getting back to reality

[NOMORETALKINGMOREDOING]

Ok here is my first post and its not going to be pretty. I have noticed that a lot of guys on here give a lot of advice on how to be really cool with girls and how to handle girls and how to... how to..., girls,girls,girls. Now from my experience i can tell you one thing. Girls have nothing special and have nothing to offer but ***** for you and thats what drives all the guys stupid. If you would just realize that there is nothing to worry about when about to meet a girl and you have to do nothing special when meeting a girl you would do much better. All you have to do when trying to meet a girl is do whatever you would do in society to come accross as a great person. You would be polite, friendly, attentive, maybe a little flirtatious, funny, all in all you would try to be a good companion generally. And thats all you have to do with girls also, nothing special. If the girl likes you when she comes accross you whe will react positively to you and thats all. If she is a ***** she wont and oh well nobody cares anyway and neither should you. But if you noticed this happens in society in general also with everybody not just girls. So i dont understand why freak out and obsess how you can get more girls and how you can please the girls and make the girls like you and so on, just dont bother with that ****. Instead just concentrate on improving yourself as a person for your own good. Enjoy life for all is worth for yourself first and dont worry about trying to please anybody by being certain way or doing certain things. Just be like you would be in society generally with everybody else and you will do fine with girls. Also on a final point i have also noticed that some guys and even some "experts" pointed out that you dont have to be good looking to actually get goood looking girls to talk to you. They were pointing out saying that some ugly, fat guy was chating it up and have a great time with great looking women just because he had the nerve to go up to that woman and talk to her. Well that is true because there is always exceptions to a rule and also believe it or not some gorgeus girls like their guys on the chubbier side. But the truth here is that the guy who is going to sleep with that gorgeus girl most of the time is not the fat guy but the good looking, shallow, selfish guy. And that is because good looking women look for good looking guys only and are sexually attracted mainly only to good looking guys. Its a natural and animalistic way to go about it. They will chat up and have fun with the fat guy because mainly sexual tension is off and if he is a great companion then she has fun and will stick around. But rarely will she sleep with him and thats the truth. Those guys out there the experts selling books saying that if you do this and that you will get any girl anywhere are full of ****. There are a million reasons why even if you are the greatest companion people generally not just girls will act ****ty towards you in certain situations. And you dont need to buy a book to tell you that. You just need to realize that and move on. Also you need to realize that NO you cant get any girls phone number at any time, NO you cant attract any girl with your charming character, funny side and good looks. But if you have those qualities you will do better in society generally and will be more successfull than others. But i think the most important thing that i should have mentioned in my opinion is all the guys should stop obsessing and worrying about how to please the girls and get more of them and make girls like them, instead of all that concentrate on improving yourself as a person, continously, {trust me there is always something to improve i know that for myself lol} enjoy everything you can to the fullest, have fun and stop worrying. If girls will like you they will let you know in their own "sophisticated" way and if they dont they will also let you know promptly lol. All you have to do when dealing with girls is not to care about the outcome of your trying to get some, and not to worry if you get shot down it means absolutely **** all and you should take just like nothing happends. It may be a little harder at the beginning but really you know you did nothing wrong (and i hope you didnt lol} and thats just it. So just have FUN and stop worrying.

 

[mistyc]

Your post should get back to reality too.

As in, make paragraphs!

 

[2N Turbo]

Once I got to the middle, I started to see 3D illusions and shyt. Paragraphs please.

 

[WampaLord]

And shorten your screen name

It shifts all the actual posts to the right

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Whenever you gamble, eventually you lose.

 

[tweeder]

I like what you have to say in some of your post, but I disagree with one thing. You make it sound like average looking guys have no chance with hot girls. THIS IS NOT TRUE. I fear a bunch of newbies will read your post and think that they have no chance with women.

I posted something in this tips section not too long ago with a picture of me just to show I'm nothing more than an average looking guy. But I've gotten more than my fair share of good looking women with nothing more than my confidence and smile.

So yes it can be done, and it's not that hard. Trust me on this you guys.

 

[mahon83050]

Originally posted by tweeder:
I like what you have to say in some of your post, but I disagree with one thing. You make it sound like average looking guys have no chance with hot girls. THIS IS NOT TRUE. I fear a bunch of newbies will read your post and think that they have no chance with women.

I posted something in this tips section not too long ago with a picture of me just to show I'm nothing more than an average looking guy. But I've gotten more than my fair share of good looking women with nothing more than my confidence and smile.

So yes it can be done, and it's not that hard. Trust me on this you guys.

Tweeder: Don't think i am a fag or nothing i am just being secure with my sexuality. You are better than an average looking dude. I would say you are around a 6 or 7 in the looks department, probably the same category as me. I classify average looking as neither attractive or unattractive. You do have an attractive appearance, so you are above average.

 

[Flyguy3663]

okay i am an advocate of reality. i think its pretty simple. if she is into me then its on. if not i dont waste time. physical attraction to me is more important than anything. i get a lot of shyt here cuz i like to brag about my physique or muscles but its just reality. thats what gets me pvssy. if a girl is attracted to you physically everything is easier.

now NOMORETALKING,

i assume u aint gettin laid or u wouldnt be here. now u are posting like uve got the answers but like i said u stumbled upon this site for some reason.


2NTURBO -- LOL that is funny that u are startin to see 3-D objects.. i saw one that said "I am a FVCKING LOSER"

 

[NOMORETALKINGMOREDOING]

Originally posted by Flyguy3663:
okay i am an advocate of reality. i think its pretty simple. if she is into me then its on. if not i dont waste time. physical attraction to me is more important than anything. i get a lot of shyt here cuz i like to brag about my physique or muscles but its just reality. thats what gets me pvssy. if a girl is attracted to you physically everything is easier.

now NOMORETALKING,

i assume u aint gettin laid or u wouldnt be here. now u are posting like uve got the answers but like i said u stumbled upon this site for some reason.


2NTURBO -- LOL that is funny that u are startin to see 3-D objects.. i saw one that said "I am a FVCKING LOSER"

Well for one thing you are right, I am not getting laid as often as i would like (i am a maniac though lmao). The reason i am here and this is my first time here is that i hope somebody could straigthen up some of the issues that i come accross when trying to actually have a longer lasting relationship.

I can get women though like i said not often as i would like; i get shot down very, very many times because of my looks, i am a little below average looking therefore i have to make up with extra confidence and being a little different and out there.

Anyways, i wanted some answers in how to stay out of trouble because it seems that i always end up with the psycho *****es or the dependent little things that have nothing to say for themselves. i go from one extreme to the other but i cant seem to be able to find somebody more "normal" and for a little longer time.

As a last thought, if you are getting laid so much and are so good with women what are you doing here yourself??

 

[NOMORETALKINGMOREDOING]

Originally posted by mistyc:
Your post should get back to reality too.

As in, make paragraphs!

You are right about the lengthy one big message. This is my first time posting anywhere on the internet so ill learn as i go LOL. Better next time. My apologies to all the people that tried to read it and probably gave up after a while because of vision problems LMAO as some people complained.

 

[tweeder]

mahon83050: Thanks for the compliment! I tend to give myself about the same rating as you did. But in my opinion I consider it to be average. 5 or less and you blend in with all the other guys. 8-10 and you're money. In between is average. Not a bad thing at all though.

NOMORETAL....: I didn't mean that I was nailing chicks left and right. I just mean that I get more girls than the average chump.

I am at this site because I owe all my success to these guys. They taught me everything I know. And I learn more every day. That's why I'm still here. PLus I feel I owe this site to at least offer what little help I can.

 

[Flyguy3663]

yo NOMORE,

i am hear to learn. i have been since around january. right now ive got a good thing goin. have a GF and i am very happy. getting pvssy on a regular basis and she is an awesome girl and friend to.

as far as leaving i dunno i mean i dont need the site but i like to learn all i can. its pretty simple man. confidence is the key. and it helps to try and improve yourself in other aspects of life to.

peace and good luck on the forum

 

[mahon83050]

Originally posted by tweeder:
mahon83050: Thanks for the compliment! I tend to give myself about the same rating as you did. But in my opinion I consider it to be average. 5 or less and you blend in with all the other guys. 8-10 and you're money. In between is average. Not a bad thing at all though.

NOMORETAL....: I didn't mean that I was nailing chicks left and right. I just mean that I get more girls than the average chump.

I am at this site because I owe all my success to these guys. They taught me everything I know. And I learn more every day. That's why I'm still here. PLus I feel I owe this site to at least offer what little help I can.

Tweeder I agree. I do not have a gorgeous face, nor am i a pretty boy. However, i have good hair, i am tall, and have a slightly above average face. There is an intermediary between average looking and very good looking. I do get checked out in decent amounts. I don't get checked out by super hot girls, but cute ones in the 6-8 range. This is fine by me, cause i am not looking for a gorgeous girl anyways. Bottom Line, a guy who is atleast a 6 in looks with confidence can pull quality ass. If you are a 5 or below your odds are significantly less.