're going isn't *difficult* as long as you're trying a little bit. It's the people who just get to college and expect girls to automatically flock around them who have to worry.
 

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Actually, I've met every girl I've ever dated seriously in my classes, straight up from high school to university.

Not to say that this number is more than 10, or that I know what I'm doing, because I only recently discovered this site. But the point is that there are some good opportunities in class as well as outside of class.

I've found that just talking to the people around you there is a great way to get to know lots of new people at the beginning of a semester, and to create some opportunities. You are also guaranteed to be meeting people with some degree of intelligence and right off the bat you have a shared interest. IMHO, it is the best place to pick up women with whom you are interested in having a longer-term relationship.
 

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WHO EVER SAID GIRLS IN COLLEGE ARE EASY....???EITHER REALLY GOOD PLAYERS OR JUST FULL OF BULL....!!!MY FIRST YEAR AT COLLEGE WAS AIIGHT I WENT OUT WITH TWO GIRLS WHO WERE REALLY TOUGH SAFES TOP CRACK IF YOU KNOW WHAT I MEAN.....!!!MY ADVICE TO YOU, MOST GIRLS WILL ONLY GO OUT WITH YOU IF YOU ARE POPULAR RICH OR REALLY GOOD LOOKING.....TRY MAKING A NEW FRIEND EVERY DAY AT SCHOOL AND HANG OUT WITH PEOPLE OF HIGH SOCIAL STATUS.....AND AFTER A FEW MONTHS SIT BACK AND REEL THEM IN....SOME OF THEM ARE JUST LOOKING FOR A GOOD TIME BUT MOST OF THEM NEED TO SEE SOME ALPHA MALE CHARACTERISTICS, SO SHOW THEM JUST HOW MUCH BALLS YOU HAVE WITHOUT BEING A TOTAL JACKASS...
PLAY ON PLAYER......!!!


"THE RAINBOWS OF LIFE FOLLOW THE STORMS."
 

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Just curious but does anyone on here go to the University of Hawaii Manoa? Cuase I'm most likely going to college there next year and was wondering if anyone had any feedback on the party scene and women and such. Oh I will also be living in a dorm and from what I understand it will be easier to meet people, more specifically girls, in that atmosphere.
 

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Abcd, your post will be very helpful when I go to college in August. Seriously. I saved it on my computer.

What University are you going to?
 

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U of I

I'm at University of Illinois at Champaign/Urbana. Do you know where you're headed next year? We've got over 30,000 people here, which means there's something like six thousand girls for me to choose from. When I calculate that out and think about it, it actually seems like a really small number compared to what's available in the real world. But realistically, you'll never manage to meet all of them.

I'm glad I could be of some help hopefully. Like I said, no need to worry, because long as you are a reasonably outgoing person, you would probably figure this stuff out for yourself.

One more thing I should have pointed out - if you live on campus, you will likely make some really good friends in your dorm or whatever in the first couple weeks. Don't let these people become your only social outlet. Diversification is key. I didn't have a very good time in my first semester because I just didn't know enough people. I hung out with the same few girls and guys all the time, and when I broke up with my girlfiend and stopped hanging out with them, I was dead in the water. It's great to have a small group of really good friends at college, and it will make your big-school experience feel much more like home. But don't make them your only friends.
 
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