Getting discouraged

[captain55]

I just nexted a bumble guy because he insisted on calling me pet names "hottie" "sexy" etc. We had a great initial conversation, then the interaction tanked. I told him hearing these "pet names" from a complete stranger didn't sit well with me. He declared he understood, yet continued to do it.

Also, my girl friend was all set to start a FWB scenario with a long time family friend. He dropped an"outfit" off for her to wear for their first encounter, and then proceeded to text her all night long, asking her for pics, etc, even tho she clearly stated she was watching a movie with her kid, and would catch up with him later. He persisted. The final straw was when he asked her for a picture of her "cans". That was the nail in the coffin. The big turn off for her. They never initiated the FWB situation.

Choose your words wisely unless you really don't care.

Best bet right now? Do nothing. If she's interested she will reach out. After all, the text convo ended with you asking her a question. If she's interested she WILL reach out and answer the question, or just reach out.

For now, pursue other beeshes

When it comes to a 8.5 in LA, from a one time interaction...I don't know about this. Unless your a celebrity the chick will lose interest in a few days. Most women above an 8 out here are talking to celebrities, multi millionaires, etc. Ive been involved with two women that had celebrities after them just this year.

I had one situation where I met a true 9 out here...she followed up and met me a week later. Surprise surprise, she was from Texas. Thats the only reason she met up with me.

Any man that wants to get amazing with women in real life? Move to the LA. You go anywhere else after a few years out here and you will be shocked at how down to earth, easy, and direct most women are.

 

[RichardTheFrog]

One of the few members that has backed up his conquests with tons of pictures.

Where can I find these? I'd love to see someone else with proof.

Can you name the titles of a few threads I should look at.

 

[captain55]

EVeryones fake in LA. In every sense of the word

I’m from nyc where you consider it easy by comparison but I know I would kill in la.

Dhv till you drop dead. All these chicks are down to bang a guy a they think is a somebody or has connections in the entertainment industry without a second thought. Ever heard of the metoo movement?

And if you’re not just looking for the bang or willing to stretch the truth about your status, then what the hell are you doing trying to meet women in LA and then bltching here about it?

You’re not really impressing anyone because you think your challenges are tougher in your city. I’ve had women literally grab me by my balls after minutes of conversation outside of bars, gotten head and lays in office bathrooms, janitor closets, venues etc. big whoop. You don’t see me bragging

The challenges of LA aren’t tougher. They’re just a little different.

Adapt your game if you want to succeed. I told you before you can’t exoect your looks and or muscles to do all the work for you. Which is exactly why your game is lacking. I called it since the first thread I responded to you. Man I’m good

Please don’t tell me your actually comparing the easiest city to bang attractive women to the toughest? I’ve spent time in both places.

Banging attractive women in La can be done but it is more difficult than New York. New York is a players paradise. In New York I could game chicks on the subway,at my apartment, last call isn’t until 4 am, Italian women are more up front as well.... far more women to men available. What is manhataans ratio like six girls to one guy or some ****?

La has last call at 2am, far more women to men. Getting a chick back from a club to your house is a 20-30 minute drive. Not saying it can’t be done it just takes more work and less skill.

Ask any serious pick up artist....New York is a players paradise. I know guys that kill in ny come here and do terrible

 

[BeExcellent]

Well if you already know everything then why are you asking? All the things I told you in my earlier posts are valid and things that would cause me to RUN the other way, even if I thought you were initially attractive. I'm a woman and I've had men act like this and it kills any desire, I'm telling you.

Again one final question I ask you...if a girl wasn’t interested, why would she call me back?

I get approached regularly when I'm in LA by high powered men who think throwing a little money around is going to get them laid. While on assignment there a while ago I dated a man in the film production business from Malibu. Great guy, very handsome, sophisticated gentleman. Seriously (confirmed diagnosis BPD) bat sh*t crazy ex wife. In fact learning about the BPD his ex wife had (it was horrible for their children) was how I stumbled across this site as I was part of his support network during some very tough times involving his ex and his teens.

I get the LA market. But women in LA are still women and they still do the same stuff they do elsewhere. See the answer to your question below.

1. She's bored & you're a bit of entertainment.

2. The guy she REALLY likes hasn't called and she needs a distraction (quite possible on a Friday night, actually) to take her mind off him for a little bit.

3. She thinks you might take her out for dinner somewhere nice sometime & who doesn't like a free dinner...especially in LA where dinner for 2 with a little wine at a nice place can run a couple hundred dollars or more.

Those are your most likely reasons.

Has she reached back out?

 

[Trump]

I am dealing with 8.5’s and 9’s out of LA exclusively....los angeles is a different breed my man. In new york I had two chicks one an 8 the other a 7 run up to me asking for a threesome my first week there. You can forget about that in Los Angeles, this is an extremely difficult pull. Lots of middle eastern women that are very closed off. I would say even more difficult than Miami..at least in Miami you have sexually open latinas...and even then miami is no cake walk.

Props bro. By your text game, I would think you hadn’t had sex in 2 years.

In LA if you aren't jacked, good looking, or rich you can not even get your foot in the door with a 9 here. This is not new york where you have endless amounts of ***** to chose from where the girls are aggressive/open and don't play games.

That’s not true. You just don’t know how to sell yourself in LA.

What girl in the history of the world doesn’t ‘play games’? Everyone does. Everything is a power trip. For a guy who had 2 8/10 run up to him begging him to give them sex, you sound pretty naive on here.

Now your telling me a 9 from LA nonetheless is going out of her way to call men to see how desperate they are? On a Friday night? My friend, a woman knows if a man is desperate or if he has other women after him based strictly on his looks and demeanor. You can argue with me until the cows come home on this one.

Bro you got to be kidding me. Do you not have life experience?

99% of the time when a 9/10 is calling you on Friday night, she has a boyfriend. These girls don’t want to connect with you. They want to make a fool out of you. See how far you come in, see what you are about, see who you are, see how many options you have, so they can tell you to get lost and break you down so they can feel powerful.

Remember Men, EVERY WOMEN HAS AN AGENDA and it does not include liking you.