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Getting easy IOI: Is This Common? Do You Experience This Too?

jhonny9546

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I often notice that women, after a short interaction, show me incredible IOI.

Let's give the gym example: it could be that I ask them if I could use the machine after they end using, or if I could use a weight or barbell they aren't using. Even to I'm not trying to flirt, after this first interaction, they'll usually start to show interest. Some of them will start heavy/obvious IOI. It won't happen often, but let's say 50% of it. All those women are pretty let's say from 6 to 8. Then, day after this, if we met again, they'll start to smile or just making sure they are near me. Now, lately, this happens frequently, and I wonder if it's normal. If that happen also to you, and at which point of it.

As someone who's 5'5" in a world where 6'3" is the new standard, I'm curious about what makes me interesting to them. Is it my voice, way of speaking, or how I gaze, How I move? I'd like to understand this better, this could be a weapon if only I could understand what it is.

I've heard many women say I have beautiful eyes, but this doesn't explain they will show interest after our first interaction, or spending a lil time togheter.
 

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Too hell with fvcking IOIs for God's sake. Please eliminate IOIs from your vocabulary ASAP. IOIs are just code for I am too pvssy to make a move. One time I had a threesome with two random girls sitting next to me at a bar. There were no IOIs given, I just approached them and bam. However, there's a girl at the gym that says hi and smiles to me and follows me around the gym. Guess what, she has a boyfriend or husband that goes to the gym with her, so what do you make of that IOI?
 

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It might make sense, but maybe I explained myself badly: I don't go to the gym to notice "ioi's", it's what happens while I'm focused on doing my thing, which is different. They are so obvious that there is no need to "focus" on them. I would just like to understand why it happens after the first interaction. Their behaviour change towards me.

@Hamurabimbi @CornbreadFed I agree up to a point
 

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Too hell with fvcking IOIs for God's sake. Please eliminate IOIs from your vocabulary ASAP. IOIs are just code for I am too pvssy to make a move. One time I had a threesome with two random girls sitting next to me at a bar. There were no IOIs given, I just approached them and bam. However, there's a girl at the gym that says hi and smiles to me and follows me around the gym. Guess what, she has a boyfriend or husband that goes to the gym with her, so what do you make of that IOI?
What about IOI’s acted upon?
 

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If a girl likes you. She will be unambiguous.
When I’ve used the term IOI I’ve had in mind lack of ambiguity. Am I using it incorrectly?
 

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I often notice that women, after a short interaction, show me incredible IOI.

Let's give the gym example: it could be that I ask them if I could use the machine after they end using, or if I could use a weight or barbell they aren't using. Even to I'm not trying to flirt, after this first interaction, they'll usually start to show interest. Some of them will start heavy/obvious IOI. It won't happen often, but let's say 50% of it. All those women are pretty let's say from 6 to 8. Then, day after this, if we met again, they'll start to smile or just making sure they are near me. Now, lately, this happens frequently, and I wonder if it's normal. If that happen also to you, and at which point of it.

As someone who's 5'5" in a world where 6'3" is the new standard, I'm curious about what makes me interesting to them. Is it my voice, way of speaking, or how I gaze, How I move? I'd like to understand this better, this could be a weapon if only I could understand what it is.

I've heard many women say I have beautiful eyes, but this doesn't explain they will show interest after our first interaction, or spending a lil time togheter.
They are showing you interest because you didn’t come off as a weirdo and apparently have pretty eyes. I’ve also noticed that men under 5’10 can play into the pretty boy stereotype extremely well. I would look into dressing yourself and maintaining your whole head to encourage more interests from women who prefer less intimidating men(which is popular right now thanks to stuff like KPOP and innocent looking actors becoming famous like Pedro Pascal).

I have something similar going on and it’s because i am desirable. I would start by greeting them and eventually building up to basic rapport from there. Don’t rush things because your job right now is to draw attention by being polite. You will ruin your chances with most of the women there if you misplay this.
 
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